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i have got a real problem .i have a proposal of a principal.according to my teacher, he is very good and Islamic. but my mother says that he isn't very well qualified and well off and she gonna reject it.
please how can i convince her?
Dear sister, May Allah choose the best for you.
In such cases the first thing we should do is the prayer of ISTEKHARA. You should do it with the complete conviction that Allah will choose the best thing for you.
I wanna ask you something?? do you trust your mom's verdict about people? I mean does she usually give wise opinions concerning important issues in your family's life? If so, I think you get to listen to her.
Sometimes our emotions prevent us to see what's good for us and we need to listen to wise people who can see the things more clearly than we can. I know that this is not easy, specially if you have some inclination towards that person. Choosing the prospective partner of life is a very serious matter. You shouldn't hasten things and take enough time to know that person very well to be able to judge him.
If you come to be quite sure that he deserves you, then you have to fight to have him. Just do what you should do. Moreover, don't forget that it's a matter of destiny anyway. We should accept what Allah decrees.
May Allah guide you and grant you happiness. Ameen
