Gosh that is like SO nasty, I wouldn't even want to imagine a Hijabi doing that. I would understand a stupid girl who goes around wanting guys to "love her " and "adore her" but this is just disgusting! Ew now I'm getting the creeps. Astagfirullah if that were me walking there I would get so shocked and crazy that nothing would've stopped me from pulling out a gun, gosh sad, but true.
That is because such people are using the hijab for the wrong reason. When I was a teenager in Germany, I use to witness women in hijabs doing all kinds of western things and I use to wonder if that was allowed in Islam since I was not Muslim yet, but I later came to learn that there are people out there who may identify as Muslims but know nothing of it and they wear the hijab more as a cultural thing rather than what it is supposed to be. In my opinion, it all has to do with teaching them and it starts with parents. If the parents are busy making money, chasing dunya and themselves do not have decent knowledge of Islam, then it is highly likely that the children will also do the same.
I had a person the other day tell me straight in the open that he fornicates, smokes marijuana, drinks and does anything he feels and he told me that no Muslims will stay in hell forever so it's like a prision sentence only and he will get out anyways and he is not worried. I asked him who is to say if he were really a Muslim because it would be no different if he were born into a Christian, Jewish or hindu family. It be no different and in fact he wouldn't even be calling himself a Muslim in that case. The only reason such a person can or even calls himself a Muslim is because he was born into it and assumes that automatically makes him or her a Muslim. As if such people do not have the same obligations as any other Muslim, including reverts. They have the same obligation to make a decision at some point. Will they be Muslims (one who submits to Allah) or will they not be.
I think this is also a huge misunderstanding about those rare cases of "ex Muslims". I can guarantee, and I would even bet money on it if it were not haram to gamble, that all the rare cases of ex Muslims were such as the above mentioned people. A male or female, raised without Islamic knowledge or understanding, has no idea of the purpose of life, is dying to be like the person on tv, and sudedenly such a person meets a Christian who is telling him that he don't need to be like the rest and pray 5 times a day, fast, etc because Jesus(as) died for their sins(astaghfirullah), what does anyone assume will happen. Of course the person will say he use to be a Muslim and left it and of course an ignorant person will leave for something else. However, it is impossible to find a learned Muslim who has left Islam to convert to another religion. I have never seen it and the 3 or 4 jack asses that are popular on western television are all shady or else they wouldn't be on American and Christian networks trying to promote their books.
How many times have we seen Muslim reverts behave in such a nasty way? Most of the reverts from christianity are learned peoples who did sincere investigating and truth seeking and were guided to Islam by Allah. They weren't people who were out to chase their own desires and had no idea of what their religion was all about. So there is a huge difference between Islam and family/tribal or ethnic tradition. Just because one is a Turk, Arab, Kurd, Pakistani or whatever, it don't mean they are necessarily Muslims. I am not trying to judge but there has to be something fair because else how could a person who is only Muslim by label and because of all the wrong reason better than a Mushrik who does not behave that way? It wouldn't be fair for someone to be called a kafir and go to jahanam for eternity while someone who just happened to be born into an Islamic household is automatically a Muslim and will have a free ticked to jannah. This can't be the right way and I object to such a concept heavily. When we see such people, we should give them dawah and we should help them. If they don't care, then that is their problem and they should also be notified that there is no reason to wear a hijab because of fear of family because only Allah is deserving to be feared and it is for the love of Allah that the hijab must be worn and observed.
I am sorry if I offended anyone but it is hard not to say something and partially blame the parents and relatives who themselves were not teaching or doing Islam. Islam is not just a label by which one becomes "saved" like other religions. Islam is a total way of life and one is never "saved" by just using the title or saying the shadah. One has to believe and act upon the shadah and that is more than just mere words. Islam is also an action and not just faith in the heart. Faith goes up and down and it is our actions, good works that go hand in hand with it. I hope the girl mentioned in the post will learn about Islam and may Allah guide her and all of us inshaAllah amin.
