As Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh Sister,
Yes it has been un-approved because the thread digressed a lot from the original topic. And the thread started herself requested it to be deleted.
And this forum is about providing authentic information on Islam. Its not a debating website.
We have lot of Muslims and Non-Muslims who want to sincerely know about Islam visit this Forum.
Too much argumentation and debate among Muslims can potentially turn these people away from Islaam rather than coming closer to it.
As long as threads follow the forum rules(Rules -->
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=81) and are thread opener does not request it to be closed, we don't delete them.
Yes, the people involved are sometimes informed about the reason why it was closed.
But, sometimes we (Moderators) might not have the luxury of sending explanations for each and every thread closed or moderated...