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:salam2: hi to all .
I have not visisted the site for qiute a while now, i am confused and am finding it very hard to know which way i should turn. I have been with my husban for six years his family never accepted me but {as i thought} fortunately they accepted me a couple of months back. Myself and my partner had waited a long time for this moment to come, and with his mothers blessing we then persuid with our marriage {we would not do this without the families acceptance}. We have a beautiful 2 half year old son and i hoped that this was the turning point in our life that we needed because now we could have his family involved with our family. but this was not to be. for afew weeks they were more than happy to have us round their house but then his sister in law returned from Pakistan and my partner was told by his brother that i was no longer allowed around their house because his wife didnt like me. my husband later went around himself and was told that he also was no longer welcome. I have tried my hardest to please his family but obviously this isnt enough. I did NOT start to read into islam because of them i chose to that because i wanted to but that doesnt even please them. i bring my son up muslim and have agreed that he will go mosque when he is 5 years old but even that doesnt make them happy. I sometimes wonder if they will ever accept me? I would love to be involved in the family because they could learn me so much which i could also pass on to my son but it would seem this just isnt to be. It has put me off things in such a way i cannot explain. none of my family are muslim and none of them even know the slightest thing about the religion but his family do and as far as i am concerned there is no reason why they should outcast me like this. i have never said a bad word to them and have never disrespected them, i have stood up for them when they may have had problems, never got thanked and never asked for the thanks but they just act like ive never done anything for them. they would be happier if i didnt exist. i just do not know what to do my family has always accepted my partner they treat him like one of the family and he is happy about that but i just dont understand why his family cant do the same. i welcome any advice that anybody may have. thankyou for taking the time to read my message and i hope to hear from people soon. again i thank you...
I have not visisted the site for qiute a while now, i am confused and am finding it very hard to know which way i should turn. I have been with my husban for six years his family never accepted me but {as i thought} fortunately they accepted me a couple of months back. Myself and my partner had waited a long time for this moment to come, and with his mothers blessing we then persuid with our marriage {we would not do this without the families acceptance}. We have a beautiful 2 half year old son and i hoped that this was the turning point in our life that we needed because now we could have his family involved with our family. but this was not to be. for afew weeks they were more than happy to have us round their house but then his sister in law returned from Pakistan and my partner was told by his brother that i was no longer allowed around their house because his wife didnt like me. my husband later went around himself and was told that he also was no longer welcome. I have tried my hardest to please his family but obviously this isnt enough. I did NOT start to read into islam because of them i chose to that because i wanted to but that doesnt even please them. i bring my son up muslim and have agreed that he will go mosque when he is 5 years old but even that doesnt make them happy. I sometimes wonder if they will ever accept me? I would love to be involved in the family because they could learn me so much which i could also pass on to my son but it would seem this just isnt to be. It has put me off things in such a way i cannot explain. none of my family are muslim and none of them even know the slightest thing about the religion but his family do and as far as i am concerned there is no reason why they should outcast me like this. i have never said a bad word to them and have never disrespected them, i have stood up for them when they may have had problems, never got thanked and never asked for the thanks but they just act like ive never done anything for them. they would be happier if i didnt exist. i just do not know what to do my family has always accepted my partner they treat him like one of the family and he is happy about that but i just dont understand why his family cant do the same. i welcome any advice that anybody may have. thankyou for taking the time to read my message and i hope to hear from people soon. again i thank you...