Just a thing to share ^^

[Salam2You]

Salaam alaikum everybody!

I live in England, with many muslimahs here, and at this moment I have one very bad influenced sister who takes the ego of ''gangsters and very bad people'' against my other very nice and kind sister...

They were going to fight, until I told my good friend not to. She said if she would back off people would tease her, but as we all know, it's not people we must please, it is Allah, and ofcourse backing off a fight and losing a strong reputation (of being cool) for Allah is ofcourse a great deal.
The other one is ignorant and is very angry at my friend, so that is shaytan being proud of her attitude.

But I'd just like to say, if any of you are in some kind of difficulty or situation like this, can I just point out that backing off for Allah's sake is a great achievement, you should have seen how my good friend repented infront of me as if she was guilty for whatever could have happened between the two, it was like she was guided straight away, mashallah. All praise be to SubhanAllah.

 

[faaraa]

SWEET ADVISE...

JAZAKALLAHU KHAIR

FEE AMANILLAH

 

[abu'muhammad]

Wa'alaykum assalaam,

Masha Allaah ! May Allaah reward you with good for the good advice you gave to the sister. With that if possible we can have two words discussion/ daawah to the person who is found to be eager to fight/abuse others at times. Who knows if that might work for them too and could be as good as others.

 

[Salam2You]

Thank you faaraa for your feedback ^^

Wa'alaykum assalaam,

Masha Allaah ! May Allaah reward you with good for the good advice you gave to the sister. With that if possible we can have two words discussion/ daawah to the person who is found to be eager to fight/abuse others at times. Who knows if that might work for them too and could be as good as others.

The eager friend of mine was told by another good friend to ''calm down, and don't get gunat (sin) for no reason since it's pointless, the other sister is scared of you so leave her for the sake of Allah'', and the astrayed friend of mine replies '' I DON'T CARE! '' Astaghfurullah, we don't know how to handle this.. Any ideas?

 

[abu'muhammad]

Alhamdulillah ! that is the right way. Your friend’s effort to resolve the dissension is appreciative. Going for some ideas here as asked like.. the people need to calm down and someone wise can have a talk over the issue.

I am sorry to say and with no intension of pulling down others but as often seen that people involve themselves in unnecessary and less needed matters merely trying to make others line shorter or their words as a part of laughter, or to show some status and similar things like that. With that some disputes have negligible cause or reasons even. Like.. ‘I said that and he said that’ type.

May Allaah give us good heart and adoring speech. Imam Abdullah Ibn Mubarak (rahimahullah) rightly said that "I studied adab (manners) for thirty years and I studied knowledge for twenty years."