wife possessed, affected by sihr....refusing to do ruqyah

[Ahrms]

:salam2:

both me and my wife are affected by a serious magic of seperation...both are possessed.
at first i brought a raki to do ruqya on her, however she hated this guy to the point we had to find someone else.

now i have learnt ruqyah and she is feeling the same hatred for me. even if i mention doing ruqyah she flips...
my lifes a nightmare, we argue every single minute of everyday over trivial stuff. atleast i can control my emotions, she has zero control over her anger and says stuff which is below the belt and nonsensical.

i need advise please...she says wont do ruqyah. i said well we cant live together like this. shes very stubborn...what shall i do?

jazakallah

 

[Aapa]

Assalaam walaikum,

Brother,

Please explain what you mean by serious magic of separation. If you could let us know what this means it would help us understand your circumstances and then we would be able to give you useful tips.

 

[Ahrms]

basically we have had problems since maybe the first year of marriage. we have been married for almost 4 years.
i got checked by a raqi.
and we are both possessed...we react to the verses of sihr.

when i say its serious what i mean is that these jinns are determined to seperate us, from me doing ruqya on a few people i know this jinn in my wife is alot stronger and hasnt spoken yet.

shes begging me for a divorce now and says the only way she will live with me is if i never ever mention ruqyah again. i said this is impossible because 1) you are affected and 2) we argue every single day over silly stuff. and i cant continue living like this.

we're seriously considering divorce

 

[Aapa]

Assalaam walaikum,

What do family members do to help you? What are the issues that make you two angry with each other? Do you have children? Four years is not a long time?
Are there specific times of the day that you two argue? Do you pray together?

Take your time to respond. Think about what I have written.

Oh, who is the better cook?

 

[finding light]

The best thing for you to do would be to consult a third party person who is experienced in these matters that that help to remove the jinns from you both.. if that is the case - that you are both possessed...

 

[hayat84]

:salam2:
it's something I know and that I'm still living.if your wife doesn't respond to the ruqyia and if you live in Morocco in Salè there is a very good sheikh who can help you.to make the jinn to talk with you you should tight your wife,avoid that she runs far from you and ask her why does e disturb her,from where he comes from,who sent him(maybe an envious relative who made black magic),what's his name.oblige her to repeat with you "bismillah"and the "ayat al kursi".if shhe refuses to speak,there comes the jinn which maybe will laugh at you or tries to hit you with something.you try with the "good manners"to sa him to abandon your wife's body...but if the jinn insists,you use the "bad manners"beating the feet,the hands of your wife with a stick of wood or anything which can be painful for him and you mean while repeat loudly ayat al kursi,Sura al Falaq/al Ikhlas/an-nas.if the jinn cries and ask to stop beating,then you ask him to go away and to make no return,you can purpose him to become muslim.if he refuses,you continue to read quran and beat(not too much strongly,'cause jinn are sensible at a light touch)until he burns in your wife's body and she wakes up,n sh Allah....of course it's better to have the help of a good an fearless Imam,because a person like you can be involved into their tricks and they may make you see things that can sconvolt you...be strong and patient

 

[hayat84]

P:S.:it's something really dangerous,so it's better to addrss to a strong Imam,because a person with not experience can damage the health of the one who receives the ruqyia.if the person faints up and you've not experience,you risk that the person remains in a status of Coma and you'll need to dial the 911.so be careful!!

 

[Kakorot]

You should get ruqyah done for yourself inshaAllaah.

I think the reason why she doesn't want ruqyah is because the jinn is controlling her, since he/she obviously doesn't want to be removed from her body. In addition to that, ruqyah can be very painful.

I think you should ask a raaqi as to what you should do regarding your wife. If you two break your marriage, then the jinns will achieve what they've aimed for.

 

[Ahrms]

:salam2:
it's something I know and that I'm still living.if your wife doesn't respond to the ruqyia and if you live in Morocco in Salè there is a very good sheikh who can help you.to make the jinn to talk with you you should tight your wife,avoid that she runs far from you and ask her why does e disturb her,from where he comes from,who sent him(maybe an envious relative who made black magic),what's his name.oblige her to repeat with you "bismillah"and the "ayat al kursi".if shhe refuses to speak,there comes the jinn which maybe will laugh at you or tries to hit you with something.you try with the "good manners"to sa him to abandon your wife's body...but if the jinn insists,you use the "bad manners"beating the feet,the hands of your wife with a stick of wood or anything which can be painful for him and you mean while repeat loudly ayat al kursi,Sura al Falaq/al Ikhlas/an-nas.if the jinn cries and ask to stop beating,then you ask him to go away and to make no return,you can purpose him to become muslim.if he refuses,you continue to read quran and beat(not too much strongly,'cause jinn are sensible at a light touch)until he burns in your wife's body and she wakes up,n sh Allah....of course it's better to have the help of a good an fearless Imam,because a person like you can be involved into their tricks and they may make you see things that can sconvolt you...be strong and patient

:salam2:
Jazakallah for all your responses.

Everything you have mentioned above, i have done with other patients.
A few days ago she agreed to do ruqyah and during it she felt a burning sensation throughout her body and a bad headache. interestlingly, tears started to flow from her eyes. i asked her if she was crying, she replied 'no'
but little did i know that was the last time i will do ruqyah for a few days.

This whole situation is hard work. Again thank you for the responses!

 

[um muhammad al-mahdi]

:salam2:

you should contact a good Raqi who could make rouqya for you both and give good advices upon Quran and Sunnah. Have lots of patience brother, you know better than us that it's not your wife asking for divorce but the jinn. We are believers, don't listen to it!

 

[hayat84]

:salam2:
Jazakallah for all your responses.

Everything you have mentioned above, i have done with other patients.
A few days ago she agreed to do ruqyah and during it she felt a burning sensation throughout her body and a bad headache. interestlingly, tears started to flow from her eyes. i asked her if she was crying, she replied 'no'
but little did i know that was the last time i will do ruqyah for a few days.

This whole situation is hard work. Again thank you for the responses!

:salam2:
I had the same feeling when the ruqyia was made over my body.there is a good Imam who jinns fear,but now that I'm far from morocco,it's easy for them to get in contact with me.