Ties of Kin Grow Weak!!! pls help...

[Muslim18]

:salam2:

I hope all of you are in the best state of imaan and health,

I recently feel that my relationship between my family especially my sisters are growing weak i try to speak of mutual subjects of interest but i just cant carry on faking conversations with them, its like we have constant fights and agruements and i feel so Alone in my battles even though i am not. Today i had a fight for the first time with the sister i was most close to now theres a big rift between us and i dont know what to do. She does'nt respect me just because i dont threaten her shes bigger than me and stronger shouldnt she respect me but instead she pushes me around i know you thinking weakling but i have tried to gain weight to fight back lool its no joke but i just cant fight anymore i give up!!!

Sorry i am ranting on i just need a place to vent off before i sleep angry again...... what can i do to repair my relationships please help

And please make dua for me and my family going through a tough time but khair inshallah

Wa alaykumu salam your sister in Islam

 

[Aapa]

Salaam,

Insha'Allah, I will make dua. I pray you get a good night's sleep. It is the way of siblings.

 

[Muslim18]

:salam2:

Jaza kallahu khair sister i have just been feeling down recently but i understand what you mean its family you gotta love them right anyway thanks for the reply i havent been getting much sleep any tips i just lye awake thinking too much i hope i can sleep tonight inshallah

 

[SwordofAllah16]

i think you should take her out to dinner in a restaurant, yes it might be hard to bring up the idea to her but not impossible think about it this way, "if i go up to her and ask her to get treated in a restaurant, maybe Allah will treat me with jannah for trying to save my relationship with my sister" seems kind of crazy but the thought of Jannah makes alot of things easy. And if she says no then what you could do is offer to order take out so then you guys can eat together at home. and try figuring out what you guyz have in common and talk about that faking convoz can lead to alot bad stuff trust me i've been there don't want to go back