Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
assalam alakum
I understand we should be kind to parents even if they are non muslims. For Muslim parents, but what if we cant be kind to them when they are against our deen ? I mean, when they tell us to do a haram or maybe their view on a issue is against Islam, we can easily get angry (at least for me, i can get angry and not be too calm when i respond to them) This is maybe not because they are against Islam, but maybe out of ignorance or maybe its a test from Allah for us. In the case, when we can not talk to them nicely as we should do, then do you think its better just not to say anything ?
For example, if they tell us ''shave your beard'' again and again, should we just keep being calm instead of saying ''Its Sunnah, you dont understand relgion, what kinda Muslim you are etc etc ?'' because you know, sometimes its irritating and we cant talk to people nice when they say something against our belief. So in such cases do you think its better to be calm and shut up instead of warning our parents with not a loving and kind manner ?
I understand we should be kind to parents even if they are non muslims. For Muslim parents, but what if we cant be kind to them when they are against our deen ? I mean, when they tell us to do a haram or maybe their view on a issue is against Islam, we can easily get angry (at least for me, i can get angry and not be too calm when i respond to them) This is maybe not because they are against Islam, but maybe out of ignorance or maybe its a test from Allah for us. In the case, when we can not talk to them nicely as we should do, then do you think its better just not to say anything ?
For example, if they tell us ''shave your beard'' again and again, should we just keep being calm instead of saying ''Its Sunnah, you dont understand relgion, what kinda Muslim you are etc etc ?'' because you know, sometimes its irritating and we cant talk to people nice when they say something against our belief. So in such cases do you think its better to be calm and shut up instead of warning our parents with not a loving and kind manner ?