Strict Husbands

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Salaamualikumwrwb InshAllaah everyone is in good health. Im curious as to whether any of you have come across anything regarding husbands being too strict with their wives that it makes the wife want to leave the husband in order to save her emaan and deen because as a result of the strictness over menial matters she is worried she will hate islam due to her husband?? Any insight or suggestions would be much appreciated InshAllaah. JazakAllaahkhairan. Salaamualikumwrwb.

 

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Salaamualikumwrwb InshAllaah everyone is in good health. Im curious as to whether any of you have come across anything regarding husbands being too strict with their wives that it makes the wife want to leave the husband in order to save her emaan and deen because as a result of the strictness over menial matters she is worried she will hate islam due to her husband?? Any insight or suggestions would be much appreciated InshAllaah. JazakAllaahkhairan. Salaamualikumwrwb.

:salam2: dear sister/brother if the wife is experiencing difficulties from her husband that she is afraid she will start hating the deen, then she has the right to ask for divorce. many couples have faced issues such as this. there is a man that i've known of and he tells his wife that she can't even talk to other women, because he is so jealous even of other women talking to his wife. the husband has rights over the wife but he should not over burden her. if this sister is able to solve the problem in a way that she can make peace with her husband or that she may be able to convince him to give her even a little freedom then she should use that solution. Divorce should be the last option. as for disliking Islam...she should not hate Islam. because islam brings peace, justice and order to every human being who follows it. Just because her husband mistreats her does not mean that she has got to hate a beautiful way of life. It's an individual who is wrong-doing NOT ISLAM. Islam shouldn't be criticized or blamed for an individual's action and that she should know and understand. If she wants to leave this man afraid that she may go astray, than she should follow the rules of Islam on divorcing and such but she has NO RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO BLAME ISLAM. please tell this sister that she should look at Islam and see it's beauty, and that she shouldn't make it a scapegoat because of her husband's strictness. a woman has many options...she cannot be forced to marry a man she doesn't want and in this case she is not forced to stay with a man who mistreats her. there is a possibility that there is a good man out there who would treat her right according to the law of Allah inshaAllah. though it's better to find a solution to the problem. and if she doesn't, then she should get her divorce. wallahu A'alam. sincerely your sister in Islam. :salam2:

 

[msaeed]

:salam2: Can a husband tell his wife that she has to tell him where she is going (for example work) before she goes? Does she have to take permission? and the samething other way around?
JazakAllahu khairen.
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