I don't want to complain about stuff but I'm in this situation and I don't want to sin nor do I want my husband to. I don't intend to back bite or anything I just need some input because according to my dad you're supposed to listen to your husband "even if you're praying and he calls you, your allowed to leave your prayer" he says which I haven't heard anywhere else before. Anyways my husband tells me to do so many things that are sins and I even tell him not to but he doesn't listen. For example he makes me listen to music, he just plays it or whatever. Even during ramadhan! I tell him at least don't do it then but he tells me just listen to it. He makes me masturbate with him on video cause he lives far away. For so many months I've been refusing him and thank goodness Ramadan came because now he can't make me but on eid he wants to do it and I will continue to refuse. He tells me I'm stubborn but I'm just sick of sinning and I don't want to be punished in the hereafter. I won't see him for another year though and I don't know how long I can keep this up without him forcing me to do it again. Another point as you all know making images is a major sin. He's a photographer and he wants to do this as a job even though I've told him its a sin and he said he knows. He said when I come to Pakistan next year he's gonna take pictures of me and he said I can't say no I have to do this for him. I know that all of a woman is aura and it is not permissible for pictures of her to be taken. I'm so lost, i try to avoid sinning as best I even refuse to but he takes this as I don't love him and my dad takes it as I'm being disobedient to him! I don't want to sin nor do I want to put others in sin. Please don't take this as my husband is a big bad guy because he's not, he's very caring and sweet but this is just a question. How can avoid sinning in these types of situations?