How many children you wish to have?

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How many children do you wish to have?

  1. Only One

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  2. Not more than Two

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  3. Two to Four

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  4. As many as Allah gives

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    Right now I can barley take care of the one I have sister, I do want another one but I would like to be able to take care of the children I have. As Sister Apa said, you have as many as Allah gives you. So far that is my son who is a handful right now but I love it.
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    Mashallah brother!you're very lucky!!!!!!!!!may the blessings of Allah be upon you and your family:wasalam:
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    brother alhamdollilah i have 4 kids and im a happy mother .i am planning for more kids.
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    As-sallaamu `alaikum!

    Um, I suppose however many Allaah SWT grants me. Insha'allah! But if it were upto me, I'd want no less than a football field of 'em!=)

    Brother(thread starter), aren't you gonna share also?
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    i dont want to bring another soul to this earth at all.....
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    May Allah hear your pray as He heared mine too.

    None.
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    As many as Allah gives

    Look at her, isn't she cuuuuuuuteeeee???!!![​IMG]

    The bigger the Ummah, the better :)
    By the way, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi was sallam loved children.
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    Wa'alaikumussalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh sister

    As per me, I want as many as Allah gives me inshaAllah. :)

    However, all that will be based on the financial, physical and psychological ability of me and especially wife because she will be the one who have to carry the baby for more than 9 months. Really we owe mothers so much.

    Wassalam 'Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
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    Subhanallah! How adorable wallah! Masha'allah! She looks absolutely stunning in that jilbaab. May the Angels of Allah always protect her.

    Is she yours? Or did you steal her off the net, sister? =]
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    masha'Allah! How considerate of you, akh! Mothers are a gift to the ummah! Bless them all..!
    For a minute I was wondering if the brothers were also voting for the poll and why. Considering as 'they' won't be the ones to give birth. But yeah, you brothers actually have quite the part in the whole 'having a child' thing.
    Anyways, I pray that Allaah SWT's makes it possible for you and us all to have As Much of those little trouble makers as possible.:]
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    Assalamu'alaykum,

    I question whether the thread is entirely within Islaamic guidelines.

    Discussing how many children you wish to have should be a conversation between an individual and their spouse. Not a general discussion in a public forum for all to see should they click on it.

    You can discuss your children, nothing wrong with that, Im sure they are wonderful little beings but thats flatly different.

    Please, (especially for the unmarried sisters amongst you), elevate the hayaa' threshold?

    This serves as a reminder for all of us, inshaAllaah.

    Probably wont be a popular move, but thread definitely closed. (Don't waste your time disputing this via PM or otherwise).

    Ramadaan Kareem.

    Wa-salam
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