Does Islam teaches men to beat thier wives?

[Imad]

Assalamoelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,

Some people who say they are muslims are acting like boxers when they beat their wive. When the dinner/breakfast is not finished he starts shouting against his wive. Subhanallah, a muslim should not act like this. Our prophet Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him teaches us to be good to our wives. The best among us are those who are the best to their wives and our prophet said he is the best among us to his wives. You are like garments for them and they are like garments for you.

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Fi amanillah

Wassalam oelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,

Imad

 

[Izzu]

:salam2:
Marhaba. Br Green (I guess) is always so to the point. May Allah swt reward him here as well as in the hereafter.

 

[AbuKhalid]

Wife beating/ Domestic assault ... I think this is a trademark in the western culture now.Right? I always hear stories about men beating the girlfriends and all that here (in Canada anyway)

And I also think ( correct me if i'm wrong) that the prophet has never beaten his wives! Even, Umar Ibnul Khattab, was heard once being scolded by his wife. And it is famous we know the story. So we, the followers of the best of generations, the salaf as-saliheen, have to follow their example (not aout being scolded by our wives, but the lesson of compassion behind it).

So, for us in the western world then, "whoever imitates the Kuffar is one of them" in that respect too.

 

[Globalpeace]

Domestic Violence!

Asslamo Allaikum,

Masha'Allah to Br Green.

And with due respect to Brothers/Sisters who may disagree with me!

I know (& don't really care) that this problem is prevelant in the West and women do get abused.

BUT lets not take the eyes off the road; Muslim communities do have a problem with domestic violence and Child abuse (physical, psychological and verbal); I agree that perhaps it is on a much lesser degree then the population at large BUT we do have a PROBLEM!

I know of Sisters (reverts, born Muslimahs (born & raised in West or overseas) who have been abused by their partners.

I know of children who have been abused by their parents & I know that there are Muslim organisations who are looking for foster parents for these kids...

So lets not stick our heads in the sand, Insha'Allah. Lets admit that there is a problem & solve it with Qur'aan and Sunnah!

 

[amyaishazouaoui]

:salam2:

:mashallah:

you pretty much got it in one there.

theres a huge brush that is sweeping these issues under the whole rug supply of arabia in the muslim ummah.

large long necked birds, get your heads up and start thinking!! our children are the ones who are going to suffer!!!

Asslamo Allaikum,

Masha'Allah to Br Green.

And with due respect to Brothers/Sisters who may disagree with me!

I know (& don't really care) that this problem is prevelant in the West and women do get abused.

BUT lets not take the eyes off the road; Muslim communities do have a problem with domestic violence and Child abuse (physical, psychological and verbal); I agree that perhaps it is on a much lesser degree then the population at large BUT we do have a PROBLEM!

I know of Sisters (reverts, born Muslimahs (born & raised in West or overseas) who have been abused by their partners.

I know of children who have been abused by their parents & I know that there are Muslim organisations who are looking for foster parents for these kids...

So lets not stick our heads in the sand, Insha'Allah. Lets admit that there is a problem & solve it with Qur'aan and Sunnah!

 

[Globalpeace]

Management!

Asslamo Allaikum,

Its SAD when the Ummah who taught the World Administration & Management can't do it anymore!

We are truly in a sad situation!

We have become utterly pathetic and the only resort is to turn to Allah (SWT) & repent

P.S: & STOP importing Imams from overseas and imposing Asian culture on Muslims!

 

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

Assalamu alaykum,

Islam doesn't teach a husbands to beat their wives but i believe it is a culture thing in some muslim countries especial in Arabic countires (NO OFFENDS TO ANYONE). It is just that some brother CHOOSE to believe woman have less right than them so they treat wives like what they believe and send nonmuslim the idea that we as mulism women are being abuse. That is why nonmuslim have wrong idea but our religion and i don't blame than after all it is our falls.

Wassalam

 

[Laura]

Assalamau Alaikum dear brothers and sisters,
I agree with lots of the wise comments you have all posted. Islam gets a bad name because the practises of muslims-we only have ourselves to blame and only we can put it right"

Being a revert to Islam, and having have a father who took his hand to my mother, brother and sisters, 'wife beating' in Islam was one of my major concerns when I became a mulsima.
But as a knowledgable brother told me last week.......

Before a man gets compliance, love, kindness etc from his wife he must be the loving caring, husband towards his wife and fullfill his duties towards her.
So if a man is angry with his wife to the extent that all other options are exhausted and he feels the need to hit her he should maybe check to see if her rebellion is due to him not fullfilling his half of the bargain. that or else he has married a woman who is of bad character generally (in which case you may ask why did he marry her??!!)
Secondly we are guided by the way of the phophet (ppuh) and I have been told (correct me if I'm wrong) he never himself beat a wife.
Thirdly it has been suggested therfore that the word 'hit' is metophorical for something else. It would be different for different women but it may be to hit one woman would be to deprive her of something she enjoys.......refusing to take her on holiday, or maybe for another it would be tapping her with a toothstick.

Its all very well for scholars to say that a man can hit his wife as long as he doesn't bruise her but is it not obvious that you can hit someone quite hard and not cause them injury. How hard can you slap someone of the leg or bum and all you get is a redness for a few minutes?

I hope what I said made a little sence to you all!........
Salam

 

[Imad]

Assalmoelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,

Dear sister Laura,

Trustworthy scholars are the followers of our prophet. They are carefully with what they say. And also we have to return back to trustworthy scholars.

Brother Green said:

" This is a type of very light beating, in fact as some scholars mentioned is just to hit with the miswake"

And also he said:

" What we know from our prophet is that this type of beating is not allowed to leave any type of mark

"

If someone says this is metophorical he/she has to come with evidences.

Our prophet Peace and blessings of Allah be with him, Or the scholars or Green. No one of them said:" Beat your wife quite hard"

Some of the scholars said:

Miswake

Do you know what miswake is?


And brother green said: "

very light beating

"

Does this seem to you " Quite hard beating"

I think it's better not to talk about scholars. Don't give the opportunity for people to talk bad about scholars. Scholars are protectors of this Uma.

The big problems are coming from Juhaal ( not knowledgeable people ).

I hope what I said made a little sence to you!.........

Wassalmoelaikoem warahmatullahi wbarakatuh,

Imad