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The hadith about to whom one should marry, subhanAllah!
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27: sahih bukhari
The hadith stress importance of marrying religious woman.
The one who is religious is Allah fearing, patient ,trouble-shooter and reduces family problems. Where-ever people are living who have correct understanding of Islam & don’t do shirk or bidah, or other deviant acts than they will have same base or culture in terms of tawheed ,worship, beliefs and practices. and there are no problems of communication or mutual-understanding. They understand a marriage, its rights and obligations, subhanAllah ! The ahadiths stresses importance on looking for deen. As it en-compasses all goodness in it, and those upon it also have goodness. and will love modesty, simplicity, humility and their affairs would be simple. They will uphold sunnah, whether small or big, not looking it in status but as the way of prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wasallam).
And Allah is the all-seer. No-one has seen the unseen or what is next. After marrying to someone and keeping patience and reliance in Allah over the problems than its not in vain and the reward is with Allah. other hadith mentions them clothing for each other, subhanAllah! Allah made them care-taker, affectionate and helper for each other.
The thing is there could be difference in views among the people in different areas or countries but with deen that goes side-ways. The teaching from ahadith is neither watching arabi nor azami but first one who has deen in life, subhanAllah ! For that we first seek Allah’s mercy and his pleasure in every deed we are going to do.
The land is of Allah and all are His servants on it, whether they upright,hypocrite,transgressor and innovator. generalizations equals them all. just my opinion...
