MohammedMaksudul
May Allah Forgive us
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Sister, I don't think anybody is blaming the women or is trying to say that a Lady can not be a teacher. True indeed, my mother is my best teacher and after Allah and His Rasul
, I love her the most. The topic of discussion was more of like, if it is feasible to have female teachers to teach young boys. Now you don't grow feelings for students Alhamdulillah, but this might not be the same for every sister. shaytan works in very little steps. He will never go to a man who is very strict in following Islam and whisper to him, go to a club and drink alcohol. Because the shaytan knows that the man will definetly not be led astray with such a thing due to his eemaan. So what the shaytan will do will try to make him do a lesser good deeds, deeds which seems valid and halal and with virtues too but probably of lesser importance than what he is already doing. In this way the shaytan brings down the man and eventually lead him astray and make him commit crimes. You may want to listen to a series of lectures called the hereafter, where they tell a story of a very pious man or in fact the most pious in a land of that time and how he was led astray by shaytan. I have no problems with a female teacher, if she is doing niqaab and proper hijab. What happened with me was I had a female teacher doing all attractive hijabs with body shape revealing dresses, which is probably not the proper hijab. I too didnt have a problem at first, but the constant stare at her during her lectures to communicate about the subject was eventually used by shaytan to put disturbances in my mind. All I want to say is that female teachers are all ok to teach anywhere, as long as they are provided with the right environment. And all male students are not the same either, I was in a boys school and I have had seen how boys as young as 12 would talk dirty about young teachers. Even if they were taught about the right morales in class, shaytan seemed to have the upper hand on them. This is because the proper environment was missing. If the teacher was properly dressed, the boys would have had no chance in getting into all these dirty talks about them. I personally respect women and always want it to be like that and so I don't want for any women or girl to be put in to a situation where they are being talked about in a dirty manner or a disrespecting manner.
@ShyHijabi, Yes I agree, women doctors are necessary for women. I understand that too as I don't want to take my mother or sisters to a man doctor and let him inspect them unless its a matter of life and death and that man is the only capable doctor around. Otherwise it is outrageous for a male doctor to touch my mother or sister and inspect.
Sister, I don't think anybody is blaming the women or is trying to say that a Lady can not be a teacher. True indeed, my mother is my best teacher and after Allah and His Rasul
, I love her the most. The topic of discussion was more of like, if it is feasible to have female teachers to teach young boys. Now you don't grow feelings for students Alhamdulillah, but this might not be the same for every sister. shaytan works in very little steps. He will never go to a man who is very strict in following Islam and whisper to him, go to a club and drink alcohol. Because the shaytan knows that the man will definetly not be led astray with such a thing due to his eemaan. So what the shaytan will do will try to make him do a lesser good deeds, deeds which seems valid and halal and with virtues too but probably of lesser importance than what he is already doing. In this way the shaytan brings down the man and eventually lead him astray and make him commit crimes. You may want to listen to a series of lectures called the hereafter, where they tell a story of a very pious man or in fact the most pious in a land of that time and how he was led astray by shaytan. I have no problems with a female teacher, if she is doing niqaab and proper hijab. What happened with me was I had a female teacher doing all attractive hijabs with body shape revealing dresses, which is probably not the proper hijab. I too didnt have a problem at first, but the constant stare at her during her lectures to communicate about the subject was eventually used by shaytan to put disturbances in my mind. All I want to say is that female teachers are all ok to teach anywhere, as long as they are provided with the right environment. And all male students are not the same either, I was in a boys school and I have had seen how boys as young as 12 would talk dirty about young teachers. Even if they were taught about the right morales in class, shaytan seemed to have the upper hand on them. This is because the proper environment was missing. If the teacher was properly dressed, the boys would have had no chance in getting into all these dirty talks about them. I personally respect women and always want it to be like that and so I don't want for any women or girl to be put in to a situation where they are being talked about in a dirty manner or a disrespecting manner.@ShyHijabi, Yes I agree, women doctors are necessary for women. I understand that too as I don't want to take my mother or sisters to a man doctor and let him inspect them unless its a matter of life and death and that man is the only capable doctor around. Otherwise it is outrageous for a male doctor to touch my mother or sister and inspect.
