Question about marriage?

ahmed zaheer

New Member
:salam2:


I have one question. If a perason dont have enough mean(money, not established financially) to marry and he knows if he will not marry he will commit zina than what should he do?
 

stiks

Amatur-Rahman
Observe Fast, or try getting married to a lady who is not financially good ( like u )

Asalaamualaykum,

It makes more sense to me to marry a lady who is financially stable unlike you. What are you going to live on? air?
 

AlQurtubi

Banned
"It makes more sense to me to marry a lady who is financially stable unlike you."

Its really hard where he is now. The place where ihe is living, people first see wat the guy do for earning his livelyhood. No one cares if he is pious or not

and YES , we still claim jannah
 

stiks

Amatur-Rahman
"It makes more sense to me to marry a lady who is financially stable unlike you."

Its really hard where he is now. The place where ihe is living, people first see wat the guy do for earning his livelyhood. No one cares if he is pious or not

and YES , we still claim jannah

I think this brother should fast and try to improve his financial situation as was suggested before. May Allah azzawajal make a way out for him (and all us muslims) and protect him from sinning, ameen.
 

fada_all

Junior Member
I think this brother should fast and try to improve his financial situation as was suggested before. May Allah azzawajal make a way out for him (and all us muslims) and protect him from sinning, ameen.

yeah i do agree with you sister stiks ,first improving his situation , and ask allah "s guidnes by istikharata dou'a allah swt insha allah will guide him to the right path insha allah taala
 

ahmed zaheer

New Member
jazakallah for all your help.

I have found one solution. May it looks ridiculous but there are some tablets which reduce mental irritation and reduce these feelings. I was using them as a test for last two weeks and they worked perfectly.


I know without financial mean no one gonna marry.

Thanks for all your help

:salam2:
 

ahmed zaheer

New Member
i am sorry i did not understand why these type of medicines are prohibited?

Do you have any proof from Ulama. Can you please share with me.
 

Nurain

Junior Member
Narrated Sahl, A woman came to the Prophet and said, "I have come to present myself to you (for marriage)." She kept standing for a long period during which period the Prophet looked at her carefully. When she stayed for a Long period, a man said to the Prophet "If you are not in need of her, then marry her to me." The Prophet said, "Have you got anything to give her (as Mahr)?" The man said, "No." The Prophet said, "Go (to your house) and search for something." The man went and came back to say, "By Allah, I could not find anything." The Prophet said, "Go again and search for something, even if it be an iron ring." He went again and came back saying, "No, by Allah, I could not get even an iron ring." The man had only an Izar and had no Rida' (upper garment). He said, "I will give her my Izar as Mahr." On that the Prophet said, "Your Izar? If she wears it, nothing of it will remain on you, and if you wear it nothing of it will be on her" The man went aside and sat down When the Prophet saw him leaving (after a while), he called back and asked. "How much Qur'an do you know (by heart)? He said, 'I know such and such Suras," naming some Suras. The Prophet said, "I marry her to you for the amount of Qur'an you know (by heart)." by al-Bukhary Vol 7, Bk 72, No 760
 

Musulmanin

Junior Member
Narrated Sahl, A woman came to the Prophet and said, "I have come to present myself to you (for marriage)." She kept standing for a long period during which period the Prophet looked at her carefully. When she stayed for a Long period, a man said to the Prophet "If you are not in need of her, then marry her to me." The Prophet said, "Have you got anything to give her (as Mahr)?" The man said, "No." The Prophet said, "Go (to your house) and search for something." The man went and came back to say, "By Allah, I could not find anything." The Prophet said, "Go again and search for something, even if it be an iron ring." He went again and came back saying, "No, by Allah, I could not get even an iron ring." The man had only an Izar and had no Rida' (upper garment). He said, "I will give her my Izar as Mahr." On that the Prophet said, "Your Izar? If she wears it, nothing of it will remain on you, and if you wear it nothing of it will be on her" The man went aside and sat down When the Prophet saw him leaving (after a while), he called back and asked. "How much Qur'an do you know (by heart)? He said, 'I know such and such Suras," naming some Suras. The Prophet said, "I marry her to you for the amount of Qur'an you know (by heart)." by al-Bukhary Vol 7, Bk 72, No 760

:salam2:

The Prophet (saw) was the best of man to walk this earth! We should always thank Allah (swt) for such a mercy from Him to mankind.

To the original poster: Brother, Fast, Fast, Fast. and make dua to Allah (swt) to lead you and a pious sister to each other. May Allah help you!
 

islamisthesolution

Junior Member
Narrated Sahl, A woman came to the Prophet and said, "I have come to present myself to you (for marriage)." She kept standing for a long period during which period the Prophet looked at her carefully. When she stayed for a Long period, a man said to the Prophet "If you are not in need of her, then marry her to me." The Prophet said, "Have you got anything to give her (as Mahr)?" The man said, "No." The Prophet said, "Go (to your house) and search for something." The man went and came back to say, "By Allah, I could not find anything." The Prophet said, "Go again and search for something, even if it be an iron ring." He went again and came back saying, "No, by Allah, I could not get even an iron ring." The man had only an Izar and had no Rida' (upper garment). He said, "I will give her my Izar as Mahr." On that the Prophet said, "Your Izar? If she wears it, nothing of it will remain on you, and if you wear it nothing of it will be on her" The man went aside and sat down When the Prophet saw him leaving (after a while), he called back and asked. "How much Qur'an do you know (by heart)? He said, 'I know such and such Suras," naming some Suras. The Prophet said, "I marry her to you for the amount of Qur'an you know (by heart)." by al-Bukhary Vol 7, Bk 72, No 760

:salam2:

mashAllah i loved it mashAllah truly he is the messanger of Allah .

may Allah make everything easy for you brother .

:salam2:
 

fada_all

Junior Member
salam alikom

masha allah what abeautifull hadith of our prophet peace and mercy be upon him.

the propblem i think nowadys is financial problem money ,yet who deserve to be your joice to give him the rest of your life i don't think here , but im sure we will find him in the hereafter insha allah..
allah konws best
 
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