please ,please ,i need help

oumyaquine

Fière de ma religion
:salam2:
Well,I think most of you knows that I'm a reverted sis. Last year my daddy died.Since i reverted twelve years ago my family refused to see me no more.The fact is that i went on during those years trying to exist without no family,I mean I'm happily married. But,I thought that as most of the reverted muslims after few years everything will turn alright. All my reverted friends, after some months or after few years had reestablished they relationship with their family. Even my husband(he's a reverted too) has a normal relationship with his parent. I mean,his daddy call him at the phone or his brother phone him to play soccer together... The problem is that I went trough all those years believing that someday i coulg hug again my mum and my dad in my arms and show them my children, and suddlendly my dad passed away and I wasn't able to do it . I'm already 31 now,but it's getting worst everyday, I just want MY FAMILY BACK!!!. I keep on making du'as and praying Allah so hard and nothing changes. I so often sad now, and I often think that all this is not fair,but at the same time i know it is maktab. But nothing changes and I feel so bad,so sad, i cry so often that I can't help it. I don't know why. I tried to explained this to my husband but he said don't know how to help . I mean he does not know how I feel, he's still talking and seeing his parent.Sometimes i feel nearly jealous of his situation and that's not good. I try to explain him that what I need is a phone call from a mum asking me if I'm ok, or my sister ringing at my door. I swear by Allah Almighty thet I asked Him to help me, but sometimes I can't help starting thinking of them. Don't know what more to do,my dady's death has awaikened something and I hate being like this. Oh please,Please ,please make du'as for me ,it s getting so hard.:wasalam:
 

IslamIsLight

Islam is my life
Staff member
salam aleikum dear sister
I see your message posted ,but may be it would be better to post it under turn to lounge forum ,coz here ppl only post for helping with the web site ,and not all of us can see it...

I was really saddened by your story .I know what does it mean to be away from parents .I havent seen mine for more then 4 years ,but we talk on the phone ,hamdulillah
Sisiter I dont know your situation but why u dont go and see them or call them ,may be they thinking that u dont need them ,that u dont care ,while u thinking the same of them may be :(
I always avoid talking about religion with my parents we never talk on this subject .But they know Im muslim ,just dont know about hijab ...
I can only imagine their reaction...

May Allah make it easy on you .....Allah knows which is best for us

Will make a dua for u inshaAllah

waaleikum salam
 

oumyaquine

Fière de ma religion
jazakha'Allah khairan sweet sis,my family just simply don't want to see me,they talk to me via the lawyers. How do i post in the forum?
 

Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
:salam2:

assalamu alaykum,

why do they talk to you via lawyers? I dont know what your situation is, just call them! or go to their house.

You should try and visit your mom and your family and just speak. You becoming Muslim has not changed the way you feel for your family. Family always will remain family no matter what happens.

I can see that you are in such sad situation, maybe your husband could go on your behalf to explain to them how you feel. I guess it is one option. Or you could talk to someone who is neutral, that is friends with your mother or family and who can help you both get together.

If Islam is the reason your family dont want see you, you dont have to talk about it infront of them. You just fulfil your duties as a daughter as best you can, at same time remaining firm on what Allah has guided you to.

May Allah make things better and easier for you, and may he make you happy in this life and reward you and your family with jannatul firdaus in the next.

wasalam
 
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