Abu.Amirah said:
:salam2:
Any comment? advice?
Bismillah,
Abu.Amirah...as far as i know, Alayhis sallatu wassalam forbade using wigs or fake hair!
he cursed the women who pluck their eyebrows; the plucker and the one who is getting them plucked, as it is changing the creation of Allah. people mainly do it to beautify themselves and it comes from Jahiliyah.
first of all Allah's creation is the best so are we not happy with how He's created us? Subhan'Allah..(no one should dare indulge themselves in this evil act, appreciate what Allah has blessed us with)...so if he forbade plucking the eyebrows (as people
'assume' it adds more attraction) then the wig too would be a cause of attraction.
if one says; the wig/fake har is for the husband; cos he likes it or he's happy...Subhan'Allah....one should be careful if its for that reason...how could we please the CREATION and displease the CREATOR???
Alayhis sallatu wassalam was sent as an EXAMPLE a MERCY to mankind, it is his foot steps that we follow-as Allah is pleased with him (peace be upon him) so that husband should be pleased with how his wife is in reality, with her natural beauty Insha'Allah and the sister should avoid using the wig if ALLAH has given her natural hair Insha'Allah.
ofcourse if the Ulema have mentioned something about this matter e.g. ruling, maybe cos circumstances are different for every individual then we should take their advice into consideration Insha'Allah....remember "If you are looking for an answer to something and cant find it, look in the Glorious Qu'ran as you are bound to find something in it Insha'Allah. If you feel you dont, refer it back to the Sunnah of Alayhis sallatu wassalam, atleast then you should find something. If you still seem lost, then aquire advice from a learnt Scholar Insha'Allah (as the Scholars are from the inheritance of Alayhis sallatu wassalam-
) :ma:
peronally i think the wig/fake hair or anything that would seem attractive on a woman should be avoided Insha'Allah; perfume outside the home and tight fitted clothes are one of them. Remember Alayhis sallatu wassalam said "When one wears tight fitted clothes, its like as if they're naked!" and "A women who wears tight fitted clothes wont even come near to the smell of Jannah!"
and Allah Knows best.
May He Subhana hu wa'Ta'ala forgive me if i've said anything wrong Ameen.
my dear Brothers and Sisters please correct my mistakes e.g. if i've wrote any Ahadith wrong Insha'Allah....
i leave you in Allah's Care
Ma'Salama
your sister in Islam....