mfkamarudin
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Assalamualaikum,
How to Deal with Bitter Criticism
Those who are ignorant have uttered curses at Allah, the Exalted, the Creator of all that exists, so what treatment should we, who are fullof faults, expect from people. You will always have to face criticism, which in its onslaught is like an interminable war: it shows no sign of ending. As long as you shine, give, produce, and have an effect upon others, then disapproval abd condemnation will be your lot in life. Until you escape from people by finding a tunnel in the tunnel in the ground or a ladder leading to the sky, they will not desist from cesuring you, from finding fault in your character. for that reason, as long as you are from the denizens of the earth, expect to be hurt, to insulted. and to be criticized.
So remain firm and patient when facing their insults and criticism. If you are wounded by their words and let them have an influence over you, you will have realized their hopes for them. Instead, forgive them by showing them the most beautiful of manners. Turn away from them, and do not feel disstressed by their schemes. Their disapproval of you only increases you in worth and merit.
Verily, you will noy be able to silence them, but you will be able bury their criticisms by turning away from them and dismissing what they have to say.
{Say: "Perish in your rage".} (Quran 3:119)
In fact, you will be able to increase them in their rage bu increasing you merits and developing your talents.
If you desire to be accepted by all and loved by all you desire the unattainable.
Taken from, DONT BE SAD - 'Aaidh idn Abdullah al-Qarni.
Mohamad Fahmi,
Los Angeles
How to Deal with Bitter Criticism
Those who are ignorant have uttered curses at Allah, the Exalted, the Creator of all that exists, so what treatment should we, who are fullof faults, expect from people. You will always have to face criticism, which in its onslaught is like an interminable war: it shows no sign of ending. As long as you shine, give, produce, and have an effect upon others, then disapproval abd condemnation will be your lot in life. Until you escape from people by finding a tunnel in the tunnel in the ground or a ladder leading to the sky, they will not desist from cesuring you, from finding fault in your character. for that reason, as long as you are from the denizens of the earth, expect to be hurt, to insulted. and to be criticized.
So remain firm and patient when facing their insults and criticism. If you are wounded by their words and let them have an influence over you, you will have realized their hopes for them. Instead, forgive them by showing them the most beautiful of manners. Turn away from them, and do not feel disstressed by their schemes. Their disapproval of you only increases you in worth and merit.
Verily, you will noy be able to silence them, but you will be able bury their criticisms by turning away from them and dismissing what they have to say.
{Say: "Perish in your rage".} (Quran 3:119)
In fact, you will be able to increase them in their rage bu increasing you merits and developing your talents.
If you desire to be accepted by all and loved by all you desire the unattainable.
Taken from, DONT BE SAD - 'Aaidh idn Abdullah al-Qarni.
Mohamad Fahmi,
Los Angeles