Salam Aleikon!
I'm just so depressed right now. My husband's sisters don't like me, I became Muslim 5 years a go, and I got married last February, since April we are being separate, I'm in my country waiting for the papers since his American Citizen and I'm immigrant. I love my husband from the bottom of my heart and I know he loves me too. But now I just realize that his family especially sisters don't like me at all...They are calling him, everyday for him to get married again. To find a real born and family Muslim wife. They keep saying that his mother is not happy and he should married a second one just to make his mother happy.
I just dont understand. I try so hard to make peace and show them how much I love my husband and how greatfull Im to be a muslim.
I cry almost everyday, it's been so hard that I have to be away from him Durant such time because of the papers and now also I have to be with this situation. I just cant sleep anymore, on the begginning me and my husband use to talk about this and he was saying dont worry we just keep like this till you came back to the US and after this we talk to everybody, but now he's so stressful about everything, about life, work, immigration process, the hole thing and I believe the sisters keep calling him, that he told me today he doesn't wanna talk about it, and when he comes next month to see me he will talk to me about this...just make me cry more and more....I dont know if they convince him to get marryied, I dont know...I was surprised because we could tell me ...NO ..dont worry or something like this...
I just dont know what to do or what to say.
Since I'm his wife what can I do to prove them that I can make him happy, that I can dye for him, I just don't understand how can people be like this. I was just planning to start my family, have kids, be happy with my husband just like any normal Muslim. Why do I have to be so humiliate like this just because I did not born a MUSLIM....I'm Muslim now...not because of him, or them, but because of me...because of my heart who found ALLAH and his glory....I'm so proud to be A MUSLIM...I just wanna be happy with my husband...
I'm so sorry to be so depressed but really this is killing me...the hole thing is making me so small and fragil....I pray 5 times a day and each time I cry..I cry so much I could even stop my self...I just don't know what to do...
Tks
Fabi
I'm just so depressed right now. My husband's sisters don't like me, I became Muslim 5 years a go, and I got married last February, since April we are being separate, I'm in my country waiting for the papers since his American Citizen and I'm immigrant. I love my husband from the bottom of my heart and I know he loves me too. But now I just realize that his family especially sisters don't like me at all...They are calling him, everyday for him to get married again. To find a real born and family Muslim wife. They keep saying that his mother is not happy and he should married a second one just to make his mother happy.
I just dont understand. I try so hard to make peace and show them how much I love my husband and how greatfull Im to be a muslim.
I cry almost everyday, it's been so hard that I have to be away from him Durant such time because of the papers and now also I have to be with this situation. I just cant sleep anymore, on the begginning me and my husband use to talk about this and he was saying dont worry we just keep like this till you came back to the US and after this we talk to everybody, but now he's so stressful about everything, about life, work, immigration process, the hole thing and I believe the sisters keep calling him, that he told me today he doesn't wanna talk about it, and when he comes next month to see me he will talk to me about this...just make me cry more and more....I dont know if they convince him to get marryied, I dont know...I was surprised because we could tell me ...NO ..dont worry or something like this...
I just dont know what to do or what to say.
Since I'm his wife what can I do to prove them that I can make him happy, that I can dye for him, I just don't understand how can people be like this. I was just planning to start my family, have kids, be happy with my husband just like any normal Muslim. Why do I have to be so humiliate like this just because I did not born a MUSLIM....I'm Muslim now...not because of him, or them, but because of me...because of my heart who found ALLAH and his glory....I'm so proud to be A MUSLIM...I just wanna be happy with my husband...
I'm so sorry to be so depressed but really this is killing me...the hole thing is making me so small and fragil....I pray 5 times a day and each time I cry..I cry so much I could even stop my self...I just don't know what to do...
Tks
Fabi