Help me please!!

[butterflymuslima]

A very dear friend has asked me for help and I don't know what to say or do? She hasn't been married to long and has invited a friend she did not know to well to stay in her house because the woman had no job and no place to live. The woman is not being a good house guest (messy and so forth) and it is causing problems with her and her husband. She doesn't want to ask the woman to leave because she only has a part time job and not enough money to live. Is there a Hadith on how guests are expected to behave? I can't find one anywhere. I am afraid to give her my own personal opinion, don't know what to do. This is an ongoing problem and needs to be fixed fast!

 

[Abdullah2008]

My advice

I would suggest to be very upfront and straight forward. Explain how you guys are used to things around the house being clean. Just COMMUNICATE to her that you understand where she is coming from and you are trying to help and that you dont want her to take any offense to it. I think it's just common decency to acknowledge you and most IMPortantly your husband's concerns sorry, I dont want to give you bad advice but from an islamic prospective I don't think you can have a non-mahram alone with your husband.

Allah knows best, i would suggest asking a Imam for furhter info about the non-mahram thing

:salam2:

 

[nizar83]

aselemu aleikum

honesty will do in this matter, sisters have the obligation of doing their best to please their husbands..no guest should bring problems between man and wife.

however, ALLAH ta3ala is with the patient ones...

as for islam and guests, i know a muslim guest has the right to ask another muslim for a maximum of 3 days of visitation.fi sabeel ALLAH a muslim would accept and treat the guest good and friendly-