Important Reminder Related to Sincere Repentance

MusLiMah_Kubra

Hasbi-Allah
:salam2: wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu

Indeed the shaytan has succeeded in leading many people astray from the straight path of Allah. He promised this, as we were informed by our Lord - The Most High - when He said:
I will indeed sit on Your straight path. Then I will approach them from the front, from behind, from the right and then from the left. You will find most of them to be ungrateful. (Surah al 'Araaf:18)

From the countless tricks of the shaytan and his constant deception of the children of Adam (may the blessings of Allah be upon him) is that he seeks to divert the servant away from performing sincere repentance. He is keen to accomplish this through several means and sinister strategies. Amongst his strategies is persuading an individual to blame others for difficulties and calamities that occur as a result of one's own sins. Due to this Allah The Most High has informed His servant that that which occurs in one's life of calamity is a direct or indirect result of what a person has put forward by way of his own hands. Allah The Most High said:

That which befalls you of calamity is due to what your hands have put forward, and Allah pardons much. (Surah al Shura:30)

Sheikh 'Abdul Rahmaan al Sa'di commented on the above verse:

Allah informs in this verse that a person is not afflicted with a trial in his body, wealth, children, or in anything that he loves and is dear to him, except that this occurs due to that which he has put forward of sins from his own hands. (Tayseer Kareem al Rahmaan pg.899)

The Salaf of the past realized this evil plot of the shaytan and as a result, they did not seek to blame others if calamities took place, especially those which occurred as a result of one's sins.
If one were to read the speech of the Salaf, one would find them to be undoubtedly well versed and exceptionally intelligent as it pertains to sins and repentance. The likes of their true understanding of the ill effects of sins and what follows them of trials and calamity can be witnessed in the statement of Fudayl bin 'Eyaad, he said:

Indeed I disobey Allah and as a consequence, I witness the evil result in the character of my donkey and my servant. (Hilyat al Awliyah 8/109, Al Daa wa Dawaa pg.134)

Another example which shows how the Salaf viewed this matter is illustrated in the story of the repentance of Al Habeeb Abu Muhammad. It is mentioned that he was a wealthy merchant who used to lend money to those in need, but with a stipulation that the debtor repays the loan along with interest. One day while Al Habeeb was leaving his home he passed by a group of young boys who upon seeing him began to chant:

Here comes the man who deals in interest!

Upon hearing this, Al Habeeb lowered his head in humiliation and said:

Oh Allah! You have exposed my affair even to these young boys!

Al Habeeb then returned home, gathered his wealth and said:

Oh my Lord! I am a slave, and I seek to purchase myself with this wealth, so please free me.

In the morning Al Habeeb donated all of his wealth in charity and thereafter he began to diligently busy himself with the worship Allah.

It is mentioned that from that time on, if anyone saw Al Habeeb, he would either be fasting, or indulged in prayer and remembrance of Allah.

It took place that after some time Al Habeeb passed by a group of youth who upon seeing him mentioned:

Lower your voices. Here comes Al Habeeb, the devoted worshiper!
Upon hearing this Al Habeeb said:

Oh Allah! At times You admonish, and other times You praise. Indeed this is all from You.

The people of his time mentioned that Al Habeeb became in individual whose supplication was always accepted. (Tahtheeb al Kalaam 5/390)


Many lessons and points of reflection can be derived from this story. From amongst them:

1. When Al Habeeb realized that his affair became well known to the public, he immediately turned to Allah in repentance and sought His forgiveness.

2. He did not become angry because of the information being spread, but rather he straight away concluded that his own sins were the cause of the public becoming aware of his faults.

3. Without delay Al Habeeb removed from his presence that which he had gained of wealth by way of sin. This is an indication of his true sincerity in repentance.

4. Al Habeeb did not begin to inquire about who informed the youth of his sin, nor did he say that those who informed the youth had backbitten him. Instead, he grasped the most significant benefit derived from this occurrence, which is the fact that he has committed a wrong against his soul, and he is in need of Allah's forgiveness.

5. Due to his true sincerity and eagerness to repent, Allah blessed Al Habeeb by rectifying his honor with the people, and He made him and individual whose supplication was always answered.

In the actions of Al Habeeb are important lessons for the believers and we should all try to gain from this tremendous story.

A present day example of this is, if a Muslim female, for example, were to listen to music from time to time on the internet. One day while her husband is sitting with their children one of them says: Abee, do you know that Ummi listens to music on the computer? If the husband confronts and admonishes his wife, she should not become upset and angry with her children. Instead, she should recognize that possibly this means that her Lord wants well for her! How? It's possible that if her husband never became aware of this sin, she would continue performing it thereby causing greater harm to her soul. But once her fault became known to her husband and she was admonished for it, at this point, if she stops the sin, turns to Allah and seeks His forgiveness, this trial in reality has become a blessing!

The statement of Fudayl and the story of Al Habeeb clearly illustrate how the Salaf understood the great affair of repentance, and how they attributed what befell them of trials and tribulations to themselves and not to others. Indeed when an individual comes to such a realization, he will begin to sincerely turn to Allah and seek His pardon.

Another matter which is worthy of mentioning is that if a servant finds himself constantly committing wrong, however his Lord does not cause difficulties and misfortunes to occur in his life, but instead Allah continues to bless him, this is considered Istidraaj (leading to one's destruction). This fact was mentioned by our beloved Prophet Muhammad :saw:, he said:

If you notice that Allah continues to bless an individual with that which he loves of this world, while that person persists to indulge in sin, know that this is leading to his destruction. (Musnad Imam Ahmed and rated authentic in Silsilah al Saheehah 1/700)

The Prophet:saw: also said:

If Allah wants well for His servant, He rushes the punishment for his sins in this life, but when Allah doesn't want well for His servant, He delays the punishment until the Day of Judgment. (Jame' al Tirmidhee:2396)

The above narrations clearly show that when Allah wants good for a person who has wronged himself, He will put in that person's path a calamity that will distress him to such a degree that it consequently causes him to turn to his Lord in a state of humiliation seeking His mercy and begging for His pardon. This proves that tribulations in the life of the Muslim can in fact become enormously needed means of purification. But this only takes place if the servant notices this reality and uses the calamity to his benefit from the very beginning. In light of this, the Prophet of Mercy :saw: said:

Indeed patience is to be displayed at the beginning of the mishap. (Sahih al Bukhari:1283, Sahih Muslim:2178)

With clarification of this important issue, it becomes evident how cleverly the shaytan has allowed tremendous reward and forgiveness to escape the hands of those who are neglectful and careless at times of major tests in their lives!


May Allah correct our affairs and grant us Tawfeeq to understand all matters of our wonderful religion so that we may be saved from the endless plots of the shaytan. AMEEN

 

ummyasiin

Striving for Janatul firdous
Ameen...mashallah....this is food for my soul, a must read for me.. May Allah bestoy his mercy upon you in abundunce. Amin.....We never know what information we post may highly affect ones affair, or alter theyr state of mind...subhanAllah
 

ahmed_indian

to Allah we belong
:salam2: wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu

The Prophet:saw: also said:

If Allah wants well for His servant, He rushes the punishment for his sins in this life, but when Allah doesn't want well for His servant, He delays the punishment until the Day of Judgment. (Jame' al Tirmidhee:2396)

:wasalam:,

jazaak Allah khair sister. it was truly a wonderful article.

the hadith above explains so much about the reality of lives. that we see good people in trouble and ppl who sin enjoying.

and ameen to your duas. may Allah bless you.
 

IHearIslam

make dua 4 ma finals
VERY beneficial.....baraka'Allaah feek for sharing with us.

I ask Allaah to accept your dua and to make us of those who constantly repent to him. ameen
 

WithAllahsPowers

WE ARE PROTECTED
jazakallah kheir for sharing this.

subhan allah, this was what i learnt in my sharia studies part of Quran Tafseer - i learnt yesterday.

this is what my teacher taught us and i would like to share it and add it to this topic and hope you dont mind that i share this on your post.

this is about how we look at the issue of richness and poverty but
the way we look at things and measure and evaluate things is not correct.

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In surah al fajr.

15 ‏فَأَمَّا ٱلْإِنسَنُ إِذَا مَا ٱبْتَلَىٰهُ رَبُّهُۥ فَأَكْرَمَهُۥ وَنَعَّمَهُۥ فَيَقُولُ رَبِّىٓ أَكْرَمَنِ

16 ‏وَأَمَّآ إِذَا مَا ٱبْتَلَىٰهُ فَقَدَرَ عَلَيْهِ رِزْقَهُۥ فَيَقُولُ رَبِّىٓ أَهَنَنِ

as for when his lord trys him and gives him honour and gifts, he says 'my lord has honoured me'
but when he trys him by straightening his means of life he says my lord has humiliated me.

when allah gives people money, they think allah is proud of them and is honouring them. and when someone is poor, in a state of hardship and his means are straightened as said, then they will say allah is putting me down allah is torturing me 'my god has humiliated me'- ahannan.

therefore in the sight of the human, richness and poverty is a sign of the pleasure of allah with us, if this is the case allah says: kala

no. then my teacher said part of when allah says this it means: what you say is not correct, when i give someone wealth, this does not mean i am honouring him. and when i give someone poverty it does not mean i am humiliating him.


when Allah (swt) chooses to honour someone, or to humiliate someone then he does so not by giving him the wealth of the donya or depriving him from the wealth of the donya but he rather, does this by his obedience to him (swt). this is a very important point. not many of us realise.

if he wants to honour him, he honours him by his obedience to him (swt)

an example is:

Iman al Kotabi (mercy on him) - sorry if i spelt his name wrong - in his hadith kodsi, he says that allah (swt) says 'no i do not honour the one who lives in the donya by giving him much of the donya, and i do not humiliate the one that lives in the donya by giving him less of the donya. but rather, i honour the one that i like from the donya by giving him my worship. / but when i want to honour someone i honour him by allowing him to be obedient to me.
and when i want to humiliate someone, i humiliate him by making him fall into actions of disobedience and transgressions with Allah (swt) - this is how we look at the issue of richness and poverty.

thats why iman iben ali (radi allaho an) he use to say 'if you want to know whether you are rich or poor, then wait until after you meet Allah (swt). he weights your actions then you'll know whether you are a rich person or a poor person.

from the signs of acceptance from Allah to a person is him causing the needs of the people to be through him.

i learnt all this just from surah al Fajr. it made me cry when my teacher was making this tafsir.

your richness and poverty does not reflect to your relationship with allah.
our relationship with allah is built on our worship to him and belief in him

surah al fajr is a surah that speaks to us in a language of force by allah (swt) starts with the vowes then of who do you think you are, look at what we've done to those before you. how they were punished. and then speaks about how we look at life and that we measure the success and failure by richness and poverty. and allah says we are wrong. and then he says how people act. aya 19 and 20. and after allah says no you are wrong and he what will happen to you on the day i make this earth completely flat and you will come and you will meet me and meet my angels thats the day when you will see jahanam. and thats the day that you will wish that you had fed the yatim. honoured the yatim or fed someone who was poor. and no one will ever punish you the way Allah (swt) will punish you and no one will chain or humiliate you the way Allah will. subhan allah. even though this gives us a state of fear, but we can still feel in it the might of Allah (swt)
which gives us a sense of pride in the lord that we worship. no one can punish us or humiliate us the way allah will. so who should we be scared of the way people will treat us or the way Allah will treat us.

im only sharing all this because i took notes from MusLiMah_Kubra's post and added it to the notes on my lesson of the Tafsir from yesterday because i feel its connected or it completes it. and it made it more clear. so i thought it would only be kind to share / sum up some of my notes from shariah class yesterday and share it back with you. this post completed my lesson of yesterday.

thank you for your beautiful post. thank you.

you probably think im stupid, what does this post got to do with my above notes, but only to me it completes my class of yesterday and only to me i feel it does. but i feel i wanted to share my notes too. and feel its a way of saying thanks.

subhan allah, we feel different about things and sometimes things make sense different ways than it would to another person. i hope im making sense.
 

MusLiMah_Kubra

Hasbi-Allah
jazakallah kheir for sharing this.

subhan allah, this was what i learnt in my sharia studies part of Quran Tafseer - i learnt yesterday.

this is what my teacher taught us and i would like to share it and add it to this topic and hope you dont mind that i share this on your post.

this is about how we look at the issue of richness and poverty but
the way we look at things and measure and evaluate things is not correct.

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Jazakalalh khair sister for adding to this post... :hijabi:
 
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