Lol im still here.
Iv just bein thinkin
and for the dating subject i no its haram and thats y i want to get married. Im not getting married becasue of my desires more that whenever im with her it does not feel right.
The best thing i think i should is to spend less time with her and the time im with her ill try to teach her about islam.
Islam is so easy to teach becasue everything about it is perfect. To be honest this girl had a hard life in the past. Her dad abused her, her parents left her and now she lives with foster parents. she tried to ask allah for help but she said nothin happend. If u look at god through her eyes i can c y she doesnt believe in god and thats y its hard to talk about islam infront of her. \
So how do i bring islam to her? One thing iv started is asking for allahs help during prayer.
:salam2:
If I could advice one thing, it would be that yes do not spend so much time with her, and if you do somehow end up spending time with her you must follow Islaamic etiquette. If you know something is Haraam akhi, you have to stay away from it as much as you are able! I know this is difficult in so many ways, even with us and all that we do, however this is also your Jihaad.
We should never think of how small a sin is, as Bilâl b. Sa’d – Allah have mercy on him – said:
Do not think about how small the sin is,
but think about who you have just disobeyed.
Ibn Al-Mubârak, Al-Zuhd wa Al-Raqâ`iq Vol.1 p150.
And this is just a sin SubhanAllah, think of the status of that which is haraam.
May Allah forgive us and rectify our wrong deeds!
I believe if you wish to do dawah to her you must do it with your emotions entirely in check. We cant afford to cross the limits of Allah, so beware of approaching them in case something were to happen. Either that or get a sister, someone you know to try do to dawah etc, but I do not believe if you are too involved with her or you cannot maintain the Islaamic limits while with her that it is appropriate for you to do dawah at all. The means of calling to Islaam cannot be in a way that is not allowed.
Allah knows best. May Allah open her heart and guide her to the truth.
Here's a thread I made earlier, not everyone who goes through much abuse, trouble ect has trouble believing in Allah, in fact, once they are shown the beauty, correctness, and upright morality of Islaam, many times they are the first to realize how good it is, since they've seen the worst of humanity...
http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=46339
wasalam