I need some advise!!!!

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sarah88

New Member
:salam2:
my dear brothers and sisters i really need some guidance inshallah,after struggling hard with my nufs i have finally returned to this beautiful religon, but i am finding it hard to stay focussed what would you advise me??

IS THERE a dua that will help me?

another question i have alhamdulilah moved away from very bad sin which i am very very ashamed of:astag:,being in an haram relasionship alhamdulilah me and the boy have turned to Allah and moved away form this haram but i am finding it hard moving away from him 101% i still talk to him over the phone now and again as our intension is to marry.

I no this is not right but i am struggling i DO NOT want to commit haram again how can i stop this??
 
a_brother

a_brother

Make dua for us all
:salam2: sister

best thing to do is to be around muslims... no matter if one is raised or reverted to Isalm... coming to website like this one is also very useful... the more you learn about islam, the more comfort you'll find in your heart/life... there is no short cut sister, try to be around muslims/Islam... the wolf's easy target is the cattle that don't stay with the gathering of other cattle, likewise, the shaytan's easy target is the muslim who doesn't be around muslims/Islam...

if you can marry the brother (if he's a muslim), than your solution in that part is solved. InshaAllah, both of you would gain rewards by taking care of each other (a cover for each other)...

hope to see you more often in this website inshaAllah :)... Salam sister
 
amirah80

amirah80

*Fear Allah*
Salam Alaikum Sis

Akhi A_brother made a great point be with muslims and make them your community and unite with them. They can help you stay away from the worldly things. I will make Du'aa for you, Insha'Allah.

Okti Amriah80

And Allah Knows Best
 
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sarah88

New Member
THANK YOU

:salam2:

Thank you for your advise!!

Inshallah i will take your advise, may allah reward you all!!

you are right surronding myself with practising muslims will help a great deal

jazakallah khair
 
Bawar

Bawar

Struggling2Surrender
Assalamu alaikum sister Sarah88!

Brothers and sisters gave you beautiful adivce and I second the advice given by a_brother.

Dua is good in all circumstances as without the help of Allah, we are unable to do anything, but at the same time it is crucial to take responsibility for your action and this requires determination.

So, take your actions more seriously.
Lastly, I can't give you better advice than the advice given to us by Allah himself as follows:

29:45
Recite what is sent of the Book by inspiration to thee, and establish regular Prayer: for Prayer restrains from shameful and unjust deeds; and remembrance of Allah is the greatest (thing in life) without doubt. And Allah knows the (deeds) that ye do.


May the help of Allah be with you.

Wassalam
 
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cmelbouzaidi

Junior Member
Dear Sister,

I agree with all the wonderful advice above. Stay close to your sisters in Islam and get into the routine of doing your five daily prayers.

Also, if this young man loves you, stay away from each other until you are ready to get married and Insha Allah, you will grow stronger in your faith together after that :)

I will remember you in my dua, little sis.

Your sister,

Catherine
 
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