amyaishazouaoui
Junior Member
In this query is a message for us all. Firstly the difficulties of life should not be the reason why we should stray. The rewards of being stead fast are so huge that the trials in reality are minuscule in comparison. I know that is easier said than faced. May Allah grant us all patience. Pause however for a minute; let us take some time out from our life, think and we realize we are worthy of nothing. The pleasures of paradise and the rewards therein are not a deserved right. Far from it! In fact we are usually rewarded in this life it self. So let us all be patient. Verily after every difficulty there is relief. Do we not trust the Lord?
We must also look at another issue and that is of the level of care and support we provide to the new members of our community. We must look at the example of the Ansar of Medina. They opened the doors of their houses, the fruits of their crop and even a share in their properties to the refugees from Mecca. Do we provide any support at all to the new converts/reverts?
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Sadly very few people help us the way we should be helped, we end up helping each other and sticking together.
WRT the thread. Try and get her to keep her child, I know it probably doesnt seem like it for her now but there is so much blessing in having a baby, it changes your life.
There is financial help available from the ummah, I suggest you look at places like the central mosque.
Do not worry about other finances either, there is alot of help young mothers can get from the state. Inshallah she will be suitable for income suport until her child is 16 and she can train and get a job by then anyway. Its not easy I know but inshallah she will get there.
Benefits are enough to live on anyway.
A mothers love is something special, if she aborts her child she will for ever be thinking what if??
If she keeps him/her she will see smiles, little teeth appearing.
I have a 6 months old boy and mashallah i couldnt be without him, he is what I am living for at the moment (after Allah). We sit there laughing at eachoher, and nothing is funny, its so, subahanallah amasing. My life isnt easy and I am going through such a big test, he is what is keeping me going.
All I keep reminding myself of when i get tired and things get hard is that I will be rewarded inshallah.
Things have been really testing lately but alhamdulillah my iman is getting better, there is only comfort with Allah.
INshallah I will remember her in my dua. :tti_sister: :tti_sister: :tti_sister: :tti_sister: :tti_sister: :tti_sister: