NIQAAB: According to Qur'aan wa Sunnah

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    Niqaab
    According to Quran and Sunnah





    Revelation of Al-Hijab


    Hadith - Bukhari 1:148

    The wives of the Prophet :saw: used to go to Al-Manasi, a vast open place (near Baqia at Medina) to answer the call of nature at night.

    'Umar radhian Allaahu anhu used to say to the Prophet :saw: "Let your wives be veiled," but Allaah's Apostle :saw: did not do so.

    One night Sauda bint Zam'a radhian Allahu anha the wife of the Prophet :saw: went out at 'Isha' time and she was a tall lady. 'Umar radhian Allahu anhu addressed her and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda." He said so, as he desired eagerly that the verses of Al-Hijab (the observing of veils by the Muslim women) may be revealed. So Allaah revealed the verses of "Al-Hijab"



    The Noble Qur'an - Al-Ahzab 33:59


    "O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils)** all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allaah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. "


    **the arabic word here is Jalabeeb (plural of Jalbaab), which is the loose outer garment that covers all a woman's body. It says here to use the Jalabeeb to cover all, and scholars say this means to use it to cover her head (agree upon by all scholars) and her face (agreed by many scholars, not all) and one or both eyes, in order for it to be known that she is a free woman and so not to be exposed to any harm.


    Hadith - Bukhari 6:282


    'Aisha radhian Allaha anha used to say: "When (the Verse): 'They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms,' was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their faces with the cut pieces."


    Hadith - Abu Dawud, Narrated Umm Salamah, Ummul Mu'minin

    When the verse "That they should cast their outer garments over their persons" was revealed, the women of Ansar came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing outer garments.


    The lower half of the hijab is a garment that does not show the woman's figure. Jeans and certain obvious garments do not meet this requirement.




    Hadith - Abu Dawud, Narrated Dihyah ibn Khalifah al-Kalbi

    The Apostle of Allah :saw: was brought some pieces of fine Egyptian linen and he gave me one and said:

    "Divide it into two; cut one of the pieces into a shirt and give the other to your wife for veil. Then when he turned away, he said: And order your wife to wear a garment below it and not show her figure. "



    Prescribed Methods of Covering



    Tafseer - Ibn Katheer

    "Allaah commanded the muslim women to cover this sheet on top of them to cover their bodies except one eye, when it is necessary for them to come out of their homes."



    Tafseer - Commentary by Ibn Jarir and Ahkam-ul-Quran, Vol.III, p.457


    Imam Muhammad bin Sirin said: "When I asked Ubaida bin Sufyan bin al-Harith radhian Allahu anhu the meaning of this verse and how the jalbaab was to worn, he demonstrated it to me by pulling a sheet of cloth over his head to cover his entire body, leaving the left eye uncovered. This was also the explanation of the word 'Alaihinna in this verse"


    Tafseer - Alu'si, Rul-ul-Ma'ani, Vol. 22, p. 89

    "Ibn Jarir Tabari and Ibn Al-Mundhir described the method of wearing the jalbaab according to Ibn Abbas and Qatadah radhian Allahu anhuma. The sheet should be wrapped around from the top, covering the forehead, then bringing one side of the sheet to cover the face below the eyes so that most of the face and the upper body is covered. This will leave both eyes uncovered (which is allowed in necessity). "



    Colour of Garment

    The female companions were known to wear black and dark colors (such as the hadith above, "crows on their heads"), but other colors are also permissible for a woman to wear. She must not wear any color, however, in vanity.


    Hadith - Sahih Al-Bukhari 7.715

    ...'Aisha radhian Allaahu anha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil ...



    Hadith - Sahih Al-Bukhari 7.733

    ..that he had seen Um Kulthum radhian Allaahu anha, the daughter of Allaah's Apostle :saw:, wearing a red silk garment.



    Hadith - Sahih Al-Bukhari 7.713

    The Prophet :saw: was given some clothes including a black Khamisa. The Prophet :saw: said,

    "To whom shall we give this to wear?" The people kept silent whereupon the Prophet :saw: said, "Fetch Um Khalid for me." I (Um Khalid) was brought carried (as I was small girl at that time).

    The Prophet :saw: took the Khamisa in his hands and made me wear it and said, "May you live so long that your dress will wear out and you will mend it many times."

    On the Khamisa there were some green or pale designs (The Prophet :saw: these designs) and said, "O Um Khalid! This is Sanah." (Sanah in a Ethiopian word meaning beautiful).




    Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood #4055,

    Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As radhian Allaahu anhu,

    "We came down with the Apostle of Allaah :saw: from a turning of a valley. He :saw: turned his attention to me and I was wearing a garment dyed with a reddish yellow dye. He :saw: asked: "What is this garment over you?"

    I recognised what he disliked. I then came to my family who were burning their oven. I threw it (the garment) in it and came to him the next day. He :saw: asked: "Abdullah, what have you done with the garment?"
    "
    I informed him about it. He said: Why did you not give it to one of your family to wear, for there is no harm in it for women."



    Must a Woman Wear Niqaab (Veil)?



    The general understanding in Islam regarding Sunnah, is that if the Prophet :saw: or any of his wivesradhian Allaahu anhuna or companions radhian Allaahu anhum are recorded in authentic hadith to have engaged in an act that is not haram (prohibited) as defined by Qur'aan or Sunnah, then the act is declared halal (permissible). If the companions engaged in an act that the Prophet :saw: was aware of and did not speak out against, it is halal.


    It is well-known that the wives of the Prophet :saw: covered their faces any time non-mahram men were near. A woman named Asma, who was not a wife of the Prophet , was also recorded as covering her face. Easily, one can conclude that wearing veil is halal (permissible).


    However, Muslims and Muslimahs across the world have been in "hot debate" for centuries, over the issue of whether or not covering the face is obligatory upon a Muslimah. Those who argue that it is not required, point to the use of the word khimar in the Qur'aan, and explain that today's modern khimar does not cover the face, and argue that khimar has never referred to the covering of the face, but only to that of the hair, neck, and bosoms. While one cannot deny the support of Hadith that indicate that the Prophet's :saw: wives wore khimar, one must realize that they also covered their faces at all times in the presence of non-mahram men.


    The group of scholars agree that it is a highly recommended act to cover the face. The scholars also agree that a woman must cover her adornment, yet some scholars argue that this does not include the face.


    BASING ON CULTURE VS. QUR'AAN AND SUNNAH. ...Most Muslim men, even in America, would be pleased if their wives veil, but some state that a veil draws too much attention, causing men to look upon her more than normal. However, one must realize that when men 'look', they have nothing of her to see! Regardless, this issue must stick to understanding and implementing Qur'aan and Sunnah, and not making excuses based on the current culture. Muslims are ordered not to imitate the dress of any non-Muslim culture, so, surely, we cannot make the choice to wear Niqab based on the pressures of modern day society; instead, we choose, insha^Allaah, to fear Allaahu Ta'ala, and not mankind!


    When in a state of ihram, the muslimah cannot wear niqaab. However, according to several scholars, such as Sheikh ibn Baz, even when in a state of ihram, "she should lower her headcovering or outer cloak over her face when she is in the presence of non-mahram men." So, it is to say that she should not cover her face around the other women during ihram, but that she should cover it if a non-mahram man approaches. He bases this on the hadith below, narrated by 'Aisha radhian Allaahu anha.


    In Fathul Bari, chapter Hajj, a tradition reported on the authority of Aisha (RA) says:

    "A woman in a state of Ihram (during Hajj and Umrah) should stretch her head - cloth over to her face to hide it."




    Hadith - Recorded by Ahmad, Abu Dawud and ibn Majah,

    Narrated 'Aisha radhian Allaahu anha. [In his work Jilbab al-Marah al-Muslimah, al-Albani states (p. 108) that it is hasan due to corroborating evidence. Also, in a narration from Asma radhian Allaahu anha, Asma also covered her face at all times in front of men.]



    Narrated 'Aisha radhian Allaahu anha who said, "The riders would pass us while we were with the Messenger of Allah ). When they got close to us, we would draw our outer cloak from our heads over our faces. When they passed by, we would uncover our faces."



    According to Shaikh ibn Uthaiymin, "she is not required to cover her face during the prayer unless there are non-related men around her. She must then cover her face from them, as it is not allowed for a woman to uncover her face except to her husband and her male relatives i.e., mahram."


    If a woman is not around any non-mahram men and does not fear that any will enter her area of salah, she may reveal her face and hands. This is agreed upon by the group of scholars.


    So, whether agreeing that niqab is required or not, one must surely acknowledge that it is a desirous sign of piety. What better example of sunnah to follow for a muslimah than that of the Prophet and his wives RA. Every Muslimah is encouraged to cover to the fullest, showing only one or both eyes.


    A woman does not have to wear a niqab (affixed veil), but she should emulate the female companions by using her hijab or other items, to lift and cover her face when a non-mahram man approaches, even during ihram (hajj), as this is in accordance with sunnah.


    Hadith - Muwatta 20.16

    Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that Fatima bint al-Mundhir said,

    "We used to veil our faces when we were in ihram in the company of Asma bint Abi Bakr as-Siddiq radhian Allaahu anha."




    The following Fatawa is from Sheikh Ibn Uthaiymin:


    "The Islamic hijab is for the women to cover everything that is forbidden for her to expose. That is, she covers everything that she must cover.


    "The first of those bodily parts that she must cover is her face. It is the source of temptation and the source of people desiring her. Therefore, the woman must cover her face in front of those men that are not Mahram (i.e. father, husband, etc.).


    "As for those who claim that Islamic hijab is to cover the head, shoulders, back, feet, shin and forearms while allowing her to uncover her face and hands, this is a very amazing claim. This is because it is well-known that the source of temptation and looking is the face. How can one say that the Shariah does no allow the exposure of the foot of the woman while it allows her to uncover her face?


    "It is not possible that there could be in the Esteemed, Wise and Noble Shariah a contradiction. Yet everyone knows that the temptation from uncovering the face is much greater than the temptation that results from the uncovering of the feet. Everyone also knows that the most sought after aspect of the woman for men is the face. If you told a prospective groom that a woman’s face is ugly but her feet are beautiful, he would not propose to such a woman.


    "However, if you told him that her face was beautiful but her hands, palms, or shins were less than beautiful, he would still propose to her. From this one can conclude that the face is the first thing that must be covered.


    "There are also evidences from the Book of Allaah Ta'ala and the Sunnah of our Prophet :saw:. There are also statements from the Companions radhian Allaahu anhum , the leading Imams and the great scholars of Islam that indicate that it is obligatory for the woman to cover all of her body in the presence of non-Mahram men. This obviously indicates that it is obligatory upon the woman to cover her face in front of such men."





    Refutation For those who claim niqaab is not wajib and the face and hands of a woman can be seen by (ghairMahrrum) strange men.


    Refutation from Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen


    This is taken from the book "Hijaab" by Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen from Saudi Arabia. Printed by Madrasah Arabia Islamia Azaadville- South Africa.

    Translated by Hafedh Zaheer Essack, Rajab 1416 (December 1995)



    The Ulamah who are of the opinion that it is permissible to look at the face and hands of a strange woman (who is not mahrrum) say so mainly for the following reasons.


    The hadeeth of Ayeshah radhian Allaahu anha when Asmaa radhian Allaahu anha the daughter of Abu Bakr radhian Allaahu anhu came to the Rasulullaah :saw: while wearing thin clothing.

    He approached her and said: 'O Asmaa! When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this. He pointed to the face and hands. But this hadeeth is WEAK because of 2 main weaknesses.


    There is no link between Ayeshah (Radhiallaahu Ánha) and Khalid bin Dareek, who narrated the hadith from her. And in every chain of narrators Khalid bin Dareek is mentioned.


    In the chain of narrators Sa'eed bin Basheer appears, who is known by most of the Muhaditheen as being a weak narrator.


    This has been mentioned by Imaam Ahmad bin Hanbal (Rahimahullah), An-Nasai (Rahimahullah), Ibn Madeeni (Rahimahullah) and Ibn Ma'een (Rahimahullah). This is also why Imaam Bukhari (Rahimahullah) and Muslim (Rahimahullah) did not except this hadeeth to be in their books. (From Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen in the book "Hijaab" pages # 17 and 18.)


    We also have to see that the Muhadith Abu Dawood when he quoted this hadeeth put with it that it is Mursal (with a broken chain that does not lead up to the Sahabah).




    (From The Book "Hijaab wa Safur" under the fatwaa of Shaikh Abdul Aziz Bin Bazz on Page #61. Also stated as being weak by Shaikh Nasiruddeen Al-Albaani in his Daeef Sunan Abu Dawud in Kitab-ul-Libas under hadeeth number 4092 (which is the original hadeeth number.)


    An other thing that shows the weakness of this hadith is that after the ayah for hijab (Surah Al-Ahzaab – Verse #59) was revealed then the women of Sahaba wore a complete veil and covered the faces and hands. This includes Asmaa (Radhiallaahu Ánha) the daughter of Abu Bakr, who is supposed to have narrated this hadeeth. Asmaa (Radhiallaahu Ánha) covered herself completely including the face, this has been narrated in authentic hadeeth in Imaam Malik's "MUWATTA Book 20 Hadeeth # 20.5.16."




    What Age Must a Female Wear Niqaab?



    It is unquestionable that a female must begin covering by the age of puberty. In all situations, Muslims are to use the Prophet's example for guidance. The Prophet :saw: married 'Aisha radhian Allaahu anha before she had reached puberty and consummated the marriage when she was approximately 9 years old. Getting married at such an age was not uncommon until recent times.


    Puberty begins two weeks before the onset of the first menstrual period, i.e. this is the time in which she is capable of becoming pregnant.


    May Allaah Ta'ala guide each parent to adequately prepare the daughter for hijaab and their other responsibilities, in time for puberty. Amiyn.


    If a mother or father recently converts to Islam and has a daughter who has reached puberty, s/he should immediately begin covering the daughter. The parents should educate the daughter to understand and appreciate the reasons and advantages for covering as a Muslimah is instructed to.

    The new revert to Islam should not feel apologetic for covering a daughter who was not previously covering. It is as much of an advantage to her as to the new adult muslimah revert, and children do not always know what is best for them, so, like other decisions you make daily for your children, do not leave the issue of wearing hijab up to your children. Make the transition as a family, not you first, then just hoping the children follow suit on their own.


    Some guidelines for preparing a child for hijab. [/CENTER]


    It is encouraged that as soon as the child is able to walk, she does not wear clothes that resemble the kafr, and that she should always have her knees and as much as possible of the arms and legs covered when leaving the house or having guests over.


    She should be taught modesty in behavior and dress from the cradle.


    It is ideal to sew small jilbabs (light overcoats) and khimaar (head/neck/chest covering) for the young muslimah, properly preparing her for full coverage at puberty. It is actually less fitnah on the parent to dress her in the simple attire of a muslim, as compared to looking for fashionable clothes in a shopping mall.


    At the age of 7, the parent should order her to pray salaah, and of course, she must be wearing hijaab (the entire head and body covering) for the salaah.


    By the age of 10, her parents may and should punish her for missing fard (obligatory) salaah, and once again, she must be wearing hijaab to perform salaah.

    When she reaches puberty, insha^Allaah, she will wear niqaab (literally: draw the khimaar over her face).


    By the age of puberty, she should already be used to wearing hijaab (which is in her fitrah [natural state] to be covered).


    She may have already chosen to veil prior to reaching puberty, and with the proper instruction, she will look forward to and embrace this step in becoming a young woman.


    Hijaab is not something a muslim parent gives as an option to a child. The muslim parent is responsible for seeing that the young muslimah is properly covered according to Qur'aan and Sunnah.


    Parents will have to determine when their daughter has reached puberty, not the child, unless of course, she is a muslim revert with non-Muslim parents, in which case she should seek the counsel of a Muslim wali.


    Depending on a woman's environment, she may simply keep her face uncovered and then draw the khimaar up over her face on the rare occasion of a non-mahram's presence; or, if this is too much fitnah to constantly draw it over her face, such as circumstances when men are frequently present, she may choose to affix a screen (i.e. the Niqaab) that does this for her without her needing to use a hand to hold it over her face.



    Hadith - Bukhari, Narrated Hishams father

    Khadija radhian Allaahu anha died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married 'Aisha radhian Allaahu anha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumated that marriage when she was nine years old.


    Hadith - Abu Dawud, narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin
    [Also recorded al-Tirmidhi, Ahmad, and ibn Majah. Al-Albani says it is sahih. Al-Albani, Sahih al-Jami, vol. 2, p. 1280.]

    The Prophet :saw: said: "

    Allaah does not accept the prayer of a woman who has reached puberty unless she wears a khimaar. "



    Hadith - Dawud, Narrated As-Saburah

    [Also recorded by Ahmand and al-Hakim. Al-Syuti has give in a notation signifying that it is authentic. Al-Albani has graded it hasan. Al-Albani, Sahih al-Jami, vol. 2, p. 1021.]

    The Prophet said:

    "Order your children to pray at the age of seven. And beat them [lightly] if they do not do so by the age of ten. And separate them in their bedding."





    Who Can She Uncover in front of?




    A Muslimah should not uncover her adornment in front of any non-Mahrahm male. Muslimahs should especially be careful and remain covered, modest, and quiet around in-laws.


    If a gay male is aware of female body parts, he should not be allowed to view a woman uncovered. And, of course, a bi-sexual male should not be allowed to view a woman without proper covering.


    In addition, a Muslimah should not uncover that which she normally uncovers, in front of any non-Muslim female whom she fears may describe her to others. She may also choose to remain covered around any Muslim female whom she fears may describe her physical attributes to their husband or others.



    The Noble Qur'an - An-Nur 24:30-31

    "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allaâh is All-Aware of what they do."


    "And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like palms of hands or one eye or both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron, etc.), and to draw their veils* all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms, etc.) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islâm), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allâh to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful."


    * the arabic word here is Khumaar, which is the plural form of Khimaar.



    Hadith - Bukhari 7:167

    The Prophet said,

    "A woman should not look at or touch another woman to describe her to her husband in such a way as if he was actually looking at her."



    Hadith - Muslim, narrated Aisha

    A eunuch used to come to the wives of Allaah's Apostle :saw: and they did not find anything objectionable in his visit considering him to be a male without any sexual desire.

    Allaah's Apostle :saw: one day came as he was sitting with some of his wives and he was busy in describing the bodily characteristics of a lady and saying: As she comes in front four folds appear on her front side and as she turns her back eight folds appear on the back side. Thereupon Allah's Apostle said: I see that he knows these things; do not, therefore, allow him to enter. She (Aisha) radhian Allaahu anha said: Then they began to observe veil from him.



    Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi #3109, narrated Abdullah ibn Mas'ud [Tirmidhi transmitted it.]

    The Prophet said,

    "A woman should be concealed, for when she goes out the devil looks at her."



    Muslimahs should not socialize with non-mahram men, and should only speak out of necessity to non-mahram men. Allah swt knew that mankind would be tempted to let their guard down and their hijab down, around in-laws. Surely Allah swt is all merciful to provide us the guidance we need in every aspect of our lives. In reference to socializing with in-laws, such close relations can easily lead to adultery which has the death penalty.


    Hadith - Bukhari and Muslim

    The Prophet said, "The in-laws are death."



    Ridiculing a Woman in Niqaab




    The Noble Qur'an - At-Taubah 9:64-67


    "The hypocrites fear lest a Sûwrah (chapter of the Qur^aân) should be revealed about them, showing them what is in their hearts. Say: "(Go ahead and) mock! But certainly Allâh will bring to light all that you fear."


    "If you ask them (about this), they declare: "We were only talking idly and joking." Say: "Was it at Allâh (swt), and His Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) and His Messenger that you were mocking?"


    Make no excuse; you have disbelieved after you had believed. If We pardon some of you, We will punish others amongst you because they were Mujrimûn (disbelievers, polytheists, sinners, criminals, etc.).


    The hypocrites, men and women, are from one another, they enjoin (on the people) Al-Munkar (i.e. disbelief and polytheism of all kinds and all that Islâm has forbidden), and forbid (people) from Al-Ma'rûf (i.e. Islâmic Monotheism and all that Islâm orders one to do), and they close their hands [from giving (spending in Allaâh's Cause) alms, etc.]. They have forgotten Allaâh, so He has forgotten them. Verily, the hypocrites are the Fâsiqûn (rebellious, disobedient to Allaâh)."
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    Jazakallah khiar for ALL this information. I start wearing hijab at 14 and then niqab at 22 during summer of 07. I still get nervous when i go out bymyself even though i shouldnt. Inshallah i hope that completely disappears real soon. From what i know im the only niqaabi in Richmond, ky.
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    salam aleikum
    Jazakallah khair
    very beautiful post

    waaleikum salam
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    Assalamualaikum WaRahmatullahi WaBarakaatu,

    First of all, Jazaka Allah Khayr for the very beneficial post. It cleared a lot of misunderstandings in my head. Now I can weigh out both sides of the issue.

    Masha Allah Sister Jannah03! That takes a lot of Imaan to wear a Niqaab and to know that you might be the only one in the town. May Allah Ta'alah guide us all and give us enough Imaan and tawfeeq to dress according to the Shariah.

    Ssters like you are such an inspiration Masha Allah.

    Wasalaam :)
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    wearing niqaab

    Salaam alaikhoum all. I am completely new here so apologies if I get things wrong. I am a revert to islam who wishes to cover completely. However I do not like to do things by halves so what I would like to do is to take it to the extreme by veiling myself so heavily, especially in the facial area so as I am 100% sure that not even the slightest outline of my eyes are visible by ensuring that the design of my face covering- whatever that maybe will not only minimalise my own field of vision but also its clarity also in order that I can see the way, but bareley so. I would also like to really know that I am completely covered by experiancing REAL breathing difficulties also (within reason), not nerve inspired false difficulties. If anyone could help me obtain the right outfit it would be appreciated. Maasalaam.
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    السلام عليكم و رحمة الله وب ركاته
    Thanks for this informative postMay Allah bless you sis,jazaki Allah khayran.



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    15. She avoids cursing and foul language
    16. She does not falsely accuse anyone of fisq (transgression) or kufr (blasphemy)
    17. She is modest and discreet
    18. She dose not interfere in that which does not concern her
    19. She refrains from backbiting and slander
    20. She avoids giving false statements
    21. She avoids suspicion
    22. She keeps secrets
    23. She does not converse privately with another person when there is a third person present
    24. She is not arrogant or proud
    25. She is humble and modest
    26. She does not make fun of anyone
    27. She respects elders and distinguished people
    28. She mixes with people of noble character
    29. She strives for people’s benefits and seeks to protect her from harm
    30. She strives to reconcile between Muslims
    31. She calls people to truth
    32. She is wise and eloquent in her da`wah (Islamic Propagation)
    34. She is not a hypocrite
    35. She does not show off or boast
    36. She is straightforward and consistent in her adherence to the truth
    37. She visits the sick
    39. She repays favors and is grateful for them
    40. She mixes with people and puts up with their insults
    41. She tries to make people happy
    42. She guides others to righteous deeds
    43. She is easy on people, not hard
    44. She is fair in her judgment of people
    45. She does not oppress or mistreat others
    46. She loves noble things and always aims high
    47. Her speech is not exaggerated or affected
    48. She does not rejoice in the misfortunes of others
    49. She is generous
    50. She does not remind the beneficiaries of her charity
    51. She is hospitable
    52. She prefers others to herself
    53. She helps to alleviate the burden of the debtor
    54. She is proud and does not beg
    55. She is friendly and likeable
    56. She checks her customs and habits against Islamic standards
    57. She follows Islamic manners in the way she eats and drinks
    58. She spreads the greeting of salam (peace)
    59. She does not enter a house other than her own without permission
    60. She avoids yawning in a gathering as much as she can
    62. She follows the Islamic etiquette when she sneezes
    63. She does not look into other people’s houses
    64. She does not imitate men
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    ^ BarakAllaahu feeki sis Sandra, bumping these threads, excellent reminders.

    Simple beautiful truths.

    Wa-alaykum salaam.
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    Such a beautiful and detailed post.

    :jazaak:

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