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a_muslimah86

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Here's a Two Part bio of Sayidina Othman (ra)...I know it will seem long..but the two parts are nicely broken into events or sub-topics..so you may pick and choose out of them according to your convenience..this is part 1..and part two will follow it :)



`Uthman ibn `Affan
The Man With Two Lights
(Part 1)




`A’ishah reported: The Prophet was lying down in his house with his thighs or his calves exposed. Abu Bakr asked permission to enter and was permitted while the Prophet was in that position and he came in and spoke with him. Then `Umar asked permission to enter. He was granted permission and came in and spoke with him while in that position. Then `Uthman asked permission and the Prophet sat up and straightened his clothing. He was then permitted and came in and spoke with the Prophet. After he had gone, `A’ishah said, “Abu Bakr entered and you did not get up for him or worry about him and `Umar came in and you did not get up for him nor worry about him but when `Uthman came in, you straightened out your clothing!” The Prophet said, “Should I not be shy of a man around whom the angels are shy?” (Muslim).
`Uthman ibn `Affan, one of the close Companions of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), was the fourth man to accept Islam and the third of the four rightly guided caliphs of Islam. During his reign the Islamic state expanded vastly. `Uthman accomplished a lot during his rule; one of his notable accomplishments was the distribution of single-volume copies of the Qur’an to the Muslim provinces. These copies were made from the master compilation produced under the first caliph, Abu Bakr.
Background
`Uthman came from a wealthy Ummayad clan of the Quraish tribe in Makkah. His father was a well-known and successful businessman. `Uthman’s father provided him with everything he needed to lead a comfortable life. He was brought up in a manner like any other child born into a wealthy family. Thus `Uthman enjoyed luxuries in life right from childhood. He was a distinguished child who had high morals. He was unique in his bashfulness and honesty, which distinguished him from his peers, and he grew up to become a man of great virtue, generosity, integrity, and modesty.
Successful Businessman
After his father’s death, `Uthman—although he was young—took charge of his father’s business and proved to be very efficient and successful just like his father. The business expanded and grew. He was very truthful and honest in his dealings and, unlike others, he spent most of his profits to help the needy. He did all that he could to bring a smile to the faces of the poor and needy, and so he became respected and adored by many.
Journey to Islam
During that time the Arabs were worshiping idols and indulging in many evil practices like burying their daughters alive and shedding blood for little or no reason. Racism was prevalent, and this racism made the masters treat their slaves cruelly. Women were also treated badly and were considered as objects. The woman’s sole purpose was giving birth and pleasure.
As a young man, `Uthman was full of energy. He traveled to many places for business. Due to this he got a chance to meet different people from different nations and to learn a lot about other beliefs, which were different from his own. His views about the idols and the lifestyle of the Arabs changed when he got to know the Christian and Jewish beliefs.
One day when `Uthman returned to Makkah after his usual business trip, people were speaking about Muhammad ibn `Abdullah. The whole city seemed to be in a state of chaos because Muhammad presented himself as Messenger of Allah and told everyone that there was only one God worthy of worship and that one should not associate any partners with Him. Muhammad asked them to forgo all the false deities and worship Allah alone. Although the Arabs knew Allah, Muhammad’s message seemed strange, as they had long since worshiped other deities in addition Allah.
`Uthman knew Muhammad very well. Muhammad was a man of remarkable personality and excellent morals. Though he did not accept this belief immediately, he never opposed Muhammad or Islam as the other leaders of the Quraish did. He remembered that on many of his travels he had heard the Christian and Jewish scholars speaking about the coming of the final Prophet in the land of Arabia. Whenever `Uthman heard about the final prophet from the Christian and the Jews, he hoped that this prophet whom they spoke of would lead the Arabs into the light of guidance and knowledge. He pondered over the Christian and Jewish talk on the final prophet and finally he decided to visit one of his friends, Abu Bakr, to find out about this new belief. He knew that Abu Bakr had accepted Islam and that he was very close to the Prophet (peace be upon him). Abu Bakr explained things about Islam. He told him that Islam asked people to worship Allah alone and to give up the worship of all false gods or idols. Then Abu Bakr invited him to embrace Islam. `Uthman felt that Islam was the true religion of Allah and immediately embraced Islam on Abu Bakr’s invitation. After that, `Uthman met the Prophet (peace be upon him) and declared that he accepted Islam.
Those who accepted Islam became prone to hardships, suffering, and oppression. The Quraish tortured the Muslims in every possible way, attempting to force them to leave Islam. `Uthman faced a lot of oppression at the hands of his pagan uncle Al-Hakam ibn Abi Al-`Aas, who was angry with him for leaving their forefathers’ religion. He tied `Uthman up and tried to force him to leave Islam. Nevertheless, `Uthman remained firm in his belief and never gave in to this oppression. Finally, when his uncle realized that `Uthman would never leave Islam, he left him to himself. `Uthman, with all his might, defended Islam and never gave in to the torture and oppression. Right from the time he accepted Islam, he became close to Prophet Muhammad and married the Prophet’s second daughter, Ruqayyah, who was a divorcee. Uthman’s marriage to Ruqayyah was a happy union; they both loved each other and led a blissful life.
Migration to Abyssinia
At that time, most of the people who embraced Islam were the less privileged and poor. The Muslims became a target for the pagans, and they tortured the Muslims, even to death, because they refused to leave Islam. Because of this, some Muslims left Makkah and migrated to Abyssinia (Ethiopia) to seek refuge.
`Uthman along with his wife Ruqayyah migrated to Abyssinia. He was one of the first to do so, and later other Muslims who were agonized by the Quraish to desert Islam followed him.

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An-Najashi (the Negus), a Christian king who ruled Abyssinia at that time, was well known for being a just ruler. An-Najashi, in his power, provided the immigrants with all necessary facilities for their stay. The Quraish sent a delegation to Abyssinia and hoped that they would convince the king to expel the Muslims from his state. The king heard both the Quraish and the Muslims, and refused to expel the Muslims. The Quraish delegation saw `Uthman and tried to persuade him to return to Makkah, but their aim failed.
While the Muslims lived peacefully in Abyssinia, `Uthman started a business. Though he faced some difficulties in the beginning, his business flourished because of his hard work. His wife, Ruqayyah, gave birth to a boy whom they named `Abdullah. After this `Uthman came to be known as Abu `Abdullah. `Uthman remained very popular among Muslims because of his generosity to the poor.
He returned to Makkah from Abyssinia because of the false news that had spread among Muslims living in Abyssinia that the lives of the Muslims in Makkah were better, as the Quraish of Makkah had accepted Islam.
In Makkah, `Uthman spent most of his time in the company of the Prophet (peace be upon him). He always tried his best to help the Muslims who were poor and needy.
Death of Ruqayyah
He then again migrated with his wife to Madinah, which was known as Yathrib at that time, in 622. `Uthman carried on his business as a merchant and was successful. `Uthman and Ruqayyah lived on happily for sometime in Madinah.
The Muslims knew about Makkah’s merchant caravan that was coming back from Syria, and was led by Abu Sufyan. They wanted to attack this caravan, but Abu Sufyan was aware of their plan and changed the path of his return to Makkah. At the same time he sent a message to Makkah’s leaders, telling them of the Muslims’ plan.
The Makkans gathered a huge army and headed towards Madinah to put an end to Islam and the Muslims, while the army of the Muslims had only 314 men. The Makkan and Muslim armies met at a place called Badr near Madinah. `Uthman was unable to take part in this battle, as his wife Ruqayyah fell ill. She died after a few days, leaving `Uthman in grief and sadness. At that time, the Prophet (peace be upon him) and the Muslims were fighting with the Quraish at the battlefield of Badr. The Muslims emerged victorious, and the news of victory reached Madinah when Ruqayyah was being buried.
Union With Umm Kulthum
After Ruqayyah’s death `Uthman was deeply saddened. At this time `Umar ibn Al-Khattab proposed that `Uthman marry his daughter Hafsah, who was a widow. He refused the offer, as he knew that the Prophet was going to propose to her. Towards the close of the year 625, the Prophet married Hafsah.
Umm Kulthum was the Prophet’s third daughter and he married her to `Uthman. `Uthman thereby earned the name Dhun-Nurain, “the Possessor of Two Lights,” because he had married the Prophet’s two daughters, one after another. `Uthman’s marriage with Umm Kulthum was as happy as that of the marriage between him and Ruqayyah. Unfortunately, such happiness was shortly lived, for Umm Kulthum died barely six years after her marriage. She bore no children.
A year after the battle of Uhud—two years after the death of Ruqayyah—`Uthman’s son `Abdullah passed away. `Uthman loved his son dearly and his death caused him intense grief. The Prophet consoled `Uthman, and advised him that as a true Muslim, he should accept the will of God.
 

a_muslimah86

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This is part two...
`Uthman ibn `Affan
The Man With Two Lights
(Part Two)


the sixth year after the emigration to Madinah, the Prophet decided to perform the `Umrah, so he set out with 1,400 Muslims in pilgrim’s dress, heading towards Makkah, but the Quraish did not allow them to enter the city. The Muslims halted at a place called Hudaibiyah. From there, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a messenger to the Makkans to tell them that the Muslims were there only to perform `Umrah and had not the slightest intention to fight. But the Makkans humiliated the messenger, and he returned without success. The Prophet then wanted to send someone highly respected by the Quraish, so he chose `Uthman, who was from one of the most powerful families in Makkah, the Umayyah family. The Makkans detained him for three days and a rumor reached the Muslim camp that `Uthman was killed. This outraged the Muslims and, without exception, all of the 1,400 Muslims present pledged that they would stand firm together to avenge `Uthman’s murder. After everybody had taken the pledge, the Prophet placed his own right hand on his left hand and took the pledge on behalf of `Uthman. `Uthman thus secured the unique honor that the Prophet himself took the pledge on his behalf. The Muslims’ pledge pleased Allah and it was revealed in the Qur’an:
[Surely, Allah was pleased with the believers when they took the pledge under the tree. Allah knew what was in their hearts. He sent down tranquility upon them, and rewarded them with near victory.] (Al-Fath 48:18)
Soon they learned that the rumor of `Uthman’s death was false.
`Uthman returned from Makkah in the company of an emissary from the Quraish. When `Uthman came to know about the pledge the Muslims in the camp had taken in his absence, and that the Prophet had taken the pledge on his behalf, he immediately took the pledge in person.
The Treaty of Hudaibiyah
After considerable discussion, an agreement was arrived at, which came to be known as the Treaty of Hudaibiyah. According to the pact there was to be a truce between the Quraish and the Muslims for a period of 10 years. Each party was free to make its own alliances, but they were not to resort to war. Any person who deserted the Muslims and sought refuge with the Quraish was not to be returned, but any person who escaped from the Quraish to the Muslims was to be returned to the Quraish. It was stipulated that the Muslims were to return to Madinah that year without performing the `Umrah, but they could come to Makkah for three days the following year to perform it, during which time the Quraish would vacate the city for them.
After the pact had been signed, the Muslims sacrificed the animals they had brought with them, broke camp, and started on the return journey to Madinah.
On the face of it, the Treaty of Hudaibiyah appeared to be loaded in favor of the Quraish. Some of the Muslims, particularly `Umar, felt dissatisfied with the terms of the pact and expressed their dissatisfaction. `Uthman, however, felt satisfied with the terms of the agreement. He was confident that the pact, though apparently in favor of the Quraish, would ultimately turn out to be against them. He said that the Quraish were fast losing their will to resist Islam, and in pursuance of the pact the Muslims and the Quraish would come into contact, and most of the Quraish were likely to accept Islam. While on the way to Madinah, Allah revealed to the Prophet that the Hudaibiyah pact was indeed a victory for the Muslims, as it would work to their advantage and the disadvantage of the Quraish. When the Prophet told of these tidings to `Umar and his other Companions, all of them felt happy.
The assessment of `Uthman also proved correct, for in the period following the Hudaibiyah pact, many Quraish including such stalwarts as Khalid ibn Al-Walid and `Amr ibn Al-`Aas accepted Islam.
`Uthman’s Generosity


`Uthman’s generosity was boundless. Even before he became caliph, he was always ready to spend in the cause of Islam and to help the needy with his wealth. On two special occasions he proved to be one of the most generous men of his time.
In AH 9 the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) got the news that the Romans were plotting to destroy the newly emerging Islamic state, so he wanted the Muslims to equip themselves and prepare for the attack. That seemed impossible because in that year the Muslims suffered from reduced crops and limited resources, as they had faced an extremely hot summer. They did not have enough resources to meet such a powerful army, and most of the Muslims were poor. This situation did not stop the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He urged his Companions to prepare for the battle. Every Companion tried his or her best to strengthen the army. The women sold the few jewels they had to help the men prepare for the battle.
Though hundreds of Companions were ready to enter the battlefield, they were short of many things that were required for the battle, such as horses, camels, even swords and spears. The Prophet told them that this was a matter of life or death for the new Islamic state. The Prophet made a loud and clear announcement: “Anyone who provides outfits for the soldiers will have all his sins forgiven by Allah.”
The moment `Uthman heard this, he outfitted two hundred saddled camels that were to travel to Ash-Sham, and presented them all with 200 ounces of gold as charity. He also fetched 1,000 dinars and cast them into the lap of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Again and again `Uthman gave till his charity topped 900 camels and 100 horses, besides the money he paid. Seeing `Uthman’s generosity, the Prophet made the following statement: “From this day on, nothing will harm `Uthman regardless of what he does.”
In another incident during Abu Bakr’s caliphate, people faced great hardships. The land became arid and very few people could find something to eat. The people of Madinah came to Abu Bakr and asked him to provide them with something that they could survive with.
However, the caliph could not do anything to help them. The treasury was empty and there were no other means to feed the hungry people. At that time, `Uthman received a huge caravan from Damascus carrying food and other goods. All the merchants gathered at his house asking him to sell them some of the items he received so that they could sell them to the people. `Uthman asked them to offer him a good price. Though the merchants offered a high price, he kept asking them for a higher price. They offered him the highest price they could and told him that no merchant would be able to pay more than what they had offered. But `Uthman told them that he would sell the goods to the One Who would pay him 10 times what the merchants had offered, that is, Allah Almighty. `Uthman then gave away the whole of caravan to the starving people of Madinah and did not charge them anything.
Election of `Uthman
`Umar ibn Al-Khattab, the second caliph of Islam, was stabbed by a Persian slave Abu Lu’ lu’ a Al-Majussi while performing Fajr Prayer. As `Umar was lying on his death bed, the people around him asked him to appoint a successor. `Umar constituted a committee of six people to choose the next caliph from among themselves.
This committee comprised `Ali ibn Abi Talib, `Uthman ibn `Affan, `Abdur-Rahman ibn `Awf, Sa`d ibn Abi Waqqas, Az-Zubayr ibn Al-`Awam, and Talhah ibn `Ubayd Allah, who were among the most eminent Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and who had received in their lifetime the tidings of Paradise.
The instructions of `Umar were that the Selection Committee should choose the successor within three days, and he should assume office on the fourth day. As two days passed by without a decision, the members felt anxious that the time was running out fast, and still no solution to the problem appeared to be in sight. `Abdur-Rahman ibn `Awf offered to forgo his own claim if others agreed to abide by his decision. All agreed to let `Abdur-Rahman choose the new caliph. He interviewed each nominee and went about Madinah asking the people for their choice. He finally selected `Uthman as the new caliph as the majority of the people chose him.
Reign of `Uthman ibn `Affan (644–656 CE)
During the reign of Caliph `Umar (634-644 CE), the Islamic state expanded beyond the borders of the Arab Peninsula into Egypt, Syria, and Iraq. In the subsequent reign of Caliph `Uthman, the expansion continued on into Persia, India, Russia, China, Turkey, and across North Africa. The Islamic state became rich and powerful, and many people of these regions accepted Islam and learned the recitation of the Qur’an from the early Muslims.
His Life as a Caliph
`Uthman led a simple life even after becoming the leader of the Islamic state. It would have been easy for a successful businessman such as him to lead a luxurious life, but he never aimed at leading such in this world. His only aim was to taste the pleasure of the hereafter, as he knew that this world is a test and temporary. `Uthman’s generosity continued after he became caliph.
The caliphs were paid for their services from bait al-mal the treasury but `Uthman never took any salary for his service to Islam. Not only this, he also developed a custom to free slaves every Friday, look after widows and orphans, and give unlimited charity. His patience and endurance were among the characteristics that made him a successful leader.
His great love and trust in Allah were steadfast. Whatever happened, he never lost trust in Allah and resigned himself completely to the decree of Allah. He was always mindful of Allah, and that guided his actions.
`Uthman’s love for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was evident from the way he lived his life. He followed the teachings of the Prophet and took them as his source for guidance. As a way of taking care of the Prophet’s wives, he doubled their allowances.
Opposition and the End
During his caliphate, `Uthman faced a lot of hostility. His rivals started accusing him of not following the Prophet and the preceding caliphs. However, the Companions who were true defended him. These accusations never changed him. He remained persistent to be a merciful governor. Even during the time when his foes attacked him, he did not use the treasury funds to shield his house or himself. As envisaged by Prophet Muhammad, `Uthman’s enemies relentlessly made his governing difficult by constantly opposing and accusing him. His opponents finally plotted against him, surrounded his house, and encouraged people to kill him.
Many of his advisors asked him to stop the assault but he did not, until he was killed while reciting the Qur’an exactly as the Prophet had predicted. `Uthman died as a martyr.
Anas ibn Malik narrated the following hadith:
The Prophet once climbed the mountain of Uhud with Abu Bakr, `Umar, and `Uthman. The mountain shook with them. The Prophet said (to the mountain), “Be firm, O Uhud! For on you there is a Prophet, a Siddiq, and two martyrs.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Vol. 5, Book 57, Number 24)
 

a_muslimah86

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Okay...I looked for information on Asiya (wife of the Pharaoh)..and unfortunately there aren't many details :( (in English at least)...so I will quote 3 different sources here...just to expose you to some information..and if I come across something better..inshallah I will put it here

And Allah has set forth an example for those who believe, the wife of Fir'aun (Pharaoh), when she said: "My Lord! Build for me a home with You in Paradise, and save me from Fir'aun (Pharaoh) and his work, and save me from the people who are Zalimun (polytheists, wrong-doers and disbelievers in Allah). [66:11]

Asiya (ra) was the wife of Pharaoh and she is a real life example for the believers of today on how we should deal with the bush and blair of our times. Allah (swt) made her an example and symbol of the deen for the women. For anyone wanting to seek guidance and follow the Sunnah this is an excellent example. She had maturity and understanding in the deen desiring only the akhirah. She said I do not want anything in the dunya I want to be near to you Oh my Lord by having a house in Jannah.

Whenever we look for house in the dunya we check the neighbours to see if they are good in order to make our decision on taking the house, yet Asiya (ra) said to Allah (swt) that I want your neighbourhood in jannah.

Asiya (ra) said that I came out from obedience to Pharaoh, usually it is forbidden to disobey the husband but for her to do so was qurba ilallah (to become closer to Allah). Even though she benefited so much by being with him in terms of living such a luxurious life she left all of it and she rejected to live in his palace or to have his servants for the sake of Allah (swt).

She said to Pharaoh; I will not accept to live with you, she said; Oh enemy of Allah I am free from you and anything that you did before and I reject you, you see from me nothing but plotting to kill you and complete animosity towards you. He said to her; stop saying it otherwise you will be deported.

Ibn Abbas (ra) said that she ran away in order to seek the guidance of Allah (swt). He had her arrested and tortured for 3 days burning her body and yet she continued to say I reject you and do not want anything to do with you.

The holy Qur'an has presented Asiya bint Muzahim as one of the best role models for women.


Asiya's greatness is in the fact that although she was the wife of one of the most Powerful, arrogant and tyrant rulers of Egypt, she was able to see and accept the truth in message of Prophet Moses. For her, wealth, beauty or status was not the main criterion of human excellence; she realized that without faith in God, a human being has nothing.


God had chosen her to provide refuge to Moses when he was an infant. When her maids brought the cradle of Moses from the river, she insisted to Pharaoh that she wanted to adopt that infant as a child: The wife of Pharaoh said: "(Here is) joy of the eye, for me and for thee: slay him not. It may be that he will be use to us, or we may adopt him as a son." And they perceived not (what they were doing)! (28:9)


Asiya bint Muzahim had declared her faith in the message of God after witnessing the miracle of Moses in the Court of Pharaoh; and after witnessing the death of another believing, woman under torture. Pharaoh tried to turn her away from the God of Moses and sought her mother's help. But Asiya refused to reject the God of Moses. On Pharaoh's order, she Was tortured to death.


The Qur'an says: "And Allah gives an example for those who believe: the wife of pharaoh. (Remember) when she said, 'My Lord! Build for me a house with Thee in the Paradise, and deliver me from Pharaoh and his deeds; and deliver me from the unjust people.'" (66:11)


In this lady, we see the example of supreme sacrifice: By marrying Pharaoh, Asiya bint Muzahim became the Queen of Egypt, she gained everything that she wanted in this worldly life from the materialistic point of view: the best of clothes, food, palaces, jewels, servants and maids, etc. But she sacrificed all that to be closer to Allah. And that is why we see her included by the Prophet in the list of the four women who attained the level of perfection.


And here is a link from TTI as well:

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?p=29904
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
Finally...I came across a short summary of Sayidina Abu Bakr (ra)...perhaps you can do with it until the person who volunteered to provide more information..does so...

Abu Bakr al-Siddiq


`Atiq ibn Abi Quhafa, Shaykh al-Islam, `Abd Allah ibn `Uthman ibn `Amir al-Qurashi al-Taymi (d. 13), the Prophet’s intimate friend after Allah, exclusive companion at the Prophet’s Basin (hawd) and in the Cave, greatest supporter, closest confidant, first spiritual inheritor, first of the men who believed in him and the only one who did so unhesitatingly, first of his four Rightly-Guided successors, first of the ten promised Paradise, and first of the Prophet’s Community to enter Paradise.
Alone among the Companions, Abu Bakr repeatedly led the Community in prayer in the lifetime of the Prophet. The latter used to call him by his patronyms of Abu Bakr and Ibn Abi Quhafa, and he named him with the attributes "The Most Truthful" (al-Siddîq) and "Allah’s Freedman From the Fire" (`Atîq Allâh min al-nâr). When the Quraysh confronted the Prophet after the Night Journey, they turned to Abu Bakr and said: "Do you believe what he said, that he went last night to the Hallowed House and came back before morning?" He replied: "If he said it, then I believe him, yes, and I do believe him regarding what is farther than that. I believe the news of heaven he brings, whether in the space of a morning or in that of an evening journey." Because of this Abu Bakr was named al-Siddîq: the Very Truthful, the One Who Never Lies.
Among the Companions who narrated from him: Anas, `A’isha, Jabir, Abu Hurayra, the four `Abd Allahs (Ibn `Abbas, Ibn Mas`ud, Ibn `Umar, Ibn `Amr), `Abd Allah ibn al-Zubayr, `Umar, `Uthman, and `Ali. The latter is one of the narrators of the Prophet’s hadith cited by Abu Bakr: "We [Prophets] do not leave anything as inheritance. What we leave behind is charity (sadaqa)."
`Umar said: "Abu Bakr’s faith outweighs the faith of the entire Umma." This is confirmed by the following hadith: The Prophet asked: "Did any of you see anything in his dream?" A man said to the Prophet: "O Messenger of Allah, I saw in my dream as if a balance came down from the heaven in which you were weighed against Abu Bakr and outweighed him, then Abu Bakr was weighed against `Umar and outweighed him, then `Umar was weighed against `Uthman and outweighed him, then the balance was raised up." This displeased the Prophet who said: "Successorship of prophethood (khilâfa nubuwwa)! Then Allah shall give kingship to whomever He will." `Umar also said: "The best of this Community after its Prophet is Abu Bakr." `Ali named him and `Umar the Shaykh al-Islam of the Community and said: "The best of this Community after its Prophet are Abu Bakr and `Umar," "The most courageous of people is Abu Bakr," and "The greatest in reward among people for the volumes of the Qur’an is Abu Bakr, for he was the first of those who gathered the Qur’an between two covers." He was also the first to name it mushaf.
Abu Bakr’s high rank is indicated, among other signs, by the fact that to deny his Companionship to the Prophet entails disbelief (kufr), unlike the denial of the Companionship of `Umar, `Uthman, and `Ali to the Prophet. This is due to the mention of this companionship in the verse: "The second of two when the two were in the cave, and he said unto his companion: Grieve not" (9:40) which refers, by Consensus, to the Prophet and Abu Bakr. Allah further praised him above the rest by saying: "Those who spent and fought before the victory are not upon a level (with the rest of you)." (57:10)
The Prophet confirmed his high rank in many of his sayings, among them:
"Allah gave one of His servants a choice between this world and what He has with Him, and that servant chose what Allah has with Him." Abu Bakr wept profusely and we wondered why he wept, since the Prophet had told of a servant that was given a choice. The Prophet himself was that servant, as Abu Bakr later told us. The Prophet continued: "Among those most dedicated to me in his companionship and property is Abu Bakr. If I were to take an intimate friend other than my Lord, I would take Abu Bakr. But what binds us is the brotherhood of Islam and its love. Let no door [of the Prophet’s mosque] remain open except Abu Bakr’s."
"I am excused, before each of my friends, of any intimate friendship with anyone. But if I were to take an intimate friend, I would take Ibn Abi Quhafa as my intimate friend. Verily, your Companion is the intimate friend of Allah!"
"You [Abu Bakr] are my companion at the Basin and my companion in the Cave."
"Call Abu Bakr and his son so that I will put something down in writing, for I fear lest someone ambitious forward a claim, and Allah and the believers refuse anyone other than Abu Bakr."
`Amr ibn al-`As asked: "O Messenger of Allah, who is the most beloved of all men to you?" He replied: "Abu Bakr."
"It is impermissible for a people among whom is Abu Bakr, to be led by other than him."
"Take for your leaders those who come after me: Abu Bakr and `Umar."
"O`Ali! Abu Bakr and `Umar are the leaders of the mature inhabitants of Paradise and its youth among the first and the last, except for Prophets and Messengers."
"The sun never rose nor set over anyone better than Abu Bakr."
"The Prophet used to hold nightly conversations with Abu Bakr in the latter’s house, discussing the affairs of Muslims, and I [`Umar] was present with them."
"Jibril came to me, took me by the hand, and showed me the gate through which my Community shall enter Paradise." Abu Bakr said: "Would that I were with you to see it!" The Prophet said: "Did you not know? You will be the first of all my Community to enter it."
Al-Suyuti relates through Ibn Sa`d’s report from `A’isha her description of Abu Bakr: "He was a man with fair skin, thin, emaciated, with a sparse beard, a slightly hunched frame, sunken eyes and protruding forehead, and the bases of his fingers were hairless." He was the foremost genealogist of the Quraysh and the best of them at interpreting dreams after the Prophet according to Ibn Sirin. `A’isha related that both he and `Uthman had relinquished drinking wine even in the Time of Ignorance. His caliphate lasted two years and three months in which he opened up the lands of Syria and Iraq for the Muslims, suppressed apostasy among the Arab tribes, fought the pseudo-Prophets al-Aswad al-`Ansi, Tulayha al-Asadi who recanted and declared his prophethood in Najd, and Musaylima the Liar who was killed in the devastating battle of al-Yamama.
Imam al-Nawawi pointed out that Abu Bakr’s genealogical tree alone regroups four successive generations of Companions of the Prophet: his father Abu Quhafa, himself, his daughter Asma’, and her son `Abd Allah, in addition to Abu Bakr’s son `Abd al-Rahman and his grandson Abu `Atiq. Nawawi states that only one hundred and forty-two hadiths of the Prophet are narrated from Abu Bakr. He comments: "The reason for this scarcity, despite the seniority of his companionship to the Prophet, is that his death pre-dated the dissemination of hadiths and the endeavor of the Followers to hear, gather, and preserve them." Among Abu Bakr’s sayings: "Whoever fights his ego for Allah’s sake, Allah will protect Him against what He hates."


Like I had said time and time again..any other help let me know...hopefully my keyboard is fixed completely now..and I won't have to deal with it..but I will check back regularly to see what you need..and inshallah you will benefit from what I provided :)


:wasalam:
 

al-muslimah

Junior Member
Salaam Alaycoum Akim..

I think it would be great to tell Islamic stories that happened long time ago In the days of the sahaba and also stories that are mentioned in the quran. It really inspires the listener. you know children with such young ages love stories! they are attracted to interesting stories specially when it is presented in an interesting way. You could also begin tafseer with short soura's.

Reading Surat AL-kahf every Friday is also a great thing to do. By doing that, they could practice on reading quran in a proper way and you could correct their tajweed.

One more thing, you could tell each one of them to prepare a specific topic about Islam and do a small presentation about it. It will encourage and help them to search and look for Islamic things and make there Islamic views wider.

The way that you preach you brothers and sister has to be in a an effective way. Be kind to them so they listen to you. Try to make your preaching attractive. like i mean don't let them listen to boring talks or letting them just listen. let them join your speech for example, let them ask questions and get them to the mood.

Find a good place to tell them about Islam, don't just put your self only at home, you guys could go out to parks or anywhere to have fun enjoying the weather, nature and a good speech about islam.

edit: this site has interesting islamic short stories.
http://www.islamcan.com/increaseiman/index.shtml

I also came up with another idea. When you gather sometime, you could tell them to memorize a hadeeth, allah's names, a surah from the quran and also the islamic months(which rarley every moslem knows). so they could be doing differant things, not just following the same method everyday :)

Hope I gave you some helpful ideas brother.
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:

I apologize for the late response.
I thought about compiling a series of article based on my own reading and sources (books, lectures, etc...), but as I was researching about Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) I came across a brother who already did what you're looking for.
:wasalam: Akhi....
Session regarding Hazrat Omar (ra) will be delivered on friday. So akhi you are not late...so you don't need to appologize.... :shake:

I didn't read your article about Hazrat Usman (ra) yet. Inshallah i will print it out tomorrow and read it. If you know any other videos/articles that you think is better than previous one you are more than welcomed to edit before Friday morning..

Regarding mistakes akhi don't worry too much....if they are any then inshallah we will figuare it out..


Jazakumullah khair for devoting your precious time for a precious task..May allah accept our effort (ameen).
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
I am going to write about siddique-e-Akbar, Abu bakr Siddique (RA) inshALLAH. Give me a week's time. I cant do it earlier because i m going through ups n downs these days.

I heard that I have to provide it in parts? is that so?

Brother i know what you are going through.....so i wont insist much seeing your current situation...Do whatever you can do the best....]

And btw ....when are you sending me LADOO (Sweets) by mail?? i will be waiting for them:).....i think you know what i m talking about...

Oh please do share this great news with (TTI) whenever you feel....lol
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
brother sharingan, you should be given TTI medal of honour for your tremendous support ;)

:salam2: Akhi....You forgot sister A_MUSLIMA86.....she should be given diamond medal (this is what i can think beyond gold right now) for her marvelous participation...lol
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:

Brother Zahid...I apologize for my lack of help the last few days...I had problems with my keyboard (I could only use the mouse and could browse the net through bookmarks that's it! :S)...so I had to get it fixed (again!..it's a looong story..*sigh*)

:salam2: ahhh...i am so sorry to hear that .....i know how it feels coz i have been through the same last year. The good news about it is that probably you have learned patience by using ON SCREEN KEYBOARD. :). Oh btw did you purchased a new one?

and I found material on Sayidatina Ai'isha (ra)..which I will post in a bit..and I will look for the rest of the people and post them here as well

i slightly modified the current schedule. For the first two day i used that book on Prophit Muhammad. And today INSHALLAH i will do Sayidatina Ai'isha (ra)...
The good news is that i also got the support of my father now. One the first day we covered four chapter. The first chapter i read it and the rest of them listened. As i proceeded i also had to translate it in URDU because my father asked me so. He said that i don't want you and them to forget your own language. So there you go READ IT AND TRANSLATE IT.
When it came to the second chapter i passed that book to my youngest sister (9 year one). She read it and my father translated it ( My urdu is betta than them). So all of them read a chapter each.

At the end we had a Q & A session. This was the best one. The one who get 5 point (1 point for each right question) will get $5 dollars (not kidding). I have to ask them question. I told them when i ask the question, the first one to raise his/her hand will get the right to answer. After like 5 questions all of them tried to raise while i am asking question. And when i picked the first one, i was told to repeat the question (dah). Therefore i have to change the rule. "you can't raise the hand, until i am done" ....HOWEVER IT WAS FUN...


If you are ready...perhaps you can put up the schedule for the 2nd week so other people and I can look up the information for you! :)

Yes i think, we should also work on that...WHat do you think about the moral issues...LIKE RIGHTS OF THE PARENTS, SISTER, BROTHERS, NEIGHBORS etc.....


suggestion to all participating members:


Please include the title of the topic that you have researched in the TITLE SECTION of your reply. So that i can link it to the first age.
Also make a bold, red, and italic HEADING OF THE TOPIC in the reply message.....Jazakumullah khair
 

AlQurtubi

Banned
Brother i know what you are going through.....so i wont insist much seeing your current situation...Do whatever you can do the best....]

And btw ....when are you sending me LADOO (Sweets) by mail?? i will be waiting for them:).....i think you know what i m talking about...

Oh please do share this great news with (TTI) whenever you feel....lol

Yes, i know what you are talking about. Brother Sharingan knows it as well.. lol. I dont want to open it right now. U might loose your sweets zahid if you try opening it in future :) . I need prayers badly, at the moment.

As far as sister muslimah's contribution is concerned, yep she is among one of those 4 ppl who are keeping the forum alive. It has been always beneficial to read her posts. Rest 3 include xsharinganx, xsharinganx and xsharinganx ... ;)
 

AlQurtubi

Banned
i have seen some longs posts in this thread. I think it would be better to attach them as pdf files rather than pasting text in here. PDF files are easier to read and manipulate.
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
ALRIGHT BROTHER AND SISTERS:

The second week schedule has been made. Its just a draft version, if you think you can suggest something better kindly do so. Please have a look on it and let me know if you can help...

Thank you so much..
Jazkumullah khair
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
:salam2:

I just came to check on things...

How are things proceeding with you brother?...do you need assistance with anything?...and I don't know if I have missed a beat..but I couldn't locate the draft of the new schedule you put up..so can *I* get *your* help with that?..so I look over it and see what you need...

And jazaka allah khair for your kind words about me...and the ajer of Allah is the medal I would surely want to be adorned with..please pray that I earn it :)

:wasalam:
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:

I just came to check on things...

How are things proceeding with you brother?...do you need assistance with anything?...and I don't know if I have missed a beat..but I couldn't locate the draft of the new schedule you put up..so can *I* get *your* help with that?..so I look over it and see what you need...

And jazaka allah khair for your kind words about me...and the ajer of Allah is the medal I would surely want to be adorned with..please pray that I earn it :)

:wasalam:
:salam2:

Akhti...mashallah every thing is going fine. Their holidays will be over and from monday they will start going to school. However i have another 3 weeks left, before i start a new semester...

Regarding the draft version. I typed it on the very first page .....it is "SECOND WEEK SCHEDULE".. However for your help i will paste it here too..

SECOND WEEK SCHEDULE

Mon 05/2009.............Rights of the
Tues 06/2009..............PARENTS

Wed 07/2009.............Rights of Brothers/Sisters
Thur 08/2009.............(both in islam and blood)

Fri 09/2009...............Rights of Neighbors
Sat 10/2009................(muslims/non muslims)

Sun 11/2009.............UNDECIDED




The bad or good thing about me is that i admire any thing which is good regardless of what others say or feel about it.....

So inshallah you will also ROCK during this New week schedule INSHALLAH .:jumpclap:.....:SMILY128:

If there is any thing that you would like to suggest during this weeks schedule kindly do so. And also let me know what you will be working one so that i can put that.....

jazakumullah khair
 

xSharingan01x

TraVeLer
HMMM ...all of you know my name ......but i dont know anyone's name...If you don't mind...let me know yours too..plz......:SMILY209:

:salam2:

Brother Zahid

Well i wasn't sure how comfortable people will feel if I refer to them with their actual names, out of consideration I did not call you by your name.
You have me on MSN, so you should know my name.
Just in case you forgot:S

my name is Shoaib

Once again, I want to pat you on the back for this great idea.*smacks Zahid on the back*
Too bad I don't have any small siblings. :(




:wasalam:
 

a_muslimah86

Hubbi Li Rabbi
Staff member
:salam2:

Akhti...mashallah every thing is going fine. Their holidays will be over and from monday they will start going to school. However i have another 3 weeks left, before i start a new semester...

Regarding the draft version. I typed it on the very first page .....it is "SECOND WEEK SCHEDULE".. However for your help i will paste it here too..

SECOND WEEK SCHEDULE

Mon 05/2009.............Rights of the
Tues 06/2009..............PARENTS

Wed 07/2009.............Rights of Brothers/Sisters
Thur 08/2009.............(both in islam and blood)

Fri 09/2009...............Rights of Neighbors
Sat 10/2009................(muslims/non muslims)

Sun 11/2009.............UNDECIDED




The bad or good thing about me is that i admire any thing which is good regardless of what others say or feel about it.....

So inshallah you will also ROCK during this New week schedule INSHALLAH .:jumpclap:.....:SMILY128:

If there is any thing that you would like to suggest during this weeks schedule kindly do so. And also let me know what you will be working one so that i can put that.....

jazakumullah khair

Thank you for posting the schedule here again for me..and sorry if I hassled you..

I loved the arrangement you have put..it's WONDERFUL!...and baraka allaho feek for not forgetting the non-muslims too..we live in a non-muslim society and every action we commit is a chance for da'awa..including them in teaching younger muslims about Islamic manners..is a great idea indeed! :)

For the last day (the undecided)...I was thinking perhaps you can talk about sadaqah? (charity)..volunteering..helping others..talk about the deeds of charity..its importance..and how much Allah loves it..and how it can be done even if it is splitting a date with someone...this will help your siblings understand a deed which many unfortunately forget :(..and it will indirectly instill the virtues of generosity..selflessness..and compassion in their minds which is perfect at their young age..

That's what crossed my mind for now...if I think of anything else..I will rush here and type it up for you :)

:wasalam:
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:

Brother Zahid

Well i wasn't sure how comfortable people will feel if I refer to them with their actual names, out of consideration I did not call you by your name.
You have me on MSN, so you should know my name.
Just in case you forgot:S

my name is Shoaib

Once again, I want to pat you on the back for this great idea.*smacks Zahid on the back*
Too bad I don't have any small siblings. :(




:wasalam:

So Now i got your name and now i got brother ALQURTABI NAMES....

His name is SHehzaD (Prince)......

I feel too bad for you for not having younger siblings...MAN you are missing opportunity and fun OF SMACKING THEM AROUND..and bossing them...:(......:tantrum1::SMILY27:

:SMILY26:

Lol

i dont know i have this ability to be innovative ....i make new and unique plans .....and when the time comes for implementations mashallah there are many who offer help....

Alright i dont want to do too much self praising...
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:wasalam: UKHTI a_muslimah86

Jazakumullah khair for you kind words

One quick request before i log out for day..(time is too late..i have to eat and then go to bed)....

I need some help for tomorrow lecture...about the rights of the parents...

For tomorrow i will be unable to browse any thing..since i have to go with my mom for many things and after that job...and when i will come back .it will be too late for me to do any thing.....

I will comment on suggestions tomorrow
Gotta go..
 
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