I want some respect!

[Muslim_Gurl]

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SubhanaALLAH!!! I hate school!!!! Ugghhhh...and boysss!!!! Asthagfirullah. Its sooo annoying. SubhanALLAH, I want some respect from these boys. This girl in my class is sooo repected by the boys and everone in our school because...because she's a niqabi!!! They make soo much space for her when shes walking through the hallwayss and they even lower there gaze (sometimes) when shes there, even though they arent practicing muslim (i think). anywayzzz, when im there, they dont move at all, where I have to squeeze myself through them, SubhanaALLAH!! AND THEY DO IT ON PURPOSE!!!! Because I've never seen them doing this to other sisters in my class. Its just sooo annoying!! I mean seriously, I deserve as much respect as the niqabi. SubhanaALLAH!! :shymuslima1: AND WHAT GETS ME MAD IS THAT THEY EVEN TRY TO BUMP INTO ME!!!!! The sisters in my class my class laugh at this when they actually see it happening but beleive me, its NOT funny!!! Sometimes I walk beside the Niqabi and they dont even glance at me when shes there, but when I'm alone, its like...like...like I'm from Jannah or something lool (Asthaghfirullah). I really need some respect...not love from themm....no thanks....i just want respect so I can feel proud about being a muslim and a servant of ALLAH...and not just looking down as though Im the most sadest girl on earth. I can always tell them to move out of my way, lool, but that will just give away my modesty. How can I ever gain respect, maybe by holding on to a quran 24-7 so they know I'm uninterested in what they do? UHHHH....its soo hard...is there like a dua that can help me. Have you guys been through this. SubhanaALLAH ITS SOOO ANNOYINGGG!!!!!:angryblue:

 

[a_stranger]

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Dear sister , I think the more we correct what is within ourselves and come closer to Allah by having more Taqwa we get more respect....Take care of your Ibada more (prayer, fasting, ......reading Quran...Remembering Allah .) ...... Be busy with Obediance to Allah you will forget others.

 

[Prosperous]

sister,do you wear hijab,or are you wearing the dresses which shows the boys your figure and makes them temper???,because I clearly know how different boys(muslims as well non-muslims) even talks,looks and respect the two type of girls.Beleive me, when I was 14,i wore all western dresses,with this no hands tops,fitting tight unto my slim body,laze and embryoidery tops,capri pants,and tight pants, which will be like a painting on my body.I cannot walk with my girlfriends(who also wear same dresscode),without being disurbed,teased,trying to bump,looking and every other thing.they do this to all girls,not even one is left.BUt when i started wearing long sleeves the next year,this thing got reduced,and when i wore hijab at almost 17(too late), no one even gave a gaze at me when i walk alne on the road,they respect me,my new classmates,the boys they did not talk me unless it is necessary or related to studies,because they new what was my beleife and what i would appreciate from them.I love my hijab so much because I got all respect i ever wanted,now I'm living with non-muslims,none of the boys talk to me unless required,because i don't talk to them either,they show me way,and no one try to get along.
so basically what I am saying is,people DO judge you by your dresscode.,IF you wear muslim dress and show no intrest in talking to them,looking and laughing at jokes,they won't try to annoy you.this is my experience.

 

[al-fajr]

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Do you wear proper hijab, as in, covering the rest of the body not just the head?

If not, then thats something to consider inshaAllaah.

Otherwise, try a niqaab, I daresay the niqaabi sister in your school could do with some company

 

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

Assalamu Alaykum,

I think sister you need to put your foot down and tell them to back off or you will report them to the school. They are Muslims they should know better so i would suggest you take action.

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

salamz

lol, yes!!! I wear hijab and abaya!!!! ALL BLACK!!! Very long hijabs, and im comptely covered, mashaALLAH. and anywayzz, thats the school uniform too, lool, so im not the only one like this at school. no the thing is, they were in my class last year when i wasnt so religious. and i used to talk to them, a little, and always laugh at there jokes, which made them proud, lol. nowwww....we arent in the same class because mashaALLAH, there are many brothers and sisters in our grade so the boys and girls are seperate this year, so i never get to talk to them...authoobillah, why should i even talk to them? anywayzz, you know that little saying where the more modest you are, the more attractive you are to men? yeaaa, that is soooo true. there is this one pretty girl in my class, mashaALLAH, and at first the guys really liked her but then she started talking woth them and always wanted their attention so they all started to forget about her, i guess because they got annoyed by her or something. anywayzz, i really dont know what to do, i think its my fault, if i didnt make friends with them , none of this would have happened. uhhh...but i wasnt a good girl then, and i couldnt think about this. anywayzz, i think i should now start speaking up for myself, thnx for the help.....(is there any duas for this problem?)

wasalamz

 

[al-fajr]

salamz

lol, yes!!! I wear hijab and abaya!!!! ALL BLACK!!! Very long hijabs, and im comptely covered, mashaALLAH. and anywayzz, thats the school uniform too, lool, so im not the only one like this at school. no the thing is, they were in my class last year when i wasnt so religious. and i used to talk to them, a little, and always laugh at there jokes, which made them proud, lol. nowwww....we arent in the same class because mashaALLAH, there are many brothers and sisters in our grade so the boys and girls are seperate this year, so i never get to talk to them...authoobillah, why should i even talk to them? anywayzz, you know that little saying where the more modest you are, the more attractive you are to men? yeaaa, that is soooo true. there is this one pretty girl in my class, mashaALLAH, and at first the guys really liked her but then she started talking woth them and always wanted their attention so they all started to forget about her, i guess because they got annoyed by her or something. anywayzz, i really dont know what to do, i think its my fault, if i didnt make friends with them , none of this would have happened. uhhh...but i wasnt a good girl then, and i couldnt think about this. anywayzz, i think i should now start speaking up for myself, thnx for the help.....(is there any duas for this problem?)

wasalamz

"Hayaa and Trustworthiness will be the first to go from this world; therefore keep asking Allaah for them." [Bayhaaqee]

So theres your du'aa.

If this was me, I would probably report them to someone of authority. It appears that you go to an Islaamic school (since abayah is your uniform) surely it wouldnt be too difficult to get the message accross to one of your teachers that there is lack of Islaamic conduct in the corridors?

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