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Obedience To The Husband
Islam has given woman rights and imposed on her some obligations. One of the most significant rights is that of her husband over her. The husband is your Paradise or your Hellfire; that is, if you obey him you will enter Paradise, and if you disobey him you will enter Hellfire. The following are Ahaadith which order a woman to obey her husband:
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“When a woman observes her five obligatory prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any gate of Paradise she wishes.”
Reported by Ibn Hibban, al-Bazzaar, Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal, at-Tabarani and al-Baani.
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise.”
Reported by at-Tirmidhi.
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“If a husband calls his wife to his bed (to have sexual relations) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning.” In another naration “…until he is happy with her.“
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I should order a woman to prostrate herself before her husband.”
Reported by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban.
When the Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam was asked which woman was best he replied,
“The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves.”
Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa’i’ and al-Bayhaqi.
A woman approached the Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam informing him that she intends to marry her cousin , and asked what the rights of her husband would be over her, to which he replied,
“Were you to lick the snot off of his nose, even then you would not have given him his full rights he has over you.” At which the woman replied, “In that case, I do not wish to get married!“
Reported by Ahmad, Al-Bazaar and Silsilat As-Saheeha.
Source: http://theauthenticbase.wordpress.com/2009/12/08/obedience-to-the-husband/
Islam has given woman rights and imposed on her some obligations. One of the most significant rights is that of her husband over her. The husband is your Paradise or your Hellfire; that is, if you obey him you will enter Paradise, and if you disobey him you will enter Hellfire. The following are Ahaadith which order a woman to obey her husband:
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“When a woman observes her five obligatory prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any gate of Paradise she wishes.”
Reported by Ibn Hibban, al-Bazzaar, Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal, at-Tabarani and al-Baani.
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise.”
Reported by at-Tirmidhi.
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“If a husband calls his wife to his bed (to have sexual relations) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning.” In another naration “…until he is happy with her.“
The Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam said:
“If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I should order a woman to prostrate herself before her husband.”
Reported by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban.
When the Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam was asked which woman was best he replied,
“The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves.”
Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa’i’ and al-Bayhaqi.
A woman approached the Prophet sallaallaahu alayhi wa sallaam informing him that she intends to marry her cousin , and asked what the rights of her husband would be over her, to which he replied,
“Were you to lick the snot off of his nose, even then you would not have given him his full rights he has over you.” At which the woman replied, “In that case, I do not wish to get married!“
Reported by Ahmad, Al-Bazaar and Silsilat As-Saheeha.
Source: http://theauthenticbase.wordpress.com/2009/12/08/obedience-to-the-husband/
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