Righteous advice

Abahuraira

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"If one drops his formality and burdening, his friendship will last. One who lesson his needs will have long-lasting love" The signs that one has dropped his formality and has complete friendship are that he does the following four things in his brother's house: he eats in his brother's house, he uses the toilet in his brother's house and he prays and sleeps there. If he does that, his brotherhood has become complete. Further awkwardness will have been removed and comfort is assured.

Minhaj Al-muslim volume1 page 239.

It is narrated that a man came to Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be please with hi, and said, "I want become your brother for the sake of Allah?" He told him, "Do you what the rights of brotherhood are?" He answered, " Infom me." He said, "It is that you have no more right over your money than I do." The man replied, "I have not yet reached that stage," So Abu Hurayrah told him, "Then leave me."

Minhaj Al muslim...........V1 page 237.
 

kalamazoo

'Millat "IBRAHIM" {AleyhiSalaam}
asalaam aleykum


....and if you wish to understand a persons' behavior.
You at least have travel with him 10 to 15 days;
live in one room-cooperate with cooking and
washing(i will rather say cleanliness etc.)and conversation.

For sure you will .... UNDERSTAND HIM WELL.

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source: experienced.
 

lostlilly07

striving 4 Firadous
asalaam aleykum


....and if you wish to understand a persons' behavior.
You at least have travel with him 10 to 15 days;
live in one room-cooperate with cooking and
washing(i will rather say cleanliness etc.)and conversation.

For sure you will .... UNDERSTAND HIM WELL.

----------------------------------------------:SMILY288:


source: experienced.
To live with anyone is to truly know them
 

strive-may-i

Junior Member
asalaam aleykum


....and if you wish to understand a persons' behavior.
You at least have travel with him 10 to 15 days;
live in one room-cooperate with cooking and
washing(i will rather say cleanliness etc.)and conversation.

For sure you will .... UNDERSTAND HIM WELL.

----------------------------------------------:SMILY288:


source: experienced.

The confused times we are in, I guess you should also elaborate , explicitly with whom one can stay!!
And, I Agree. The hill is always greener on the other side :)
 
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