Home Education is an Option for Muslim Parents!

Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
Home schooling is an option that is available to all parents and is a right that is established in English Law. The rights and responsibilities of parents are outlined in the 1996 Education Act in Sections 7 and 9 (similar provisions exist in Northern Ireland and Scotland) which state that:
The parent of every child of compulsory school age shall cause him to receive efficient full-time education suitable (a) to his age, ability and aptitude, and (b) to any special educational needs he may have- either by regular attendance at school or otherwise.

In exercising or performing all their respective powers and duties under the Education Acts, the Secretary of State, local education authorities and the funding authorities shall have regard to the general principle that pupils are to be educated in accordance with the wishes of their parents, so far as that is compatible with the provision of efficient instruction and training and the avoidance of unreasonable public expenditure.
Parents are given the legal right to educate their children according to their own beliefs and values. This means that as Muslim parents we can make the decision to keep our children at home to be educated or seek other alternatives to mainstream education in order to ensure they receive a correct Islamic education in a secure environment. Obviously parents must ensure that their children are literate, numerate and have knowledge of other important subjects such as science, history and geography but parents are free to choose the most appropriate and effective way to educate their own children and an Islamic education easily encapsulates all these subjects. Parents who are home educating may choose to follow any learning method, from autonomous schooling or ‘Unschooling’ – where children are allowed to guide their own learning through their inquisitiveness and curiosity about the world around them - to following the National Curriculum at home. It should be stated clearly however that parents do not have to follow the National Curriculum as it merely exists as a guide for schools and there is no legal obligation or necessity for a home educating parent to follow it unless one wishes to do so. Also, there is no obligation to educate your child in English if you would prefer to pursue some or all of their education in another language.

A common misconception about home education is that children do not have the same opportunities to become ‘socialized’. However, research and experience has shown that home-educated children often have greater social skills and maturity than children who have attended school. This is due, in part, to the fact that schools are often inflexible and based on standards; children are segregated into separate age groups in school whereas home-educated children are more likely to interact with a variety of age groups; and home-based education emphasizes self-directed learning and self-discipline. Opportunities for social interaction can easily be created, such as by arranging to meet on a regular basis with other families so that children can play, socialise and learn with each other. As Muslims we must also consider who we want our children to be socialising with. Unfortunately many of us have become blind to the many detrimental influences which surround us and we send our children to have the same training that we have had, to accept the system and compromise our Deen.

It is not necessary for a home educator to have formal qualifications and parents should not have the preconception that they have not got enough knowledge to home educate. Most home educating parents will tell you that they learn along with their children and that the whole experience is as enriching for them as it is for their children. Also, there are vast amounts of educational resources and many organizations that exist to assist home educators in a variety of ways. Many thousands of families with all sorts of backgrounds are currently home educating their children with great success.
As Muslim parents we should be looking to Allah (swt) and his Prophet (saw) for guidance on how to educate our children. We should do our utmost to educate our children Islamically, to follow the Shariah without compromise and to ensure that we are not exposing our children to un-Islamic environments.
 

AishaR

Junior Member
:salam2:

My sister in law tutors her children at home & they are performing very well. They are happy, have friends & very polite. It is something I will look into when I have children, inshallah.

Thanx for sharing that with us

:wasalam:
 

samiha

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Staff member
*groan* yea, it may be allowed but it sure ain't easy.

Now you don't have people prodding you to do your work you have to prod yourself... hey it's not fun being your own teacher.

Kind of enjoyable when you want your breaks, but seriously... making your own schedule is not easy!

Anyway, just my input.
 

Delyan

Junior Member
I do agree with u sister samiha.. I also believe that inserting inside society is a duty as a muslim we ve to learn to our children and if some parents don't find an difficulties to be their own children tutors, some others merely can't. However, as muslims I think we should organize a kind of " tailor mesure education" that includes all the values and knowledge that bring a concrete, an abstract thoughtfulness to extend, enlarge their islamic education..

sis delyan
wa salam
 

feeni

ONLY ALLAH
FEENI

ITS A GREAT IDEA I THINK. I HAVE 2 DAUGHTERS MASHALLAH. I AM GOING TO SEND THEM TO AN ISLAMIC SCHOOL THO. I THINK IT IS UNTIL HIGH SCHOOL. AND INSH IF I COULD I WILL HOMESCHOOL. YOU HAVE TO BE CAUTIOUS SENDIN YOUR KIDS TO A PUBLIC SCHOOL NOWADAYS. BABY KINDERGARTENERS EVEN HAVE GIRL AND BOYFRIENDS NOWADAYS.KIDS LEARN FROM OTHER KIDS AT SCHOOL. ITS BETTER TO KNOW WHAT IS HAPPENING AROUND THEM OPPOSE TO NOT KNOWING.: I ALLREADY KNOW WHAT GOES ON AND I DONT WANT MY KIDS DOIN SOMETHING THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSSED TO DO.--------:SMILY286:
 

web_knight

spread the peace
ITS A GREAT IDEA I THINK. I HAVE 2 DAUGHTERS MASHALLAH. I AM GOING TO SEND THEM TO AN ISLAMIC SCHOOL THO. I THINK IT IS UNTIL HIGH SCHOOL. AND INSH IF I COULD I WILL HOMESCHOOL. YOU HAVE TO BE CAUTIOUS SENDIN YOUR KIDS TO A PUBLIC SCHOOL NOWADAYS. BABY KINDERGARTENERS EVEN HAVE GIRL AND BOYFRIENDS NOWADAYS.KIDS LEARN FROM OTHER KIDS AT SCHOOL. ITS BETTER TO KNOW WHAT IS HAPPENING AROUND THEM OPPOSE TO NOT KNOWING.: I ALLREADY KNOW WHAT GOES ON AND I DONT WANT MY KIDS DOIN SOMETHING THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSSED TO DO.--------:SMILY286:

:shake::shake::shake::SMILY71: ALLHu AKBAR I second that......

Totally agree:SMILY45::SMILY126:
I wonna say bravo for the brave & extraordinary thoughts
We really need much thoughts that are brave frank and reliable.

jazakum allahu Khayra

wassalam
Ibrahim
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Islam1975

New Member
ITS A GREAT IDEA I THINK. I HAVE 2 DAUGHTERS MASHALLAH. I AM GOING TO SEND THEM TO AN ISLAMIC SCHOOL THO. I THINK IT IS UNTIL HIGH SCHOOL. AND INSH IF I COULD I WILL HOMESCHOOL. YOU HAVE TO BE CAUTIOUS SENDIN YOUR KIDS TO A PUBLIC SCHOOL NOWADAYS. BABY KINDERGARTENERS EVEN HAVE GIRL AND BOYFRIENDS NOWADAYS.KIDS LEARN FROM OTHER KIDS AT SCHOOL. ITS BETTER TO KNOW WHAT IS HAPPENING AROUND THEM OPPOSE TO NOT KNOWING.: I ALLREADY KNOW WHAT GOES ON AND I DONT WANT MY KIDS DOIN SOMETHING THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSSED TO DO.--------:SMILY286:

You are right but i have also seen lots of kids who go astray after going to University. This is a good discussion though. I am single right now but seeing all the stuff around me makes me think what I will do when i get married and have kids. You are right about the boyfriend and girlfriend stuff and sex education and all other stuff that is preached in educational institutions but then parents also need to come up with a proper strategy to make their children aware about the outer world. Eventually they will go to University and work places where they will face this society and if they are not confident enough and not well trained for such situations they can lose their way.
 

abdullah1111

Junior Member
Assalamu alaykum,

I am home schooled and have been for most of my life, (im 10).
I have been to some schools in the Uk for a while, when my mum was having my sister, but i didnt like them much. They make us do dancing, and i couldnt do many things i liked to do. I like science and especially i would like to either be a chemist or a doctor. My brother likes cars so will probably work with them. As for my other brothers and sister they are still young. We all speak english and read english, and we all speak arabic too. I can read arabic. My mum teaches us mostly, but my dad does maths. The best thing about homeschool is that we dont have to get up early, and we can go on holiday loads. We work around pray times and because we live near a mosque we can pray 5 times a day.

My mum typed this for me , as i cant type fast, but inshallah she will get me a software to learn how to type.

added from Abdullahs mum, its not easy to homeschool, but rewardable. My children are socially forward, as they have always mixed with all ages. It takes a dedicated home to homeschool with both parents involved, especially if the family is large. One problem we have faced is that of when moving abroad and finding suitable schools , lack of certification can prove a hardship. We do travel alot to remove bordem and have spent money on enrolling them in local clubs and activities. If you are interested in homeschooling then there are so many resources on the web and it is a real alternative to the factory style learning available to us in schools these days. Abdullah has a reading age of about 18 mashallah and most of his learning is book based, where as my other son is very hands on , and prefers to learn through talking. Another son is very lazy but can respond to other ways. If they were in school then they would all be made to follow the same learning pattern, and the are obviously so different in their styles.
 

muslimah84

Junior Member
:ma:
nice info,though i have not started my family but this is something i have been considering.Though i like the idea of home schooling, i really do want my children to have the positive advantages of schooling with their peers, this is why I am consideirng an Islamic school inshallah.There are a couple of reputalbe ones here in the states, infact i recently checked out a really nice one in texas, so there are many alternatives to circumvent the many issues of sending our children to normal public schools.
ma salam :hijabi:
 

Boomerang

Junior Member
Salam,

I have a son that I would love to homeschool, but I think that community schooling is a better option if it is possible. A few families getting together to combine the teaching of all the children.
I dont believe in homeschooling however, to coccoon our children from the ways of the world. I believe the strongest muslims are those that are able to be in there strength, and still keep there faith In Allah and Islam, especially in the face of others doing wrong, around them.

Allah knows best
 
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