Seeking Allah's Mercy
Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Asalamo`Alaykum Wa Rahamtullahi Wa Barakaatuh,
The following hadeeth pushed me into making it up to quite a lot of people wal Hamdulillah.
Abu Darda' رضي الله عنه narrated that the Messenger of Allaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
ألا أخبركم بأفضل من درجة الصيام والصلاة والصدقة ؟ قالوا : بلى ، قال : إصلاح ذات البين ، وفساد ذات البين الحالقة
In the version of at-Tirmidhi (2509) it explains what the "shaver" is:
هي الحالقة لا أقول تحلق الشعر ولكن تحلق الدين
May Allah سبحانه و تعالى strengthen and continually renew our bonds of brotherhood, for this is hard upon Shaytan.
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The following hadeeth pushed me into making it up to quite a lot of people wal Hamdulillah.
Reconcile between yourselves
Abu Darda' رضي الله عنه narrated that the Messenger of Allaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
ألا أخبركم بأفضل من درجة الصيام والصلاة والصدقة ؟ قالوا : بلى ، قال : إصلاح ذات البين ، وفساد ذات البين الحالقة
"Shall I inform you of what is better than the rank of (voluntary) fasting, prayer and charity?" The Companions said, "Yes (O Messenger of Allah". He said, "Reconciling (i.e. making peace) between yourselves, for discord between you is the shaver."
[Abu Da'wud, 4919 - graded as saheeh by al-Albani and al-Waadi']
In the version of at-Tirmidhi (2509) it explains what the "shaver" is:
هي الحالقة لا أقول تحلق الشعر ولكن تحلق الدين
"...(I do not say that) it shaves hair, but rather it shaves (one's) Deen."
How many relationships have led to ruination due to argumentation and misunderstanding and many other (insignificant) incidences? The fasaad caused by such outcome eat away at a person's Islam until their strength weakens and victory departs from them.May Allah سبحانه و تعالى strengthen and continually renew our bonds of brotherhood, for this is hard upon Shaytan.
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