Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
Assalam alakum
I found a Muslim girl who wants to marry me as well inshallah. BUT we live in different countries and unless something unexpected happens it seems like we gotta wait 3 years at least, to get together because of studies.
Her parents might agree that we can engage or even get married BUT my parents are surely against it,in fact my father say ''i dont give you permission, dont give her any hope, only Allah knows whats gonna happen tomorrow''
So i nodded my head a bit in order to let him go (he was like asking me ''dont do it, okay ?'') though i didnt want to say ''okay sure'', you know
I really dont know what to do. In one hand, i may go this girls country soon and meet her parents but my father says dont give hope, so what does it mean? What will i talk to her parents if i dont talk about marriage ''i just wanna get to know your daughter, i dontwanna think marriage now because my parents dont want it ?'' I am confused
Can someone give advice
I found a Muslim girl who wants to marry me as well inshallah. BUT we live in different countries and unless something unexpected happens it seems like we gotta wait 3 years at least, to get together because of studies.
Her parents might agree that we can engage or even get married BUT my parents are surely against it,in fact my father say ''i dont give you permission, dont give her any hope, only Allah knows whats gonna happen tomorrow''
So i nodded my head a bit in order to let him go (he was like asking me ''dont do it, okay ?'') though i didnt want to say ''okay sure'', you know
I really dont know what to do. In one hand, i may go this girls country soon and meet her parents but my father says dont give hope, so what does it mean? What will i talk to her parents if i dont talk about marriage ''i just wanna get to know your daughter, i dontwanna think marriage now because my parents dont want it ?'' I am confused
Can someone give advice