zainab bala
Allah is sufficient.
Ash-Sha'bi related that he one day heard Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah saying, ''The only person who ever defeated me in anything was a young man from the clan of Banu Al-Harith bin Ka'b. That occured when I proposed to a woman from Banu Al-Harith. When I did so, a young man from thesame clan was seated nearby and heard everything I said. He then approached me and said, ''O leader, she is definitely no good for you!' I said, 'O son of my brother, what is wrong with her?' He said, 'I once saw a man kiss her!' I immediately withdrew my proposal, but then I later found out that that very same young man had married her. I went to him and said, 'Did you not tell me that you saw a man kiss her?' He said, 'Yes, I once saw her father kiss her!'''