How to deal with loss ?

[islamisthesolution]

:salam2:

first of all let me tell you that i am a believer and i believe that everything happen to us because Allah wants us to see us evreything to know how we are going to deal with it .
but i always wondering about how i can deal if i lost somebody who is really dear to me
i mean i can deal with losing job or money however it didnt happen yet .
but losing someone of the people i love makes me sad .
i dont know i am not weak however it wont be easy for me to deal with .
i am afraid from this day the day that i might lose someone i love .
its a scary thought for me really .

:salam2:

 

[eminbey]

nobody could stay happy when somebody important for him dies,lets see how the prophet PBUH dealed with the death of his beloved son Ibrahim,hePBUH said the heart gets sad and the eyes drop tears and we don't say only what pleases our lord

 

[a_stranger]

:salam2:sister :
One of the Asmaa Alhussna of Allah swt is AL-LATÎF The Gentle, The Knower of subtleties

6:103 (Asad) No human vision can encompass Him, whereas He encompasses all human vision: for He alone is unfathomable, all-aware.

Translation of the meanings of Quran

This meaning I have experienced through my life : When i was young the same kind of thoughts were making me frightened and sad but AlHamduliAllah Allah our creator is the AL-LATÎF The Gentle . He make things in a way that is easy for the believer. Don`t worry put your trust in Allah swt and remember the next life is the best by the mercy of Allah swt.

 

[AlQurtubi]

This is very natural sister. Its hard situation for every one. The best way is not to utter the words which goes against ALLAH's will. Staying quite is best option. IF you think you will get crazy if you stay quite, then share it with your best friend.

 

[a_muslimah86]

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The emotions we feel towards the ones we love are both a blessing and a test..when we are with them..we are blessed..and when we lose them..we are tested..if one were to be tested by an Almighty-Lord then I assume they will want to get the best of grades..and this can come about if we display patience and ask for more of it from Allah (swt)...

Prayer & dua'a are the best of paths to take in a situation like that..and remembering that *every soul shall taste death* would cut short the whispers which shaitan may try to whisper into your heart..and know that the hereafter can be the eternal place of meeting our loved ones (inshallah)

 

[islamisthesolution]

:salam2:

thank you guys for your words . i think i should keep this kind of thoughts away and keep myself busy with what should i do towards Allah and my job and live these moments and days with my family without thinking about what could happen tomorrow .
i cant help it really but i will try inshAllah .

jazakom Allah khyran kathiran .

:salam2:

 

[a_muslimah86]

:salam2:

i will try inshAllah .

:salam2:

That's the key sister...trust fully in Allah and put Him as your Disposer of affairs...then *everything* you wish to tackle you can try to *accomplish*..and with Allah's will get to do so