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I need a bit of help...I need to give a friend advice...she's facing a big problem...she told her Parents that she wanted to marry a guy she knew from university but they refused and now they are forcing her to marry someone she doesnt want to marry...she told them she doesnt mind getting married to someone from their choice but she wants them to find her someone who she would want to marry atleast....they wont listen to her though.... so she told me she's going to leave home my dad would never let her stay with me if he found out why she left so she said she'll rent a place and live alone....if she does that she'll be alone and loose everything...even the guy she wanted to marry in the first place wont be able to marry her if she leaves home....i keep telling her not to leave but she says what do you want me to do ? marry the guy i dont like and be miserable forever??? Her parents wont let her marry anyone outside of their own cast (whatever that means) which is totally unislamic....i don't know how muslims can even even think like that..it's a pity they're acting so ignorant....the thing is i dont know what advice to give her..i feel guilty because i cant keep her at my place...but if she leaves home she will have no where to go
What would be the proper Islamic way to deal with this situation??
I need a bit of help...I need to give a friend advice...she's facing a big problem...she told her Parents that she wanted to marry a guy she knew from university but they refused and now they are forcing her to marry someone she doesnt want to marry...she told them she doesnt mind getting married to someone from their choice but she wants them to find her someone who she would want to marry atleast....they wont listen to her though.... so she told me she's going to leave home my dad would never let her stay with me if he found out why she left so she said she'll rent a place and live alone....if she does that she'll be alone and loose everything...even the guy she wanted to marry in the first place wont be able to marry her if she leaves home....i keep telling her not to leave but she says what do you want me to do ? marry the guy i dont like and be miserable forever??? Her parents wont let her marry anyone outside of their own cast (whatever that means) which is totally unislamic....i don't know how muslims can even even think like that..it's a pity they're acting so ignorant....the thing is i dont know what advice to give her..i feel guilty because i cant keep her at my place...but if she leaves home she will have no where to go
What would be the proper Islamic way to deal with this situation??