Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam,
:salam2::salam2:
I'm typing this message in English to catch a wide audience as possible.
I truly need your sincere advice.
You see I'm from Holland born and bred.However when I became muslim that's now 18 years ago elhemdullilah,I soon married a muslim brother from Algeria. At that time because some brothers unfortunatly abuse this and just "marry":astag::angryred::angryblue::tantrum1:for the passport my father was apprehensive and wasn't really for the wedding.Now after 3 grandchildren and our marriage still going strong Incha Allah,:ma:.My father offers me his house to live in.
Currently we live overcrowded in a flat, 2 bedrooms,my dad's house has 3 bedrooms and potential for a fourth :ma:Which would be ideal for us as a family.
However I have to think carefully because things aren't the same cos I'm a muslim now and so is my family.How would life be like in Holland for us??? The area and town I'm talking about is North holland the town is Hoorn .If anyone has any info. please be so kind to let me know. Either in dutch or english that will be great ,Incha Allah.
To tell you the truth I do miss Holland . I miss the cycling,the space my family who aren't muslim yet. :tti_sisterlease,pray for them so Allah will guide them Incha Allah.I could mean something for them with my behaviour I can "tell" them about Islam.
My life in the uk was hard at first my hubby and I didn't know anyone and I was 3 months pregnant of our oldest son Ahmad who is now 16 masja Allah.I've an other son of 14 and a daughter of 9.My hubby just read on an internet website that children in Holland score high in respect to education,emotional well being,family,material well being among other countries.
Since it's Ramadan ,this holy month of guidance I ask Allah to guide us to make a decision which would be best for our faith,life and end,amin.I'm asking you my muslim brothers and sisters all over the world and especially Holland (since you know what life is like as a Dutch muslim)for guidance in this life changing experience for my family.Jazakalogeiren for always indebted Maartje.:shake:
:salam2::salam2:
I'm typing this message in English to catch a wide audience as possible.
I truly need your sincere advice.
You see I'm from Holland born and bred.However when I became muslim that's now 18 years ago elhemdullilah,I soon married a muslim brother from Algeria. At that time because some brothers unfortunatly abuse this and just "marry":astag::angryred::angryblue::tantrum1:for the passport my father was apprehensive and wasn't really for the wedding.Now after 3 grandchildren and our marriage still going strong Incha Allah,:ma:.My father offers me his house to live in.
Currently we live overcrowded in a flat, 2 bedrooms,my dad's house has 3 bedrooms and potential for a fourth :ma:Which would be ideal for us as a family.
However I have to think carefully because things aren't the same cos I'm a muslim now and so is my family.How would life be like in Holland for us??? The area and town I'm talking about is North holland the town is Hoorn .If anyone has any info. please be so kind to let me know. Either in dutch or english that will be great ,Incha Allah.
To tell you the truth I do miss Holland . I miss the cycling,the space my family who aren't muslim yet. :tti_sisterlease,pray for them so Allah will guide them Incha Allah.I could mean something for them with my behaviour I can "tell" them about Islam.
My life in the uk was hard at first my hubby and I didn't know anyone and I was 3 months pregnant of our oldest son Ahmad who is now 16 masja Allah.I've an other son of 14 and a daughter of 9.My hubby just read on an internet website that children in Holland score high in respect to education,emotional well being,family,material well being among other countries.
Since it's Ramadan ,this holy month of guidance I ask Allah to guide us to make a decision which would be best for our faith,life and end,amin.I'm asking you my muslim brothers and sisters all over the world and especially Holland (since you know what life is like as a Dutch muslim)for guidance in this life changing experience for my family.Jazakalogeiren for always indebted Maartje.:shake: