Thus spake the Lady in Black

almond

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This is the sound of reason… of dignity and pride.
A Moslem lady walks the street in her long black veil, and she celebrates the dignity, respect, and liberation that Allah has bestowed upon her, in this dark venerable attire.
She walks like a queen… a crowned queen. In her dark outfit she makes a loud statement of freedom to every one who thinks he has the right to penetrate through her body with his dirty eyes! This is her statement of freedom! Freedom from dogs and wolves of the street, who think they have a right to her body, just because they like it, and just because they know they can get it in a few moves!!
That lady in black looks in pride at all those men who have taken women's bodies for toys, and who take that pleasure for granted, she looks at them all and says:
"This is me… I'm no sex toy! I'm not that bi*** or that babe from around the corner! I'm a human mind! This is me you're dealing with! Not the pair of breasts or shapely legs! This is the real me.. I am a free woman! Free from the prison of fashion that tortures poor women in a devilish competition on which one of them turns more hungry heads around!! Free from the torture of bikini sizing and that submission to a code of slavery to a model form of a female body! I was not created to be a feast for every hungry animal on the beach or on the street! I was not created to be a slave to whatever a few hounds of fashion design decide what women should wear so those animals could devour her body in every move and turn she takes!! I'm higher than the will of a designer who takes my body for a hanger of flesh to sell his designs!! I'm no toy in the hands of a photographer to make money and fame on the expense of my human pride and human dignity! I'm not a nice piece of decoration for you to attract people's eyes to some billboard on the streets!"
She shouts in a noble way in the face of every animal:
"I am not yours to play with!!!"

To whom then, does that honorable lady belong?
If she does not belong to every passerby who wishes to have fun with every female cow that comes along, then who does she belong to?

She knows that like every other human being, she belongs to the only one who owns everything that exists. She belongs to the Lord Allah, her creator, the creator of heaven and earth.
He alone, decides upon His creation.
And He has chosen dignity and respect to women.
A woman is not a female ape! She's not a fruit on the trees that anyone could just pick and devour! Women scream to urge people to listen to them as the human minds that they are! But they do not wish to admit that the way they walk, the way they dress, the way they mingle and mix up with those men, will never give them that right!
Is it not your right, my lady, to get free from those peering eyes that only wish to "enjoy" your sweet company wherever you go??
Statistics show that the more modest a woman dresses at work, the less likely she is to suffer from sexual harassment! Does that surprise you?
Well, the Lady in black knows better!!
She knows much more indeed. She knows what kind of an effect her body; her every curve should have on a healthy man. She knows from the teachings of Islam that a flimsy, or a transparent, or a tight dress is just as good as none at all! Maybe even worse, for it urges a man to imagine!!
She knows that what Allah has chosen for her is ultimate wisdom. She knows that this passion in men and women for sex was not created without a purpose! And the purpose is home! Yes. Home is the unit of society. It is the fortress where a man is built, and it is the place from whence society emerges. A healthy home is a source of healthy society.
Now sex was only created for that home.
It is the home, the family, the emergence, construction and preservation of succeeding generations… the breading of human offspring and the preservation of the human kind.
Those who think sex was made to be so much pleasure, just for the fun of it, and that whoever gave them that pleasure in creation, does not mind them to go around and put it wherever they desire, those people are in a loss. They are slaves to those organs between their legs! They enjoy that slavery just for the sake of those short moments of pleasure that it gives them, and they blind themselves from the torture it eventually turns the rest of their entire lives into!!
They blind themselves from the hate, the spite, the envy, the doubt, and all such dark feelings that haunt their hearts as they move around from one bed to the other!! "Who cares what tomorrow brings, and who cares what may be of me when I die??!" they would say! "I'm having fun right now and this is all that matters"!!!
This is sheer blindness!

The Lady in black has learnt heavenly wisdom.
She knows much better.
Indeed she knows that when the time comes for her, she will be betrothed to a wise man who makes her the queen she was made to be. She will never be forced to offer her flower to a man she does not like. She will never be forced to live with a man she does not like. She knows that without her consent, her free consent, no stranger man could ever be allowed within her sacred domain. She is a pearl. A precious pearl. So precious to her creator that He keeps her body clean and her soul pure, in every sense of the word.
Deep within the soul of every woman she knows that she is doing wrong when she offers herself so easily to any man on the streets!! Even an atheist woman knows and feels deep inside her heart that such life is not a stable life! It is not a life to begin with! She feels deep inside the desire to build a family, to have children, to become a mother, and a happy wife! However, she eventually kills that sound of pure humanity deep inside her, and drowns in blind pleasures of the flesh, following the animal inside to wherever it takes her!
She claims that in such a way she is free from the ownership of a man!!! So instead of giving herself to one man, she gives herself freely to an entire troop of men, and claims that this is her rightful freedom!!!
A Moslem does not "own" his wife. She's not his, and he's not hers. We all belong to our creator. And it is by the power of His word, and His word alone, that one man gets the right to a woman, after her consent.
We were not made to live in a jungle! Man was honored by his Lord, in every sense of the word. However, few are those who accept that honor and choose to live by it.

This is the noble lady in black.
Proudly she speaks to the world:
"This is me, I'm free. I need no make up to plead for the eyes of those wolves! I need no turning heads to prove to myself that I am indeed a female with a body that would naturally attract any healthy man's eyes!! I'm not in need to prove anything to anyone!! I'm in no contest to see how many men would find me "sexy"!! I know what I have and I know what it was made for! I'm no gum in a candy store, for men to chew for a while, then spit it and look for another one!!
Freedom is not in nakedness and "free sex"! Freedom is in the way I walk around not caring about anything but what I wish to do, and what I choose for people to treat me with. If that man around hates to talk to a veiled woman then he hates it because he cares not about my mind or whatever I have to say! He hates it because he wants none of a lady more than her body! And if such is the way he thinks of me, then he is not worthy of my respect or my time!
I am free from his dirty animal desire!
I am free from the rush of hormones that would turn a woman into a toy, enslaved by her own body!
I look in pity at those women who would go – in service of the god of instinct that they worship – to as far as to actually tie themselves up in beds or in the most humiliating of ways to arouse an animal for a moment of pleasure!
I find my pleasure in my lawful man. And if I did not, I will not jump naked on the street for another animal to give me that!! I will go in dignity, human dignity, to break the bond of marriage and would get another chance in another man, and in yet another holly bond of matrimony.
Sex is not my purpose of being. My body submits to me. I do not submit to it.
I am my mind. And I am out of reach of those animals!
Out of reach of every hungry wolf that searches for a red night, as though he uses a toilet to empty his bladder!!
Dating is nothing but a "civilized" code to take a woman to bed! There are those women who get paid in cash for sex, and there are those who get paid in a few dinners and a few funny stories and chitchat!! A hungry man can easily hunt for such a woman on the streets, in bars, and in brothels!
Allah has exalted me high above all such dirt!
Those women no longer find an offense in men calling them "bi***"!!
Is this what they call freedom??!
She is indeed a slave!
Far more than she really imagines!
And they wonder why men never look at their minds!!
If she finds a man, any man on the streets, attractive enough, she would go for him, throw her net on him and say "What the heck!!.. Why not??!" .. If only she knew!
Oh, if only she knew why not!
I am THE lady. The true lady in every sense of the word.
My black fortress scares those dogs away. No animal would dare to approach me. I walk on the streets in pride, free from people's eyes! I go out on the street, leaving my body and my animal desire back at home where it belongs. This is me that you see now… not the legs, not the arms, not the boobs or the hair or the lips!! This is ME; the real me! Listen to me talk, argue and think, if you wish to know who I am! Take me for who I am, or go find yourself an animal female to enjoy somewhere else!!
Many people look at me in pity as though I were oppressed! They claim I have lost my rights!! What rights?? The right to walk around naked like a female ape or pig looking for the next hunt?? The right to get myself exposed to all kinds of perverted pigs in a workplace charged with sexual desires and stripped from all forms of ethics and human values? The right to turn into a toy in their hands?? What rights are they talking about??
They claim that my husband beats me!! They are throwing their own dirt on other people's heads! My noble husband never gets home late at knight drunk like a rock and beats the hell out of me!! My husband never doubts in my loyalty to his home, and he trusts me entirely. My Moslem husband fears from Allah, the Lord his creator as much as I do! He knows that a wife is a test, an exam that he should pass, not a toy that he plays with! He knows she is the lady of the house! She is the peace, the serenity, the warmness and the sweetness of a pleasant home. She is the refuge. He knows she is the mother… the builder of the next generation of men. She is a pearl, a gem entrusted in his hands. This is the part she takes in the human society; she is the origin of the human society; the cradle. It is the natural part for which she was created. The part that no man can ever take!
What rights are they talking about??
The right to become a businesswoman? To become a lawyer? To become a bus driver? The right to become a judge? To become an officer of the law??!
None of this is a woman's right, it is a man's duty!!
All such fields of work eventually serve one thing! The dominion of my castle! The woman's castle; her home!
Or perhaps, they want her to fight for the right to become a dummy or a string doll in a career of acting!! Or to become a mindless body in whatever outfit they put her in, as a supermodel?

Maybe they mean her right to become a soldier at war??! Whoever said that a woman in her right mind could wish for something like that, much less think of it as her right??! This is a man's job! A man's responsibility! He is the one who should take all so much heat and hardship to protect my castle; my home!
Allah gives me what I should get… what is rightful to me as a lady, a woman, a queen of the house.
I only wish that every woman could feel the serenity, the freedom, the honor and dignity that a Moslem woman feels!
I only wish that they take in the light, and embrace the god given mercy, and set themselves free.
Learn the meaning of peace, mutual trust in marital bonds, mutual respect, family bonds that cannot be swept away!
The home… the family… the true family in every meaning of the word; that thing that most of those poor women can only fancy about!!
I pray that Allah shows us the right path…
And delivers us into the light.
Amen."

Thus spake the Lady in Black…
 
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