Muslim girls living in Christian / non-muslim countries may be faced with a number of problems and difficulties, such as:
Difficulty in wearing hijaab (Islamic dress code)
Difficulty in studying without having to mix with the opposite sex
Difficulty in getting married according to Islamic law
Difficulty in getting divorced according to Islamic law
Difficulty in receiving her financial rights, such as inheritance, according to Islamic law
Difficulty in finding Muslim friends who could help her adhere to her religion
Difficulty in finding halaal meat that has been slaughtered in accordance with Islamic law, or finding some foodstuffs, such as sweets etc., that are not mixed with alcohol or lard (pork fat)
Difficulty in doing some sports, such as swimming, in a place that is screened from the view of men
Difficulty and embarrassment in avoiding invitations to unsuitable parties such as Christian holidays and mixed wedding parties
These and many other challenges are faced by Muslim girls living in countries such as those referred to in the question, but they do not prevent a Muslim girl at all from making the effort and striving to follow her religion and heed its prohibitions. She will receive multiple rewards from Allaah for her efforts in the face of hardship and her patience. The bitterness of patience will ultimately be followed by the sweet joy which will make her forget the pain of hardship. Allaah is the One Whom we ask for help.
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When Allaah, may He be exalted, and His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoin something, it is obligatory for the Muslim to say, “We hear and we obey,” and to hasten to carry out what has been enjoined upon him. This is what is required by faith in Allaah.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allaah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allaah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed into a plain error”
[al-Ahzaab 33:36]
Shaykh ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
“It is not for a believer, man or woman” means: it is not appropriate or befitting for the one who is described as a believer to do anything other than to hasten to please Allaah and His Messenger, and to flee from incurring the wrath of Allaah and His Messenger, and to obey their commands, and to avoid that which they have prohibited. It is not appropriate for a believing man or a believing woman “when Allaah and His Messenger have decreed a matter” and enjoined it, “that they should have any option in their decision”. They do not have the choice of whether to do it or not, rather the believing man and the believing woman know that the Messenger is dearer to them then their own selves, so they should not let their own whims and desires form a barrier between them and obeying the command of Allaah and His Messenger.
“And whoever disobeys Allaah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed into a plain error” means, an obvious error, because he has forsaken the Straight Path which leads to the reward of Allaah, and has strayed to another path which leads to a painful torment. So Allaah mentions first the reason for not going against the command of Allaah and His Messenger, which is faith, then He mentions the deterrent for that, which is fear of going astray, which leads to punishment and humiliation. End quote.
Tafseer al-Sa’di, p. 612.
The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us that the one who disobeys him is the one who does not want to enter Paradise! Al-Bukhaari (7280) narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “All of my ummah will enter Paradise except those who refuse.” They said: “O Messenger of Allaah, who would refuse?” He said: “Whoever obeys me will enter Paradise and whoever disobeys me has refused.”
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