MubarekMuslimah
Junior Member
Asslaamau alaikum
I was having a discussion with my friends and the subject of holidays came up. We were discussing the husband's responsibilities and what happens if he goes on holiday with some brothers, and without his wife.
Basically we could not agree/ do not know the ruling on a husband going away on holiday and leaving his wife alone for a few days and nights - about a week. Is it allowed? the brothers in the group seem to think it would be ok of course but us sisters disagree - not cos we want to stop them having a holiday! - but because a husband's role is to defend and protect his wife and family and he is responsible for their safety, well-being and their deen and going away for a holiday or such means he is not doing this - he can't protect her.
Is it allowed for a husband to go away and leave his wife alone?
Some of the brothers cited that in the time of the Prophet pbuh , the men were often away in Jihad - but I was thinking that this is not an appropriate example to follow since they are going on holiday and not jihad? going on jihad was going away in the cause of Allah swt - a holiday with the brothers is not!!
Anyways it was a quite light hearted conversation and no-one got upset or anything - but we admitted we do not know the ruling on this. Obviously I know a wife cannot travel without her mahrem for longer than certain periods of time - some sources say 3 or 2 or 1 day . But is there a similar thing for the men?
Can the husband leave the wife alone for more than 1 day and 1 night ?
If anyone can help much appreciated
Jazak'allah khair
Salaams
I was having a discussion with my friends and the subject of holidays came up. We were discussing the husband's responsibilities and what happens if he goes on holiday with some brothers, and without his wife.
Basically we could not agree/ do not know the ruling on a husband going away on holiday and leaving his wife alone for a few days and nights - about a week. Is it allowed? the brothers in the group seem to think it would be ok of course but us sisters disagree - not cos we want to stop them having a holiday! - but because a husband's role is to defend and protect his wife and family and he is responsible for their safety, well-being and their deen and going away for a holiday or such means he is not doing this - he can't protect her.
Is it allowed for a husband to go away and leave his wife alone?
Some of the brothers cited that in the time of the Prophet pbuh , the men were often away in Jihad - but I was thinking that this is not an appropriate example to follow since they are going on holiday and not jihad? going on jihad was going away in the cause of Allah swt - a holiday with the brothers is not!!
Anyways it was a quite light hearted conversation and no-one got upset or anything - but we admitted we do not know the ruling on this. Obviously I know a wife cannot travel without her mahrem for longer than certain periods of time - some sources say 3 or 2 or 1 day . But is there a similar thing for the men?
Can the husband leave the wife alone for more than 1 day and 1 night ?
If anyone can help much appreciated
Jazak'allah khair
Salaams