Firm_believer123
Junior Member
Tips on how to balance your life
From all the complaining and distress i hear from people often has to do with balancing their life---they have such a long to-do-list that the least important thing is at top---and they forget about the important stuff-As you see time is running fast which is a sign of the last day-people try to finish the to-do-list in one day before the hour comes-so the next day they have a headache.
so here they are
*your religion should be the most important to you---- increase your imaan-pray 2 rakkah sunna the next day pray 3 and 4 and 5.ask dua to ALLAH ask him to resolve number on obstacle.
*Slow Down.You never know when death will come and surley you may not escape it so don't let the vital things pass you in a blur. Take steps to stop and enjoy the things and people around you. Schedule more time between meetings; don't make plans for every evening or weekend, and find some ways to distance yourself from the things that are causing you the most stress--- in my view such as T.V.-MINNIMIZE THE TIME.
*Take Charge. Set Priorities. Sometimes it's easier for us to allow ourselves to feel overwhelmed rather than taking charge and developing a prioritized list of things that need to get done. You need to buck the trend. Develop a list. Set priorities. And then enjoy the satisfaction of crossing things off your list.
*Simplify. It seems human nature for just about everyone to take on too many tasks and responsibilities, to try to do too much, and to own too much. Find a way to simplify your life. Change your lifestyle. Learn to say no to requests for help. Get rid of the clutter and baggage in your house -- and your life.
In the end, the key word is balance. You need to find the right balance that works for you. Celebrate your successes and don't dwell on your failures. Life is a process, and so is striving for balance in your life.
From all the complaining and distress i hear from people often has to do with balancing their life---they have such a long to-do-list that the least important thing is at top---and they forget about the important stuff-As you see time is running fast which is a sign of the last day-people try to finish the to-do-list in one day before the hour comes-so the next day they have a headache.
so here they are
*your religion should be the most important to you---- increase your imaan-pray 2 rakkah sunna the next day pray 3 and 4 and 5.ask dua to ALLAH ask him to resolve number on obstacle.
*Slow Down.You never know when death will come and surley you may not escape it so don't let the vital things pass you in a blur. Take steps to stop and enjoy the things and people around you. Schedule more time between meetings; don't make plans for every evening or weekend, and find some ways to distance yourself from the things that are causing you the most stress--- in my view such as T.V.-MINNIMIZE THE TIME.
*Take Charge. Set Priorities. Sometimes it's easier for us to allow ourselves to feel overwhelmed rather than taking charge and developing a prioritized list of things that need to get done. You need to buck the trend. Develop a list. Set priorities. And then enjoy the satisfaction of crossing things off your list.
*Simplify. It seems human nature for just about everyone to take on too many tasks and responsibilities, to try to do too much, and to own too much. Find a way to simplify your life. Change your lifestyle. Learn to say no to requests for help. Get rid of the clutter and baggage in your house -- and your life.
In the end, the key word is balance. You need to find the right balance that works for you. Celebrate your successes and don't dwell on your failures. Life is a process, and so is striving for balance in your life.
