Salam aliakum sisters and brothers..
My elderly mom died in July.. I was her main caregiver and miss her terribly. Now, Im finding things to fill my time when not working going back to the mesjid, learning and reading about my deen, IA
..Anyway, she was nonmuslim but she respected my faith for the most part, Alhamdullah.
I visit her grave often and put flowers. Is it ok to talk to her there? I dont cry for her really..just talk. I know technically shes not there.. My husband, who is muslim says he doesnt think Im supposed to.. When she was dying, I said shahada to her, recited Al-Fatiha and made dua for her that she accepted Islam in her last moments. Allahu Allum if she did. She was in a induced coma/hospice. I was with her in the end, holding her hand. She was 92 and had a wonderful life. Inshallah Allah swt gave her mercy. I can only hope and pray so..as I cant dwell on it. (
My elderly mom died in July.. I was her main caregiver and miss her terribly. Now, Im finding things to fill my time when not working going back to the mesjid, learning and reading about my deen, IA
..Anyway, she was nonmuslim but she respected my faith for the most part, Alhamdullah.
I visit her grave often and put flowers. Is it ok to talk to her there? I dont cry for her really..just talk. I know technically shes not there.. My husband, who is muslim says he doesnt think Im supposed to.. When she was dying, I said shahada to her, recited Al-Fatiha and made dua for her that she accepted Islam in her last moments. Allahu Allum if she did. She was in a induced coma/hospice. I was with her in the end, holding her hand. She was 92 and had a wonderful life. Inshallah Allah swt gave her mercy. I can only hope and pray so..as I cant dwell on it. (