Reverts - Curious

bilalswife1983

Junior Member
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullah!




May the help of Allah be with you and all those reverts who sacrificed the relationship of their families and the luxurious lifestyle for accepting Islam.

I know it is alot easier said than done, but if you look you are paying this price to buy the friendship of Allah and it is a price worth paying if one has to.

May Allah grant you all happiness and success in both worlds. Ameen

Thank you! You said what I couldn't put into words. Maybe we lose some friends and family but like you said, we gain the friendship of Allah and millions of others around the world.

Asalamo alaikom


i never tested pork (alhamduliLah), but this is a thread why pork is haram and unhealthy (AlhamduliLah that you don't eat it now), so you don't need to miss it!!!!...

http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=31326&page=4

Thanks for the link!

The deciding factor : It was really not just a factor, it was just that everything made sense and answered all my questions. SubhanaAllah!

The hardest thing to give up
: to eat with my left hand. I'm left handed and still finding it hard!

Assalamo alikom wa rahmato Allah wa barakato

Yeah, it all just makes sense, I agree. I hope everything gets better for you with the whole "left-handed" thing. It looks like some good links were provided explaining all that.
 

tombstone

New Member
You cannot use your left hand to eat and drink- read the fatwa

That is really weird. Who said you can't eat with your left hand?
As far as i Know if the reason for eating with certain hand and not with the other is, because of sanitation. (I could be totally wrong). Most people are right handed, hence they would use left hand for nature call, but if you're left handed you would use right hand for nature call. Does that make any sense? It would only be the opposite!
Can any1 clear up the confusion? I'm really confused.
As far as I know that if you're left handed you can eat with left hand, but then you take care of nature call with right hand.


p.s. I though the food of Jews and Christians were allowed to us? Maybe I'm confusing it with women. Well I never really have problem concerning food, there are alot of Arab markets near my city, and all of them sell halal food.


Shoaib

Assalamu alaikum.

I dont want to hurt you or anyone in anyway but this is the fatwa against eating with the left hand.

http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=3020&ln=eng

Question:
Because of my nephews bad habit he has great difficulty in eating with his right hand. At the moment he uses his left hand when there is nobody to remind him. I am worried about this, so, what is the fiqh ruling concerning a person who get used to eat with his left hand?

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

Doing good is a habit and doing evil is a habit. Man is always either making progress or falling behind. When a person gets used to doing something, he becomes very fond of it and loves it, and dislikes anything else. Then he thinks that the thing he is not used to is not possible, but this way of thinking is not right and it goes against both the laws of Islam and the facts of reality. Therefore the one who uses his left hand to eat and drink should be taught the Islamic ruling and should be reminded of the hadeeth of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on this matter. When a man ate with his left hand in his presence, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Eat with your right hand.” He said, “I cannot.” He said, “May you never be able to!” Nothing was stopping him but his stubborn arrogance, and he never raised his right hand to his mouth after that. (Reported by Muslim, 3776). According to a report narrated by al-Daarimi, “his right hand never reached his mouth”. This man suffered paralysis because of the du’aa’ of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “In this hadeeth we have an indication that it is allowed to pray against a person who breaks a shar’i rule with no excuse. We also see the principle of enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil in all situations, even with regard to eating. It encourages us to teach proper manners of eating to a person who is eating if he is doing something wrong. The hadeeth also teaches us that the Shaytaan eats with his left hand, because of the hadeeth: “When any one of you eats, let him eat with his right hand, and when he drinks, let him drink with his right hand, because the Shaytaan eats with his left hand and drinks with his left hand.” (Reported by Muslim, 3764). The Shaytaan eats with his left hand so the person who eats with his left hand resembles the Shaytaan, indeed the Shaytaan is sharing his food with him. Ahmad reported with a hasan isnaad from ‘Aa’ishah and attributed to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Whoever eats with his left hand, the Shaytaan eats with him.” (Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi, commentary on hadeeth 1721).

Moreover, the left hand should be reserved for removing dirt, as when cleaning oneself after going to the toilet (istinja’) and blowing one’s nose and other kinds of cleaning oneself and removing dirt. How can a person use that which is used for removing dirt and impurities for putting food in his mouth?

Hafsah (may Allaah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to use his right hand for eating, drinking and getting dressed and his left hand for everything else. (Reported by Abu Dawood, no. 30)

Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

“This is a fixed rule in sharee’ah. It has to do with honourable things such as putting on one’s shirt, trousers and shoes, entering the mosque, using siwaak, applying kohl, … combing and styling one’s hair, … shaving the head, giving salaam at the end of prayer, washing oneself in ghusl or wudoo’, leaving the toilet, eating, drinking, shaking hands, acknowledging the Black Stone, and other things where we are encouraged to use the right hand or start with the right. As for the opposite [things that are not honourable], such as entering the toilet, leaving the mosque, blowing one’s nose, washing oneself after using the toilet, taking off one's shirt, trousers and shoes, and so on, then we should start with the left or use the left hand. All of this has to do with honouring the right hand or right side.”

Some people may have a real problem that prevents them from using their right hand, such as being paralyzed and so on. In this case they are excused and there is no blame on them. Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “If he has an excuse for not eating and drinking with his right hand, such as sickness or an injury, then this is not makrooh…”

Most likely the problem of the boy you are asking about has to do with habit, so try to get him used to eating with his right hand and keep on advising him and reminding him to do so. You could seek the help of psychiatrists, because some of them may have some useful ideas. We ask Allaah to give you strength, May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.

Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
 
jz wondering...i do everthing the opposite ...i eat with my left hand and everything every1 does with a left hand i do it with my right hand....is this haraam??....i did try but i am unable too cause its kind of already the way i am....
 

meer suhail

ILM seeker
seems like every one here is lefty
we ll i am a left as well
but ALhamdullilah it was not difficult for me to change my hand ,,,well when i heard about it ,whats the ruling on eating with left hand ,i just stopped .yeah eating rice as difficult ,used to collect them with left and then put back the spoon on the plate and then use right hand ,hehe ,,lol is funny my family memeber stil point ,ur eating with left hand ,,,,,,i have to tell them ,,HELLO ? this is my right hand .ALhamdullilah that was not much difficult for me ,i changed it many years ago ,,,,,but yeah is some problem still
and most difficult thing to control ,will be eyes and tongue ,realy had tough time with my mind as well ,is monsterous ,,,,,
PS:i am a born muslim ,,,,hey but every one is born muslim ,,,,well hmmm ,,, my parents are muslims ,,,,,,,,Alhamdullilah
 

um_mustafa

sister in Islam
Salaam,

This September will make it two years since converting to Islam fro Judaism, alhumdulillah.

Best thing about converting: Finally being able to pray salat and practice something I had been reasearching for two years.

Hardest thing: Losing my family and having a weird "gypsy" feeling during the holidays. I had been raised in a rich culture and was always so happy when the holidays rolled around and I could visit with my whole clan. The last two Ramadans have been almost sad and lonely as I was in the Caribbean (med school) and there are no other Muslims besides students. We would have small iftars and it wasn't very joyous as most Muslims were horribly homesick.

Wasalaam

~Sarah

Mashallah sister , hamdulilah Allah Talaa' gave us the best gift of our lives by making us muslim, we are so lucky He chose us and showed us the right path, with this in mind it makes these sacrifices well worth it ,and to be honest it does not really feel like a sacrifice. Alhamdulilah
 
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