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Akhi, who said this hadeeths is not mentioned in Bukhari and Muslim?
Pls spare time to read the below hadeeths

Praise be to Allaah.
For a man to shake hands with a non-mahram woman (one to whom he is not related) is haraam and is not permitted at all.
Among the evidence for this is the hadeeth of Ma’qal ibn Yassaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.” (Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045).
There is no doubt that for a man to touch a non-mahram woman is one of the causes of fitnah (turmoil, temptation), provocation of desire and committing haraam deeds. No one should say that their intention is sound or their heart is clean, because the one who was the purest of heart and the most chaste of all, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched a non-mahram woman, even when accepting bay’ah (oath of allegiance) from women. He did not hold their hands when accepting their bay’ah, as he did with men; their bay’ah was by words only, as was reported by his wife ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). She said that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would test the believing women who emigrated to him with the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “O Prophet! When believeing women come to you to give you the bay’ah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship with Allaah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood (i.e., by making illegal children belong to their husbands), and that thye will not disobey you in any ma’ruf (Islamic monotheism and all that which Islam ordains), then accept their bay’ah and ask Allaah to forgive them. Verily Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [al-Mumtahinah 60:12] ‘Aa’ishah said: “So whoever of the believing women agreed to these conditions, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would say to her: ‘I have accepted your bay’ah by words.’ By Allaah, his hand never touched the hand of any woman when accepting their bay’ah; he accepted their bay’ah by saying ‘I have accepted your bay’ah on this basis.’”
(Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4512; according to another report: he accepted their bay’ah by words… the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman except a woman he owned . Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6674).
Some Muslims feel too embarrassed to refuse when a woman offers her hand to them. In addition to mixing with women, some of them claim that they are forced to shake hands with fellow-students and teachers in schools and universities, or with colleagues in the workplace, or in business meetings and so on, but this is not an acceptable excuse. The Muslim should overcome his own feelings and the promptings of the Shaytaan, and be strong in his faith, because Allaah is not ashamed of the truth. The Muslim could apologize politely and explain that the reason he does not want to shake hands is not to offend or hurt anybody’s feelings, but it is because he is following the teachings of his religion. In most cases this will earn him respect from others. There is no harm done if they find it strange at first, and it may even be a practical opportunity for da’wah. And Allaah knows best.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid


‘Aa’ishah said: Whoever among the believing women agreed to that had passed the test, and when the women agreed to that, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to them: “Go, for you have given your oath of allegiance.’ No, by Allaah, the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman, rather they would give their oath of allegiance with words only.” And ‘Aa’ishah said: “By Allaah, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) only took the oath of allegiance from the women in the manner prescribed by Allaah, and the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman. When he had taken their oath of allegiance he would say, ‘I have accepted your oath of allegiance verbally.’”

(narrated by Muslim, 1866)

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IbnAdam77

Travelling towards my grave.
asalaam aleykum,

is there a verse/s which supports that?
thankyou

Wa'alaikumussalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

Allah says, “Indeed in the Messenger of Allaah (Muhammad) you have a good example to follow for him who hopes for (the Meeting with) Allaah and the Last Day, and remembers Allaah much”
[Surah al-Ahzaab, Verse Number 21]

There is nothing wrong with the shar’i greeting of salaam in which there is no fitnah and no shaking hands, and which does not give rise to doubts and does not involve any softness in speech, and in which hijaab is observed and there is no being alone with a member of the opposite sex, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allaah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner”
[Surah al-Ahzaab, Verse Number 32]

I would like humbly to ask you to refer the following Fatwa regarding the Issue. Also please do remember that the Sunnah of Prophet (pbuh) is the commentary of Quran and it is the second base of Islam. Allah says in Surah an-Najm, Verses 3 and 4, "Nor does he speak from [his own] inclination. It is not but a revelation revealed." ------- http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/21183
 

abjad

AlHamd Li'Laah
WA ALEYKUM SALAAM
thank you; brother it seems that you can be of help to my past days question as follows:-
Does the verse apply to Ummat Muhammad (s.a.w)?

abjad AlHamd Li'Laah
(5:32) Therefore We ordained for the Children of Israel that he who slays a soul unless it be (in punishment) for murder or for spreading mischief on earth shall be as if he had slain all mankind; and he who saves a life shall be as if he had given life to all mankind. And indeed again and again did Our Messengers come to them with clear directives; yet many of them continued to commit excesses on earth.
 

IbnAdam77

Travelling towards my grave.
WA ALEYKUM SALAAM
thank you; brother it seems that you can be of help to my past days question as follows:-
Does the verse apply to Ummat Muhammad (s.a.w)?

abjad AlHamd Li'Laah
(5:32) Therefore We ordained for the Children of Israel that he who slays a soul unless it be (in punishment) for murder or for spreading mischief on earth shall be as if he had slain all mankind; and he who saves a life shall be as if he had given life to all mankind. And indeed again and again did Our Messengers come to them with clear directives; yet many of them continued to commit excesses on earth.


Assalam 'Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

Yes brother! This verse does apply to the Ummah of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Refer Tafsir Ibn Kathir for further information on it.
 

abjad

AlHamd Li'Laah
Yes brother! This verse does apply to the Ummah of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Refer Tafsir Ibn Kathir for further information on it.
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wa aleykum salaam;

thank you brother, I think these are the things which deserve to be discussed not those trifle which will reach us no where; IF IT APPLIES then what happened to the those days soon after the death of Nabiina Muhammad (s.a.w)people have gone crazy as to the present situation? If We do not put those instructions from Kuran Kareem who else.
I fully understand that our voices will reach not over the walls but why cant we MUSLIMS at least sit and think as to the these activities of getting support from the very kufar why?

i don't want To waste your time - but am sure we can discuss in future Inshaa Allah SHOULD YOU DESIRE, AND YOUR DESIRES ARE FOR ONE GOAL "DIN AL ISLAM"
thank you
 

IbnAdam77

Travelling towards my grave.
wa aleykum salaam;

thank you brother, I think these are the things which deserve to be discussed not those trifle which will reach us no where; IF IT APPLIES then what happened to the those days soon after the death of Nabiina Muhammad (s.a.w)people have gone crazy as to the present situation? If We do not put those instructions from Kuran Kareem who else.
I fully understand that our voices will reach not over the walls but why cant we MUSLIMS at least sit and think as to the these activities of getting support from the very kufar why?

i don't want To waste your time - but am sure we can discuss in future Inshaa Allah SHOULD YOU DESIRE, AND YOUR DESIRES ARE FOR ONE GOAL "DIN AL ISLAM"
thank you

MashaAllah! We need more brothers and sisters with positive thinking like yours. InshaAllah we will be successful if we try sincerely. That is a promise of Allah, and Allah never breaks a promise.
 
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