:My innocent disbeliever Mother:

sachin4islam

Junior Member
Assalam Alaikum: My Islamic Br's & Sis's.

Today my Mum and other women at my home observed a ritualistic fast. This fast do not correspond to our Islamic fasting. She just about an hour before took her meals after witnessing Moon in the sky as a sign of breaking the fast.
Even after sighting the Moon she awaited my Dad to arrive and began her meals only after my Dad began his dinner.

My Mum is very innocent and she just adheres to rituals and religion what she has been witnessing since her childhood. Undoubtedly she commits Shirk but out of her innocence. By Allah I have never found her uttering a single word against any individual except out of advise.

The message of true Deen is being passed to her but its on to Allah to guide her. She never stopped me following Islam. Rather when I acquainted her of my reversion she advised me to stand firm in Islam. My Dad still doesn't know for my reversion to Islam but he is familiar with my inclination towards Islam.

Is not Shirk by my Mum out of innocence forgivable?.

May Allah guide my parents and my progeny to Islam.

Regards.
Abdullah.
 

zainali

Junior Member
assalamualikum brother ,

its really sad to see ur mom who is innocent and from what ur saying like she advices u to be firm on islam , it seems she like islam but due to family she might not be able to accept islam by herself ,

may allah swt guide her towards islam and make her heart open for islam and inshallah bro just try and spread islam's message in ur family one day or the other inshallah they accept islam and when they do all there previous sins will be forgiven inshallah .
 

queenislam

★★★I LOVE ALLAH★★★
Allah swt Knows Best!



:salam2:


Dear brother,

My advice is just leave them as they is
If it really fated that they will become muslim then they will
If not and they are happy with what they are
you should be happy with their decision.
Because that's the way they choosing to be
and
Allah swt Knows Best!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytMRiRJrDiM
Surat 109 Al Kafirun - The Disbelievers
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Read and listen to the holy qurán
will find peace and happiness in oneself.
:ma:

~May Allah swt help and guide you~Amin!

Take care!
~Wassalam :)
 

sachin4islam

Junior Member
assalamualikum brother ,

its really sad to see ur mom who is innocent and from what ur saying like she advices u to be firm on islam , it seems she like islam but due to family she might not be able to accept islam by herself ,

may allah swt guide her towards islam and make her heart open for islam and inshallah bro just try and spread islam's message in ur family one day or the other inshallah they accept islam and when they do all there previous sins will be forgiven inshallah .

Assalam Alaikum: Thanks.Ameen for your Du'aa.Actually my Mum is so soft hearted that she won't be able to kill even an insect causing her trouble. May Allah forgive but it is very difficult for me to abolish her mental picture of Muslims being meat-eaters.
 

sachin4islam

Junior Member


:salam2:


Dear brother,

My advice is just leave them as they is
If it really fated that they will become muslim then they will
If not and they are happy with what they are
you should be happy with their decision.
Because that's the way they choosing to be
and
Allah swt Knows Best!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytMRiRJrDiM
Surat 109 Al Kafirun - The Disbelievers
[yt]ytMRiRJrDiM[/yt]

Read and listen to the holy qurán
will find peace and happiness in oneself.
:ma:

~May Allah swt help and guide you~Amin!

Take care!
~Wassalam :)


Assalam Alaikum: Dear Sister. It is fard to invite Non-Muslims to Islam,so how can I neglect my parents.
 

mosabaig

Junior Member
Calling towards Allah and his final Prophet

:salam2:

My Dear brother,
We are very fortunate to have Islamic knowledge and believe on that knowledge in our hearts,
It’s an obligation upon us to share our understanding and knowledge with each other’s sincerely and honestly in whatever capacity we can.
Please keep on telling all your loved one about oneness of Allah and his final prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him)
As it might open a door for them, also we get huge reward upon making efforts.

May Allah enable us to speak about him and his prophet in an eloquent polite and humble way with sincerity wisdom and love. Ameen


:wasalam:

:allahuakbar::allahuakbar::allahuakbar::allahuakbar::shahadah:
 

BrotherInIslam7

La Illaha Illa Allah
Staff member
:salam2:

Try to concentrate on making dawah towards Tawheed and relate verses to your respected mother in your native tongue.

May Allah azz zawajal put the barakah in your words and guide your family to the truth. Ameen
 

Ahsen

Junior Member
Keep telling her about the Allah and akhira.Because only that person will follow islam who believes in Allah and the day of judgment.You should keep trying but do not force her.Because people listen to someone who speaks gently.
 

queenislam

★★★I LOVE ALLAH★★★
Allah swt Knows what in the heart .

Assalam Alaikum: Dear Sister. It is fard to invite Non-Muslims to Islam,so how can I neglect my parents.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
:salam2:

Ofcourse!
Islam is for all.

But you can't force her!

Allah swt Knows what in the heart .

After making dawah towards
Tawheed and relate verses to your respected mother

Like i said
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Quote:My advice is just leave them as they is
If it really fated that they will become muslim then they will
If not and they are happy with what they are
you should be happy with their decision.
Because that's the way they choosing to be
and
Allah swt Knows Best!


Allah swt give hidayah and if she accept it

Alhamdulillah!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytMRiRJrDiM
Surat 109 Al Kafirun - The Disbelievers
[yt]ytMRiRJrDiM[/yt]

~May Allah swt help and guide you brother~Amin!

~Wassalam .
 

abu'muhammad

Junior Member
Assalaamu alaykum,

Brother Abdullah, I understand your feelings for your mother and it is natural to have the good feelings for the relatives who are living in the state of kufr.

It is a good thing that she supports you in your decision and advices you to remain firm in Islaam. In certain cases it’s not the same and the people of household make up long distances with the newly reverts but alhamdulillah it is not the case here.

The guidance is with Allah and if he wills good for your mother than InshaAllaah she will understand the message of islaam. Your work is to daawah her.

I hope this link to be useful, please do refer it - http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/11865/dawah
 

sachin4islam

Junior Member
The answer to your question, brother, is that only God knows for sure. Remember also that "God does not do an atom's weight of injustice" (4:40). And He also said in a Qudsi hadeeth, "My Grace trumps My anger", narrated by Abu-Hurayra and reported by Al-Bukhaari and Muslim.

That said, your duty of da`wa to her, with wisdom and good preaching (16:125) remains. Your love and kindness to her, your good example, your gentle but earnest advice may just be the instrument for her guidance. Amen.

Assalam Alaikum: Very true Br. what you write. And perhaps I might not have been an ideal Muslim or in last four years none of my act might not have been so impressive and powerful as a Muslim that would have pulled my parents to Islam.
 

sachin4islam

Junior Member
Assalaamu alaykum,

Brother Abdullah, I understand your feelings for your mother and it is natural to have the good feelings for the relatives who are living in the state of kufr.

It is a good thing that she supports you in your decision and advices you to remain firm in Islaam. In certain cases it’s not the same and the people of household make up long distances with the newly reverts but alhamdulillah it is not the case here.

The guidance is with Allah and if he wills good for your mother than InshaAllaah she will understand the message of islaam. Your work is to daawah her.

I hope this link to be useful, please do refer it - http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/11865/dawah

Assalam Alaikum:

Thanks and Ameen for your Du'aa. Also thanks for a useful link.
 
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