Marriage Choice , Please Advice !

[Hopetogoparadis]

Assalam alakum

For those who read my other posts in forum, i hope i am not bothering anyone, but i just dont have much people around me to ask questions whenever i want, so i thought this place might be good for it. There are websites such as islamqa. where they answer questions, but i prefer getting answers from different people to see what everyone thinks.


My parents would like someone who lives in my home country, but the thing is, most parents who are religious are into politics which is against my parents view of politics. So they couldnt get on well, if you know what i mean. And if the parents get on well with my parents about politics, then i can not get on well with family of girl even if the girl has same views like me. So in this case, i should try to find an orphane girl or a girl who has non-politic parents which is like reaaaally rare in this country.

Other hand, i thought trying to find someone who is a foreigner Muslim might be better, as her parents wouldnt need to talk to my parents much. But then, my parents first wish wouldnt come true.

I dont know what to do... Not marrying at all, untill my parents view change or untill day pass away ?

Or trying to find a religious girl, even if my parents wouldnt be too happy about our marriage because we might need to live in another country and my parents couldnt see us often ?

 

[Aapa]

Assalaam walaikum,

Slow it down brother. You are on a subatomic leap into hyperspace to infinity and beyond...
I am still on Planet Earth.

You made a profound statement. Something about religious parents and politics. I believe what you are trying to say is the more religious a parent is the more knowledge the parent has of Sharia and the closer the parent tries to remain on the Straight Path. What appears to be political is the obedience to the Law of Allah.

That is not the same as the term political we have come to use. The "democracy" if you have it.

Is this the case?

 

[muhammad sabri]

:salam2:

Sister Aapa's post made me laugh, ahah by the way as far as i understood the asnwer to your question is...that what your objective as a muslim should be is to live according to the laws of our Creator, Allah(swt). Being married to a religious woman that only has the purpose to fulfilll Allah's commands regarding of what people may think in THEIR opinion(like politics and so on) is the right thing.
Allah(swt) never said : marry a muslimah which is good in islam..and POLITICS ahah but he revealed to us(and i quote a sahih hadith now):The Prophet Muhammad(saws) said that a woman is married for four things, her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. You should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser. "(Bukhari) And he(saws) said, "The whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of the world is the pious woman. " (Muslim)


I hope this takes the doubt away from you, i tried to by as generic as possible because i don't know specifically your situation but i think that inch'Allah this will be enough to give you a clear idea on what to do..


-AND ALLAH(SWT) KNOWS BEST)-

dear brother