Question about the VM/PM Notice

[Sakeena]

Asalam alaikum wr wb, I don't quite understand the sudden change of the rules. Can someone please explain why they are made and why when a former TTI member doesn't agree with the segregation of the sexes they are banned from TTI subhanAllah. It doesn't seem fair.

Assalamu alaykum, Brothers and Sisters, Please do not post Visitor Messages or Private Messages to any person from the Opposite Sex. -- Make your friendships with your own Gender! This website is for Learning Islam. Please Fear Allah. -
Jazak Allahu khayr ! -- And sisters please be careful! Learn Islam from the good sisters only.-- Make sure you dont have men writing on your profiles or sending PMs.

I hope I didn't say anything wrong. Thanks.

-Sakeena

 

[a_muslimah86]

:salam2:

Sister member bans are not something to be discussed so openly like this as they can get very sensitive..also..this notice made an *unwritten* rule simply become *written*..Islamically you're NOT supposed to speak to the opposite gender unless it's out of *necessity*..also the notice is put up *solely* for *your protection*..there are people with a weak nafs..and no taqwa..so we need to *repel* them!..that should explain the *why* to the notice hadaki Allah..

Also..if you have any questions or issues regarding site rules or functions..I suggest that you please message one of the mods..and ask about them privately...so you would receive a direct answer..and not create a thread..where other members might pop in and perhaps give an incorrect answer...

I hope this satisfies your inquiry however...if not..then you may do what I suggested sister...

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