muslimlady
Junior Member
Looking at the current state of events, I am saddened, appaled and baffled.
I am an Arab and looking at the conduct and behaviour pattern of the arabs that I know and meet including my own family members made me conclude that we will never win any war. Our beloved Prophet Mohammed
has shown us many examples of how to conduct ourselves and how to go to war, how to motivate people; basically by motivating your own family and children first and then there will be a snowballing effect. We don't follow these examples.
The Arabs must think like a Muslim first; then only can they act like one. Far too often the Arabs are still tribal in nature and Jahiliyah in action.
It is still common in this day and age to prefer marriage within a tribe, failing which within a state failing which within a country. So the man could have been educated in London and might have lived and worked there for say 10 years and he will be made to marry someone from his native land who would have trouble adjusting to his environment. This leads to alot of abuse and friction; eventually divorce.
Arabs treatment of women in general remains very close to Jahiliyah, hence there is no barakah to all the wealth that has been accumulated through our natural resources.
Generally they have a "good" arab/muslim wife and then have a string of women thereafter hence exposing their own families to diseases and unhappines.
I have used the above examples as it is the most apparent and is one of the main point of contention by the infidels to attack Muslims and Islam and prove to the world what a horrible religion Islam is. Islam is like the perfect Operating System(OS) with its own hackers, new learners, lazy learners, ignorant s who constantly complain that it is a bad OS when they have not taken the time to learn it in its completeness etc.
This is not attack, this is an appeal from one arab to all arabs and muslims in general. Allah swt has given the men a measure of authority so that he may lead his family, his community, his country his fellow ummah. He is the Khalifah, only a man can be an Imam in a congregation of men and women. Sufficient evidence that Allah has ordained for men to lead.
So lead my brothers.........lead with compassion, with a fervour. Lead so that we WANT to follow you. It is said that if you use your heart to see you will see clearly and beyond. If you hear with your heart, you can hear what it is meant by what is said, you will find clarity.
Only Allah knows..........
I am an Arab and looking at the conduct and behaviour pattern of the arabs that I know and meet including my own family members made me conclude that we will never win any war. Our beloved Prophet Mohammed
has shown us many examples of how to conduct ourselves and how to go to war, how to motivate people; basically by motivating your own family and children first and then there will be a snowballing effect. We don't follow these examples. The Arabs must think like a Muslim first; then only can they act like one. Far too often the Arabs are still tribal in nature and Jahiliyah in action.
It is still common in this day and age to prefer marriage within a tribe, failing which within a state failing which within a country. So the man could have been educated in London and might have lived and worked there for say 10 years and he will be made to marry someone from his native land who would have trouble adjusting to his environment. This leads to alot of abuse and friction; eventually divorce.
Arabs treatment of women in general remains very close to Jahiliyah, hence there is no barakah to all the wealth that has been accumulated through our natural resources.
Generally they have a "good" arab/muslim wife and then have a string of women thereafter hence exposing their own families to diseases and unhappines.
I have used the above examples as it is the most apparent and is one of the main point of contention by the infidels to attack Muslims and Islam and prove to the world what a horrible religion Islam is. Islam is like the perfect Operating System(OS) with its own hackers, new learners, lazy learners, ignorant s who constantly complain that it is a bad OS when they have not taken the time to learn it in its completeness etc.
This is not attack, this is an appeal from one arab to all arabs and muslims in general. Allah swt has given the men a measure of authority so that he may lead his family, his community, his country his fellow ummah. He is the Khalifah, only a man can be an Imam in a congregation of men and women. Sufficient evidence that Allah has ordained for men to lead.
So lead my brothers.........lead with compassion, with a fervour. Lead so that we WANT to follow you. It is said that if you use your heart to see you will see clearly and beyond. If you hear with your heart, you can hear what it is meant by what is said, you will find clarity.
Only Allah knows..........
