We Must Learn to Coexist

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We Must Learn to Coexist​

Some people in the Muslim community become very leery when talk of coexistence comes up. This is because they think that coexistence implies that we have to do away with Islamic Law, or they see it as a deceptive ploy to totally strip Islam of its principles or to introduce into Islamic beliefs and principles from other faiths and creeds.

Another reason why some Muslims are skeptical about the topic of “coexistence” is that they see it as something originating in the West, something concocted by the Western world and promoted by it as a means to submerge Islamic culture and values and make the Muslim world a copy of the West.

Though we must respect these reservations and sentiments, it remains that the concept of coexistence is – itself – something that Islamic teachings uphold and that is attested to by the sacred texts.

We should not be wary of the term “coexistence” just because some people might use it for the wrong purposes. We should not become overly concerned about terminology. What concerns us is the meaning. We need to take a reasoned approach, look at what is actually being said, and then accept it if it is good or reject it if it is wrong.

We should adopt the principle that: “A true word is the object that the Muslims are looking for. Wherever a Muslim finds it, the Muslim has a greater right to accept it.” [Sunan al-Tirmidhî – al-Tirmidhî declares it to be an unusual narration.]

The negative understanding of coexistence – which implies compromising on our essential religious beliefs, adopting some of our own and some of other faiths, though they might be contradictory – this is clearly wrong.

Allah says:

“So then do you believe in a part of the scripture and deny the rest?” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 85]

Yet, there is another, very positive meaning to coexistence that is essentially a moral value of the highest standing that applies to communication, dialogue, and agreeing to work together with others for peace and mutual prosperity. It necessitates respect for our differences, after acknowledging that those differences exist. It is an acknowledgement of pluralism.

It is this meaning of coexistence that Islam came with. The Qur’ân speaks about it in different terms, many of which might be better or clearer to us than the modern word “coexistence.”

For instance, Allah says:

“O mankind! We have created you male and female, and have made you nations and tribes that ye may know one another.” [Sûrah al-Hujurât: 13]

Allah’s words “to know one another” are not confined in scope to knowing a certain name or tribe. It is an address to all humanity and has the broadest meaning, embracing the exchange of knowledge, learning, and all positive interactions.

This meaning is confirmed where Allah says:

“Let not the hatred of some people in their (once) shutting you out of the Sacred Mosque lead you to transgression (and hostility on your part). Help one another in righteousness and piety, but do not help one another in sin and rancor. Fear Allah: for Allah is strict in punishment.” [Sûrah al-Mâ’idah: 2]

Islam advances the concept of helping one another and cooperating in what is good and beneficial, regardless of whether the other party agrees with us on essential matters or disagrees. What matters is that what we cooperate in is something right – it should conform to the dictates if righteousness and not be an act of sin, injustice, or transgression. This concept of getting to know one another and helping one another augers well for all people. These are values that bring about the betterment of humanity. When we act upon them, it draws others nearer to us – and to Islam.

It is an established fact that people are different and their circumstances differ. Allah has willed it to be that way. He says:

“If your Lord had so willed, He could have made mankind one people: but they will not cease to differ. Except those on whom your Lord has bestowed His Mercy: and for this did He create them.” [Sûrah Hûd: 118-119]

Admitting to the existence of disagreement and a multiplicity of opinion does not mean that there is no right or wrong or that there is no distinction is to be made between good and evil. Indeed, the idea of disagreement implies that there is right and wrong. Coexistence does not mean that we cease to promote our values or that we abstain from arguing our case. We can still dispute with others in the best of manners, enjoin what is right, and forbid what is wrong. These are among the essential to the values of our faith.

Coexistence means that we peacefully cooperate with others for the benefit of our mutual welfare, that we can live as neighbors on the strength of the universal values that we share and that afford us the opportunity for dialogue and the exchange of ideas.

A believer wants to improve circumstances. He is a person who enjoins what is right and forbids what is wrong. He tries his best to promote the truth and refute falsehood, to spread knowledge and dispel ignorance, and to do so in the best, most well-reasoned manner.

One of the worst tendencies that people can be exhibit is for then to appoint themselves the sole custodians of the truth – using any name that they like – seeing their point of view as indisputably correct to the extent that they feel they can pass judgment over everybody else.

This attitude is, itself, a great wrong and something contrary to Islamic teachings. Islam holds sacred the lives of all people, whether they believe in Islam or not, as long as they agree to live in peace. This has been the case throughout history.

We have a great example of Islamic coexistence in the society of Madinah, the first city of the Muslim world, from which Islam spread far and wide.

It was Allah’s will that, on the very first occasion that Islam became strong and independent, Madinah would not be a place exclusively for Muslims, but a place shared with people of other faiths: Jews as well as pagans – and also by a large number of hypocrites and Muslims of weak faith. They all lived side by side in that small city.

Allah had even decreed that at the time of the Prophet’s death, his shield would be held in mortgage by a Jew. [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim] This lets us all know that the principle of living together is something permanent, and established in our faith. No one can ever claim that it has been abrogated.

Coexistence is a way that the world’s people cooperate and exchange knowledge for our shared humanity and our shared civilized existence. We share the experiences that we have to enable us to better live on this Earth. It is a way that we can together promote the values that we all share and universally acknowledge. It is in this climate that we can have an opportunity to call others to the message of Islam. This does not just mean that one side gets to preach its faith and ideas to the other. It means that the opportunity for constructive dialogue exists – in the context of meaningful worldly coexistence – for matters of worldly as well as religious importance.

The Companions realized full well that they believed in a religion that was substantially different from the religions of those around them. These differences ran deep, embedded in matters of creed, written out in their scriptures, and expressed in their different modes of worship. Yet, all the same, there was some common ground in addition to the worldly interests that they sometimes shared.

We see that Allah says:

“Say: ‘O People of the Scripture! Come to an agreement between us and you: that we shall worship none but Allah, and that we shall ascribe no partner unto Him, and that none of us shall take others for lords beside Allah.’ And if they turn away, then say: ‘Bear witness that we are Muslims’.” [Sûrah آl `Imrân: 64]

Of all people who ever lived on Earth, the Messengers possessed the greatest faith. Nevertheless, they lived among their people in spite of their people’s categorical disbelief. Noah (peace be upon him) lived among his people for 950 years.

Allah says:

“He said: ‘O my Lord! I have called to my People night and day, but my call has only made them flee the more. And every time I have called to them, that You might forgive them, they have (only) thrust their fingers into their ears, covered themselves up with their garments, grown obstinate, and given themselves up to arrogance. And lo! I have called unto them aloud. And lo! I have made public proclamation unto them, and I have appealed to them in private. And I have said: “Ask forgiveness of your Lord. Lo! He was ever forgiving.” [Sûrah Nûh: 5-10]

We see that Noah (peace be upon him) invited them, argued with them in a reasoned and objective manner, and appealed to their good sense. This is all part of coexistence.

Coexistence does not man that you have to deny yourself the right to hold your own personal opinion. It certainly does not mean that you have to abandon your religious beliefs. Your personal opinion is part of who you are, and no one can force or oblige others to change their opinions. It remains, in the end, a personal opinion. What is desired is an end to suffocating bigotry and misguided agitation. What we need is open communication and to call people with what is best.

Coexistence means to refrain from obstinacy in our opinions and to refrain from compelling others to accept them. It does not mean to abandon what we believe or to consider all points of view to be equally correct. There is a big difference between one and the other.

Shaikh Salman AlOadah - Islamtoday

 

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Coexistence is Strength

Coexistence is Strength​


It is a sad fact that the idea of coexistence is far removed from the conceptual reality of certain sectors of Muslim society. We do not even have to go so far as to discuss coexistence between Muslims and people of other faith – there is a lack of willingness for some groups of Muslims to coexist with other Muslim who happen follow a different school of jurisprudence, or are affiliated with a different group, or are from a different country… or in some cases who belong to a different Arab tribe. These divisions sometimes erupt into violence, causing is to ask: What has torn us apart like this?

Too many people see the idea of coexistence as merely a strategy to resort to in times of weakness. This is not true at all. What we see if we observe the world is that coexistence really comes into full flower and sets its roots deep when there is strength. The societies which have the power to promote coexistence and peace are the same ones who have the power to instigate and successfully conduct a war. By contrast, those who are weak can neither conduct war nor bring about peace. It is, indeed, at times of weakness and instability that we find the noble idea of coexistence to be most imperiled.

It shows strength to be able to accommodate disagreements and dissention, to be able to encompass various outlooks, social tendencies, and aspirations while not having any group’s vested interests spiral into discord or civil strife. Strength is not about imposing one particular view by force.

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

“The strong person is not the one who can wrestle another to the ground; the strong person is the one who can restrain himself when he is angry.” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]

When the Caliph `Umar b. al-Khattâb entered Jerusalem to receive the keys to the city, he was invited to pray inside the church, but he declined. He refused to do so, though he was in a position of strength and could do as he pleased. He refused, though he did not in any way disdain praying in the church. He said, showing great foresight and sensitivity: “I fear that if I pray inside, the Muslims of future times will wish to pray in the same spot and will cause discomfort for the church’s congregation.”

`Umar, instead, prayed outside the church and spoke a guarantee to the Christians for their lives and security.

Though Richard the Lionhearted had once killed 2,700 Muslim prisoners of war on a single occasion and hung their bodies around the walls of the city of Acre, breaking the agreement he had made with the Muslims, we see that Saladin, when he retook Jerusalem, guaranteed the lives of everyone, Jews and Christians alike, though he was more then capable of exacting revenge. He instead entered into the Treaty of Ramla with Richard on 2 September 1192, whereby the city would stay in Muslim hands but would remain open to Christian pilgrimages. This is one of the hallmarks of coexistence in medieval history.

Muslim history, which is full of periods of strength and victory, is at the same time a testament to coexistence in action. It is a history of peace treaties, agreements, and covenants with others.

Allah says:

“O you who believe, uphold your covenants.” [Sûrah al-Mâ’idah: 1]

Allah says:

“Keep the covenants. Lo! The covenant will be asked about.” [Sûrah al-Isrâ’: 34]

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:

“Whoever kills a person who is under a covenant, that killer will not smell the scent of Paradise, though its scent can be detected for the distance of a journey of forty years.”

We can witness that the Prophet (peace be upon him) saw a funeral procession pass by. He stood for it. When he was told that it was the funeral of a Jew, he replied:

“Was he not a human soul?” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim]

Look at how Ibn Taymiyah addressed the King of Cyprus:

It has reached me of the Cypriot King’s devoutness, his grace, his love of knowledge, and his studiousness. I have seen how Sheikh Abû al-`Abbâs al-Maqdisî has shown thanks to the King for his gentleness, kindness, and hospitality, and equally extended thanks to the priests and their peers.

We are a people who love goodness for everyone, and it is our hope that Allah will to bring together for you all good in this world and the next.
Ibn Taymiyah called upon him not only to free the Muslim prisoners of war that he had, but also the Tatars, Jews, and Christians, saying:

We wish for all those who are with you who are Jews and Christians and who are under our legal protection, that you free them. We will not abandon any prisoner who is our citizen, whether he be Muslim or not. And likewise know that all the prisoners of war that we have who are Christians, they all know of our goodness to them and our mercy, which the Final Messenger had enjoined upon us.

Sadly, some people who are overwhelmed with a sense of defeat, cannot see in the language of coexistence anything other than a justification for and acceptance of their defeat. Others look towards an idealistic notion of coexistence that has no practical expression. A true appreciation of coexistence can bring an end to this confusion.

The success of coexistence depends upon the airing of rational voices willing to engage in fruitful dialogue, through which desired results can be achieved with ease. By contrast, the failure of coexistence is ensured when irrational and foolish voices take over, of people who care nothing but for the gratification of their own interests. Such people rely upon the discourse of strength and coercion in their understanding of the world and in their decision making. Such are people who see conflict as the key to dealing with others. They cannot look at things from the vantage point of our shared humanity, our universal values, and the common needs and interests that all people have.

Warmongers never think except in the context of war. Their discourse comes inevitably to one sorrowful conclusion.

The purpose of religion – contrary to what some people seem to think – is not to cause conflict between people, but rather to give a moral shape and harmonious order to human interaction and to ensure successful cooperation in developing our lives on this Earth.

Allah says about humanity:

“It is He Who hath produced you from the Earth and settled you therein” [Sûrah Hûd: 61]

When Allah created Adam (peace be upon him) he created him to develop the Earth, to explore it and cultivate it.

The angels at first objected to the creation of the human being, saying:

“Do you place therein those who will cause strife and bloodshed, while we glorify You with praise and exalt You?” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 30]

The angels knew full well that Allah hates strife and bloodshed. Certainly, Allah did not create humanity and give us the scriptures so we could fight each other.

The duty the Muslims have to spread the Message of Islam requires winning over people’s hearts and minds. They need to know about Islam as it really is. We as Muslims need to exercise patience and forbearance. We need to respond to abuse with goodness, as Allah has commanded us on a number of occasions in the Qur’ân.

“The good deed and the evil deed are not alike. Repel evil with what is better, then lo! he, between whom and you there had been enmity, will become like a bosom friend.” [Sûrah Fussilat: 34]

This is how Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) won over the hearts of his enemies. He responded to their harshness and coarseness with kindness, until their hearts softened and they were receptive to hear the truth.

Kind treatment, genuine concern and friendship, treating others well in word and in deed – these are the ways to bring an end to hatred and reconcile people. Allah says:

“And no one will be granted such goodness except those who exercise patience and self-restraint, none but persons of the greatest good fortune.” [Sûrah Fussilat: 35]

Coexistence preserves human life. It opens the doors to dialogue. It is the atmosphere in which the Message of Islam prospers, where it can present itself with the reason, evidence, and logic that so enriches the Qur’ân.

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