abu bakkar
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few months ago i meet a girl in a cooking class(lol that's dose nt mean m good in cooking) where they conducted a singing competition just for time pass... she sing a gazal (sort of sonnet) her voice was very nice and she was sitting next to me i said her that you got a beautiful voice you should learn tajweed ... beautify your voice with Quran.. i told her story of my tajweed teacher (that was almost the same,, someone sugested her to learn tajweed during a song compitition and she fallowed that up now she is teaching almost 300 to 400 students every year) she got so inspired ,,,, in the next class she came up with a naat... m really happy for her... and she is learning tajweed as well...:ma::ma::ma:
few days earlier she called me,,, she said that i want to do hijab but i have breathing problem... i told her to learn Quran with translation...its importent to learn the quran first... now question is did guide her right or i should convince her for hijab???????????
i want to guide her in right way coz she is a very good girl... n now she is on my top target so don't wana make blunders.....lol
looking forward for sincere suggestion,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Assalam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
I can say that u have good telling her. I think that she is weaken to wear hijab. your duty is that you ought to go with her slowly. Show her the important of hijab and why we must carry it. tell her the damages of it if she does not like to carry it. The hijab is very important and when you take it whoever can't just rush to you and want play with you. The hijab is obligation to all female. The quran telling us:
يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُل لِّأَزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاء الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِن جَلَابِيبِهِنَّ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَن يُعْرَفْنَ فَلَا يُؤْذَيْنَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا (٥٩)
59. O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e.screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allah is Ever Oft*!Forgiving, Most Merciful.
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