bilalswife1983
Junior Member
Assalam alaykum everyone! As a revert, I'm having difficulty with friends I had before I became a Muslim. I don't want to turn my back on them but I also don't want to be around them too much because they do haram things and talk a lot about haram things. I seem to want to avoid them more than talk to them. Is that wrong of me? I think that I should just move away from here (which is the plan anyway so my kids can go to an Islamic school) and just keep in touch occasionally insha allah. That way I don't have to get rid of them but I also don't have to be around them. I guess the plan until then is to set a good example for them to see what Islam is really like. But today as I was reading the Qur'an, I came upon this verse:
Surah LX: That Which Examines (sorry I don't have the Arabic translation of it!)
"O ye who believe! Take not my enemies and yours as friends (or protectors),---offering them (your) love, even though they have rejected the Truth that has come to you, and have (on the contrary) driven out the Prophets and yourselves (from your homes), (simply) because ye believe in Allah your Lord! If ye have come out to strive in My Way and to seek My Good Pleasure, (take them not as friends), holding secret converse of love (and friendship) with them: for I know full well all that ye conceal and all that ye reveal. And any of you that does this has strayed from the Straight Path."
This sparked my memory and I remembered other verses similar to this, such as this one:
Surah V: The Repast, line 51
"O ye who believe! take not the Jews and Christians for your friends and protectors: They are but friends and protectors to each other. And he amongst you that turns to them (for friendship) is of them. Verily Allah guideth not a people unjust."
Most of these friends claim to be Christian and I don't want to talk bad about them but they are FAR from religion, except one who is actually a practicing Christian. Reading these verses from my point of view tells me that I should not be friends with these people. Can anyone help me with this? Am I interpreting that correctly?
Surah LX: That Which Examines (sorry I don't have the Arabic translation of it!)
"O ye who believe! Take not my enemies and yours as friends (or protectors),---offering them (your) love, even though they have rejected the Truth that has come to you, and have (on the contrary) driven out the Prophets and yourselves (from your homes), (simply) because ye believe in Allah your Lord! If ye have come out to strive in My Way and to seek My Good Pleasure, (take them not as friends), holding secret converse of love (and friendship) with them: for I know full well all that ye conceal and all that ye reveal. And any of you that does this has strayed from the Straight Path."
This sparked my memory and I remembered other verses similar to this, such as this one:
Surah V: The Repast, line 51
"O ye who believe! take not the Jews and Christians for your friends and protectors: They are but friends and protectors to each other. And he amongst you that turns to them (for friendship) is of them. Verily Allah guideth not a people unjust."
Most of these friends claim to be Christian and I don't want to talk bad about them but they are FAR from religion, except one who is actually a practicing Christian. Reading these verses from my point of view tells me that I should not be friends with these people. Can anyone help me with this? Am I interpreting that correctly?